She's In Charge

In any real, honest-to-goodness Female Led Relationship there has to be a surrender by the male or a meeting of the minds where the male surrenders to the Female.  The male has to accept the fact that the Wife, Girlfriend or Female Partner owns the stronger role.  

With that, comes the responsibility to submit to Her, even though you think She is wrong.  

One of the most profound, powerfully symbolic and humbling acts a male must endure is to submit to discipline whenever his Dominant decides it's time. These scenes don't always play out when the submissive happens to be "in the mood" for a spanking or other form of discipline.  Rather, they're likely to take place at the most inopportune of times.

With my Mistress 2700 miles away (give or tank 50 miles or so) and left under the supervision and care of Her best friend Linda, Mistress decided that I was due for a "maintenance spanking."  It didn't seem to matter (or who knows, perhaps it was the determining factor) that I hadn't had one of these spankings in months, Diane decided that now was the time.

Her decision came with specific instructions that included the implements (yes, implements with an "s" as in a crop and a paddle) to be used, the number of swats and the length of corner time I was to endure. 

The number of swats seemed just about brought me to tears.  Thankfully Linda showed a bit of mercy in the severity of Her strokes.  I didn't cry, nor was there anyone else there who could have possibly heard my sobs, seen me doing my time and corner and gazed at my reddened bottom.

All that being said, today was just one added layer (one of many) to reinforce that Diane has total control of the stronger role.  Her friend Linda is certainly an accomplice, but She/Diane is in charge.

love,

spanked sissy terrie 💓
 

Coffee & Cunilingus

Having a Wife, partner, lover who often wakes up horny can be a blessing to some and a curse to others.

As a submissive who now, more than ever after years of learning to serve, thoroughly enjoys to pleasure my Wife whenever She wakes up itching for satisfaction, I am truly blessed.

But some women, my Wife and Her friend Linda being two of them, both have to have their morning coffee before anything else.  That's fine with me.  

From:  Coffee With the Girls 

 

They might even take a sip now and then while they're being attended to.

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Happy Valentine's Day

This will be the first Valentine's Day since we first met that Mistress and me will be apart.  It's not a separation that has anything to do with our Female Led Marriage or cuckold lifestyle, but one that was necessitated by Her visit to a sick family member.  Fortunately, they are recovering and Mistress should be back home soon. 

I want to wish all my readers and anyone else who stops by today a very Happy Valentine's Day.  Share your love and your loving thoughts with those near you and even apart from you.  Just share it.  This world needs it.

Thought you'd like this cute little FemDom piece of art.   Many a submissive male grew up and matured in their devotion to authoritative Females with some type of direction from Elise Sutton.  Many a novice Domme did so as well.  Her writings on the subject are legendary.  She also had an extensive website that isn't around anymore but you can still purchase some of her books on Amazon, including her classic: The FemDom Experience.

I miss Elise Sutton's wisdom on the subject, but I miss my Mistress even more.  It's not really Valentine's Day without Her around.

Absence certainly makes the heart grow fonder.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕💘💖 

Cuckold Duties, Denials & a Reminder

No particular theme today but instead a couple of unrelated kinky thoughts and an important reminder.

Preparing coffee for a wife and her lover is a pretty important tank for many types of cuckolds, particularly submissive ones...

For a better view of this post, check out the Contemplating the Divine blog by Servitor.   I'm very fortunate that both Mistress and Her Lover take their coffee black.  It's a simple recipe that even I can follow.  

 

Isn't this the truth!!!  I've thought more and more about the added 60 day sentence I'm serving after the Super Bowl.  

 And by the time you read this you'll have less than one shopping day left to buy something nice for your special Valentine.  Flowers and chocolate are nice, but I think most of us would agree that some pretty lingerie takes gift giving to another level.  

If you don't have a special Valentine this year, then just treat yourself.  Head to Shadowline and buy yourself a cute little babydoll pajama set like the one shown above.  Every sissy should own at least one of them!

Love,

sissy terrie  

I love a pretty bra and panty set.

I also love women with beautiful, sensual and sexy curves.

When these to come together....it's a perfect fit. 

 

Some W/women, my Wife being one of them, believe that the color white "makes me look fat."

 I say "Nonsense.  It makes you look sexier."

 

Have a wonderful Thick Thursday!

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Full Cut & Frilly

Yes, these panties can be considered "Full Cut."  This style is often referred to as "Granny Panties" but there's nothing really grandmotherly about this particular collection.

Just one short of providing a full week's worth of feminine luxury, this half dozen pair of panties are made for just about any sissy I know.   It's hard to pick out a particular favorite. 

They provide a perfect balance (3 each) of simple girly pastels along with dainty and delicate lace, ruffles and sissy bows to send us swooning with delight!

You might not find these panties being worn by many Grandmas, but I do know some "men" of a certain age (i.e. grandpas) who'd love to prance around in them!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

When She asks you that question in the middle of your lovemaking with Her, it's kind of like a "no confidence vote" isn't it?

It's one of the most effective Small Penis Humiliation techniques as well.  

Here's a little snippet from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her cuckwife:

"Are you all the way in?"

Of course she knows the answer to her question, particularly when she’s in the missionary position position and looking you right in the eyes.

What are you supposed to say? What can you say? You've done your best. It's just not happening for Her.

She just wants you to humiliate yourself by saying “Yes I am.”

The humiliation might cause it to shrink even more and possibly even make you ejaculate prematurely, mercifully bringing another failed attempt to please her to an end.

You know she’s thinking, wishing and even wanting something bigger and better.

No picture needed for today's post.

Sometimes words are far more powerful. 

Love,

sissy terrie 😍