A few weeks ago I saw a post on Reddit's
r/PussyFreeCommunity written by a dominant woman. I hadn't been on Reddit for months and was just scrolling when the title of the post caught my eye, and the writer's comments reminded me of my own submissive journey.
I want to make my fiancé pussy-free
I want to make my fiancé pussy-free. Yes, the arrangement is deliberately unequal, that’s the entire point. I want to remove all physical access to my body so he gains real clarity and stops wavering. No more post-orgasm negotiations, no more bargaining for affection, no more “maybe if…” conversations. I need him to move fully into devotion instead of constantly hovering on the edge of commitment.
Since we began cuckolding, post-nut clarity has been a serious and recurring problem. Every time he finishes he crashes into jealousy, regret, guilt, and second-guessing the entire dynamic. Those moments of doubt undermine everything we’ve built, and I’m not willing to keep pausing or softening the rules to accommodate them. The dynamic isn’t stopping, his access is.Keeping him pussy-free is also the most direct way to reinforce the power structure we both say we want. My unambiguous dominance and his unambiguous submission. Physical denial draws a bright, permanent line. No more blurred boundaries, no more “sometimes lovers, sometimes cuckolds” confusion. He either lives in the reality of his place or he doesn’t.
This isn’t about cruelty for its own sake. It’s about consistency, structure, and finally moving past the cycle of enthusiasm, release, regret, and renegotiation. I want him clear-headed, devoted, and fully surrendered, not cycling through buyer’s remorse every time he comes.
Does anyone have any suggestions how I can bring this up to him?
The woman here really seems to have what it takes to be the Dominant partner in a Wife-Led Marriage and as such, expects a submissive whose submissive needs are a perfect match for Her own. These are lofty goals for any couple and take time to fall into place. The writer gave no indication of how long they'd been together. I give her plenty of credit for wanting to bring these issue up before they "tie the knot" and asking for advice at how to do that.
The post had many suggestions and the best one was exactly what I would have suggested based on my own experience. She should get her fiancee to buy into the importance of Her taking complete control of his orgasms. If the letdown after these orgasms are causing problems, then the only way to rectify that is to make his orgasms a rare occurrence. Morever, when she does allow them, should should make it clear that his post-nut (as she refers to them) behavior will determine when he is allowed another. Over time, I think she'll see improvement.
love,
sissy terrie 💔
