I'll bet you didn't know that today was National Housewives Day. But with the growing number of Female Led Households and stay-at-home househusbands or sissy wives, I think it's only fair that those of us who've embraced the role of "housewife" and tended to the more domestic things in the home share in this beautiful day!
So put on your favorite apron...
Then maybe some heels...
...and enjoy the day!
Love,
sissy terrie 💗
Most of know someone who's suffered from breast cancer. I'm hoping this post raises awareness about one of the issues facing many women who've had this terrible disease.
BRA (Breast Reconstruction Awareness) Day USA is observed on the third Wednesday in October.
Each breast cancer campaign brings a special focus on an area of concern. However, few shine a light on options after mastectomy or lumpectomy like BRA Day USA. While reconstruction may not be for every woman, they should have access to the available options so they can make informed decisions.
Deciding whether to reconstruct breasts after a mastectomy is a personal decision. For some, the decision is a difficult one. It is important that patients are provided with all the information and tools to make the best decision for them. Remember, they’ve lived with their body, their breasts all their life. For many women, they’ve shaped the clothes they’ve worn, fed their children, and been a part of their more intimate life.
Women who chose to not have reconstruction performed also have choices. Prosthetic design and technology continually advance. Each woman should be provided with all their options. Her network should support her in every way through the journey and reassure her that whatever decision she makes is the right one for her.
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
Happy Sunday!
I just haven't had any time to blog recently. Thanks to those of you who have reached out to me and asked if I was ok. Your concern means the world to me.
I do have lots to share with you and hopefully I will do that soon.
Diane's been incredibly as well and getting a little antsy (horny) as She hasn't been with Karl in more than two weeks. Though I've satisfied Her in the normal ways I do, She reminds me that there are some things She needs a real man for.
So what's so "sissy" about this Sunday?
A couple of things:
I'm not wearing garters like this sexy girl though. I have lace top thigh highs instead.
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
Today is Wednesday and hump day (giggles) but it's also National Plus Size Appreciation Day. Many of you know that I've always had an affinity to those sexy larger ladies, I thought I'd take a stroll down memory lace and feature some of the larger lovelies who've graced these (and other) pages of mine over the years.
Hope you enjoy!
I love her corset, but it's not the best asset of this particular photo...
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I could stare at this gusset all day long, maybe even into tomorrow!
And finally to fill out the foursome, a bottom that is in dire need of a submissive sissy's attention...
Hey, someone's got to attach those garters!
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
Just few thoughts on the subject...
Tell me your mom never said this to you...
This is the cartoon that made me think of it...
I worked in emergency rooms many years ago. While I never paid much attention to underwear, I did see all kinds.
So my advice is: Always put on your prettiest panties. You never know who's going to see them!
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
We were dinner guests at a neighbors last night and it was a very uncomfortable evening for me. My discomfort had nothing to do with the neighbors (who were wonderful hosts) the dinner or the libations they served (which were all excellent) but instead with what took place shortly before we made our way to their home.
What had been an otherwise busy and "vanilla" Saturday with both of us catching up on a week's worth of things that hadn't been done and my doing some housework (wearing an apron if you're interested), quickly turned into a situation which left me both sexually satisfied and frustrated at the same time. And as I said earlier very uncomfortable...for hours.
It all began as I was just about finished doing housework, when Diane came down wearing nothing but an open blouse and told me my services were needed upstairs. "I want you to eat me." Before I could say anything She added "Now. Drop whatever. you're doing."
I've experienced this type of authoritative behavior before, but the impact it has on me never diminishes. Her Dominance and control along with my submissiveness and obedience are on full display.
Less than a minute or two later I found myself kneeling at the foot of the bed with my face buried between Her thighs. I could tell immediately that it wouldn't take Her long to achieve an orgasm.
When it did arrive, it was powerful and She let me know it was. The little time it took led Her to insist on another.
My duties complete, She thanked me, gave me a kiss on my forehead and told me I could go finish whatever it was I was doing.
Life is full of surprises and strangely, much of it is a paradox. What took place over the span of maybe 10 minutes satisfied the great need I have to be controlled by my Dominant Wife. At the same time it left me frustrated that, unlike Diane, i had not physical sexual satisfaction.
The discomfort I experienced came from my heightened state of sexual arousal and manifested itself inside the tiny pink cage I was wearing on my "privates."
Love,
sissy terrie 💗
Yesterday's post on "National Hair Day" was kind of fun. I hope you liked it. It may have been fun but it really did nothing to dampen my gurly urge to go out and get my hair done.
I'd really like do that today but I'm just too lazy to get out of my nightie and get dressed...
Have a relaxing weekend!
Love,
sissy terrie 💙
Did you know that today is National Hair Day? I hope you didn't forget. It may be too late to book an appointment at your favorite hair salon...
I'm quite sure I'm not the only sissy who enjoys the attention and pampering that a good hairdresser can provide...
Then there's the fun of sitting under the dryer with the other gurls...
Personally, I jut love the feminine feeling of having my hair in rollers...
Love,
sissy terrie 💗
No, this post isn't about cuckolding; a steamy scenario where Diane's Lover Karl is the dinner guest I'm waiting on in a sexy sissy maids uniform. Not even close.
I'm away for a couple days by myself on a work related trip and was invited to dinner at the home of a peer of mine. I flew in earlier than usual so I could make the dinner and on the way to their place I stopped to by a bottle of wine for the hosts.
While waiting to check out I was behind a woman who caught my eye because of her beautiful brown hair. She also had a pair of sandals and a purse that I thought were very stylish. I only got to see her from behind (which was quite pleasant) until it was her turn to check out. As she prepared to pay for her items I also saw that she was wearing glasses.
The customer in front of her had experienced some problems with the credit card processor and sure enough, so did she. During the back and forth conversation between the woman and the sales associate, I noticed that the "woman" had a very masculine sounding voice. Without obviously staring, closer inspection made me think that she was a biological male who was perhaps transitioning or maybe just going out dressed as a female. Were it not for her voice, I would have never suspected anything.
Part of me was envious. I got to thinking how it might have been fun to check into my hotel, get all prettied up and my "terrie" clothes and head to my dinner invite.
Instead, I wore some boring khakis, golf shirt and blue blazer. But underneath were some simple but feminine pink panties and chastity cage; ever-present reminders of who I really am.
Love,
sissy terrie 💓
Happy Sunday!
When Diane's Lover spends the night, I always have to make sure I'm up early enough to serve them coffee when they wake up.
Diane might simply open the master bedroom door and shout out "Coffee please?" or something similar and I make my way upstairs with two piping hot cups of coffee just the way they like them.
I'm also dressed appropriately.
Not very sissy, but very "fitting."
Love,
sissy cuckold terrie 💗💙💗
Happy Saturday!
Consider this an informal "Panty Poll" of sorts. The stimulus for this post came just moments ago when Diane informed me that Karl would be over this evening and spending the night.
"I'd like you in some special panties" She said. "Maybe something a little sissier that usual." I just love how She has a way of arousing me in an instant.
I smile and answered "Of course Mistress."
Is there a better way to start the day?
As a girl who enjoys a fuller cut panty most of the time, I have an idea which panty I'm going to wear tonight. It's a big fantasy of mine to have some sissy friends over and help me get ready for just such occasions and "letting the decide" what panties I should wear.
So...just imagine that you're going to choose the panties Diane's lover Karl will see me in. Which one of these would YOU choose?
Number 1...
Number 2...
Or number 4....
I love them all but....
Love,
sissy cuckold terrie 👄
Well, you don't think we'd be driving Harleys do you?
My sissy friend (and somewhat neighbor) Lavender Sachet (that's right...that's her name. Don't you love it?) has a thing for riding scooters dressed up all nice and pretty.
Here she is enjoying the welcoming city of San Francisco...
Further down the coast in LA, sissy surfers are more likely to be driving (and dressing in) something more appropriate for Santa Monica Boulevard....
Check out Lavender's Tumblr blog "sissies on SCOOTERS." What else did you expect her to call it?
Love,
sissy terrie (born to be mild) 👄
I brought a couple of nighties on this week's short trip, both of them babydolls. I find babydolls to be the most feminine of sleepwear and I've had a love affair with them as long as I can remember. Over the years the styles of babydoll pajamas have changed and I long for those from the 50's and 60's!
I thought I'd post several babydoll pictures and artwork, all of them from pop arstist Peter Tschirky's Tumblr Blog...
Be sure to visit Peter's site and check out his beautiful collection of feminine art and photos.
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
My sexy sissy European gurlfriend cindy did some serious shopping last week. First, she bought a new dress...
Then, among other things she purchased some very pretty panties...
So today, she asked me which pair she should wear with that dress.
I told her I couldn't decide unless she took a vacation this winter and modeled them for me.
Otherwise, I'll just have to tell her which panties my readers chose!
Just let me know.
Hope everyone had a lovely weekend.
Hugs and kisses,
sissy terrie 💕💕💕
I think most women (and cd's, sissies, etc.) prefer to wear panties under their pantyhose.
I could be wrong.
I had packed some pantyhose on a business trip I took this week. I only did so because I like the feel of them and I felt like doing something a little risque - going through security at the airport and maybe having to take my shoes off and let everyone see I wasn't wearing "socks." The whole thing was unlikely since I have TSA PreCheck, but you never know.
So what's your preference? Going "au naturel" under your pantyhose?
Or wearing some pretty panties?
Love
sissy terrie 👄
It's been awhile since I had a "Two for Tuesday" feature.
For me, the femininity of these two outfits speak for themselves...
The full frothiness of this petticoat dress ensures that you're going to get plenty of attention. I think I'd wear a simple white panty with it.
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
Granted, this is all from a FemDom/sissy perspective.
A few of pictures from some of my favorite artists that touch one or more of my "buttons."
I've always loved Rodzo's approach to FemDom. Plenty of facesitting upon helpless mails, with the smothering often at the hands (and buttocks) of beautiful curvy women. This poor boy was surprised his kinky girlfriend had a big sister...
This rendition of a pretty woman in a vintage babydoll pajama makes me swoon. They don't make them with those puffy sleeves anymore...
Something from the great Sardax, who always seems to capture the scene like an Oscar-winning director. The photo soothes with dominance and submission, with a sissy maid as the centerpiece no less...
And finally something from Youmine'-guo that features my favorite position - my legs spread and in the diaper position to accept Mistress' penetration.
I hope everyone had as wonderful a weekend as I did. I was in bra and thigh highs while we did this by the way. My panties had already been tossed aside.
Love,
sissy terrie 💋💋💋
We all have our little (or big) sissy secrets. Some of them may be just fantasies we've never shared. Others may be things we've actually done...
I thought it might be nice to just throw the question out there and see if anyone has anything they'd like to share here in a very non-judgemental setting. So here goes...
What's the "sissiest" thing you've ever done and not shared with anyone, or your sissiest fantasy that you've never told a soul?
Feel free to leave your comment anonymously if you want.
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
Let me apologize for the lack of editorial content today. It's a busy week.
I'll let this montage of beautiful babydoll pajamas do the talking!
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
While yesterday's post was a rather thoughtful, tame and softer collection of thoughts on the subject of FemDom and Female Led Relationships, today's will probably make those of you with more prurient interests smile a little.
After having been on the "receiving end" of penetrative sex with Diane for so many years, I thought I'd share some things that have made it pleasurable - for the both of us...
First of all, foreplay is important.
The best sex always has plenty of foreplay. Showing Her how much I want it turns both of us on. So what if you gag a little?
Be realistic about size.
While most strap-on/pegging porn features leathered ladies with massive members, the fact of the matter is that our bottoms aren't made to accept "things" that big. Find a dildo that is reasonable in size but can reach that special "P' spot. Believe me, once She gets good at it, you'll love it!
A good lube is very important.
And you can never use too much. More is better. The application of the lube can be sexy in and of itself as evidenced by this picture. It's also nice when She uses Her fingers to apply lube to our boi pussies!
Learn to help Her out.
You can assist Her in various positions. Whether you "back onto it" or change your position to allow for more penetration, playing a more active role in the lovemaking will probably turn Her on!
Enjoy the moment.
Savor the intimacy. It doesn't have to, nor should it, end when you have an orgasm. Feeling Her inside of you is such a beautiful experience. Let it last.
Love,
sissy terrie 👄
Some mid-week thoughts and free advice on "living the life"...
After having written about some of our (Mistress and mine) more steamy scenes, those where She exerts Her sexual dominance and prowess over me, I'm often inundated with private emails and comments here telling me what a "lucky sissy" I am.
I always love receiving those comments and hearing those words. They are reminders that I should never take Diane's love for granted - NEVER. They make me realize how many "men" out there who have desires that are very similar to mine never get the opportunity to experience some of the things I do.
At the same time a real life Female Led Relationship involves so much beyond the sex. It's not always about chastity, feminization, strap-on sex, body worship, discipline, humiliation, etc. Though all of these when taken in their totality play an important part in our lives, the fact is that as we've matured, they are not THE most important, nor are they the things that keep it all together.
The things that happen in our daily lives that are influenced by my surrendering control to Diane serve as the foundation of our relationship. Let me give you some examples. These are things I learned years ago from a dear friend, "Jane", a submissive wife to her dominant husband. Diane and me knew the couple very well. As a submissive cd/sissy, I could relate to Jane and she even served as a "mentor" to me in some ways. The following is a few pieces of advice she gave me. Note that I've made "gender specific" changes to reflect our own specific situation. She called them Jane's Rules...
Terry's Rules
Never React Immediately
Take your time responding - When something makes you uncomfortable, you don't agree with something, something angers you or you just flatly disagree, think about your response carefully before saying something.
Compliment Her Regularly
Appreciate Her - Whenever She does something nice to or for you, take the time to thank Her properly. Point out Her achievements and praise Her. Never let a day go buy without complimenting Her and thanking Her.
Don't be Upset When She's in a Bad Mood
Consider Her Feelings - When She's in a bad mood and not paying attention to your needs, don't whine or nag, be patient and supportive of Her. Be there for Her, just as She is there for you.
Smile More - Be Happy
Make Her happier by being happy yourself - As Her submissive you must be attentive to Her needs and moods. Your own mood is important as well. No one likes being with a submissive who isn't in a bood mood. Make an effort to appreciate the little things; this will put you in a better mood. Your smile and happiness will make the world of difference to Her.
Give Her Space
Don't bother Her with too many questions - If you can tell She isn't feeling well, not talkative, etc. give Her some space and don't be constantly asking Her if you can do something for Her. Ask once and if She says "No" then you must accept it, take a step back and wait patiently until you are needed.
These are some of the suggestions Jane provided me. There's more and they are all pretty simple and wise. They may appear to be easy but they can be more difficult than you think to get used to. Success starts when you, the submissive agrees to surrender control to your Dominant. Once you've fully accepted that, it becomes much easier.
Remember - "To thine own self be true."
Finally, a special shout-out to Jane who will always be a dear and loving friend.
Love,
sissy terrie 💕
