From Penguins To Pole Vaulters

I want to start today's post with a shout-out to the always-entertaining and beautiful Ms. Vanessa Chaland, Domme extraordinaire and author of the blog Queening Chairs - Spanking Benches - BDSM.  After reading Her post today I just had to share it with my own Mistress who actually enjoyed it more than I did.  When you read it you'll understand why.  It also led to Her teasing me (for obvious readings) and ordering me to dig up an old post of Hers from Her old "To Love, Honor & Obey" blog which is currently dark and on-hold indefinitely.   Here it is in it's unedited original version...

Alphas & Betas

This post first appeared on our original "A Married Sissy" blog several years ago.   Thought you might like to see it again.  

Flightless Birds

I've had some rather interesting discussions about cuckolding and other kinky subjects with a married dominant male friend of ours.  We met Pete and his submissive wife/cuckqueen at a fetish party we attended and became friends with them as well as a few other couples.  We'd meet to "play" but there was never any "swapping" between us.  It was all in good fun and the Dom/mes got to put their subs through their paces for all to see.

I really hit it off intellectually with Pete and we had some great discussions.  I don't think the two of us would be a good match sexually because he was more of a dominant alpha bull whereas I'm more interested in a lover whose more of an equal with me, only occasionally submitting if I feel the urge.  When I'm with my lover now, I enjoy it because I'm having sex with a real man, an alpha male.  It's nice that my lover is dominant over hubwife and doesn't have the same expectations with me.  

During the course of one of our discussions, Pete had this to say about beta males... 

A penis on a beta male is similar to wings on a penguin.  From a biological perspective, it's what makes him a male but doesn't really serve a useful purpose.   It's strictly ornamental and frankly, useless.  But like the penguin with wings a beta male does serve a purpose in the world.  However, the sooner they learn their purpose, the happier they will be. 

Pete makes a lot of sense.  A beta male is far less likely to please a woman in the same way an alpha will.  The beta can certainly provide a woman with pleasure, but in a far different way.  They simply cannot "fly" like an alpha can. Of course Terrie took a lot of teasing from our friends after I affectionately referred to her as "my little penguin."

Fortunately for hubwife, she's learned her purpose some time ago and doesn't try to fly anymore.  She's done her best at trying to fly but just wasn't very good at it.

Even if she wanted to try to fly again, I wouldn't let her :)

Hope you enjoyed!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗

The Sissy Size Dilemma

Note:  Today's post comes from a reader and follower of the blog who muses on the topic of penis size and how it relates to sissies like us.  I'm sure we'll recognize ourselves in some of the things she brings up.  Enjoy!

 

I admitted it to myself years ago that I am a sissy. I wear panties every day. I live to serve Women. When I think about “having sex” with my Wife, I do not think about intercourse because She does not allow penetration, has not for years.

There was a time in my life that I used to feel bad that I had a small penis. (I won’t say how small I am. I will just say that it is not over four inches.) But now, now that I’ve accepted my status in life as a sissy, I am happy to be small. It makes sissy life easier.

Panties of various styles fit better, and often no bulge is visible even without a tuck. When I do tuck (often), there is little discomfort and achieving a smooth frontal appearance is easy with only a light control brief.

If I’m not tucked and out in public and happen to get an erection, it is (of course) not noticeable at all. My wife likes to make teasing comments when we are out to see if She can “get a rise” out of me, and I must tell Her if I become erect because She can’t tell even if She stares right at my crotch. Related to teasing, my small size gives Her plenty of material to tease me about. Even though I’ve come to prefer my small size, I still find it extremely humiliating to be reminded about it – or “threatened” that She will reveal it to Her friends.

There was a time, years ago, when I foolishly used to wish that I “had a big one.” But, no more. Since I have accepted that I am a sissy and since my Wife only allows me to pleasure Her with my mouth and with Her vibrator (which is larger than me, of course and as she loves to point out “has much more lasting power”), size truly doesn’t matter. I am proud to be small!

I’ve often wondered if it is more common for males with small penises to become sissies. I do think I was born this way. I first wore panties when I was very young. 

 

Many thanks to my anonymous friends.  The line that I absolutely love is "I am proud to be small."  How beautiful!  Talk about accepting ourselves for who we really are.  

Editor's note:  I added the picture :)

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie

Small Penis Humiliation

There are a different types and methods of small penis humiliation.  Once a Dominant Woman finds your "weak" spots, they'll exploit them and enjoy doing so.   Teasing you about it, sometimes in front of your friends is one way.   

"He's so tiny" this buxom beauty told some co-workers recently on Zoom waiting for a meeting to start.  Company rules prohibited any off color language but everyone knew what She was talking about.

 

Other Dommes simply take on a lover with a bigger penis.  It's that simple.  They approach sex entirely different with the more alpha male.  They enjoy cuckolding their lesser endowed husbands. 

 

Size matters.

Love,

sissy cuckold terrie  👄