Sex Positions & Penis Size

 

Happy Saturday!

Today's post is an "oldie but goodie" from a previous blog that my Mistress Wife Diane had at one time.  There's always hopes that She may decide to resurrect it but for now, you'll just have to enjoy some re-blogs from time to time.

So, having received Her permission to post it here, I do hope you enjoy it, along with Her own views on penetrative sex when it comes to various penis sizes.

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Sex Positions - Size Matters 

A reader sent me an interesting article about the best sex positions for penises of all sizes.  Since I've been planning on sharing some thoughts on penetrative sex, particularly when it comes to couples in Female Led Relationships, I thought this topic might be a good way to start if off.  

The article begins by stating that these sex positions will bring maximum pleasure to both partners.  Hmmm?  I'm not so sure about that.

The article states that 5.8" is the average penis size that can "cause" a woman to have an orgasm.  Interesting data don't you think?  Figures lie and liars figure, so let's just assume that's correct.   But the Journal of Sex Medicine writes that regardless of size, you can still have plenty of fun.  Yeah right.

So get our your rulers, do what you have to do to come up with a measurement and let's see how you measure up ok? 

And please, no exaggerations!

I'll show the positions for each size along with the article's rationale and add my own commentary.

So let's start with the real men who have "Big Penises."  Here's the recommended sexual position: 

"Big penis: Do a lot of foreplay to make her vagina expand and choose woman-on-top moves to control how deep you go. Just have her lean over your body with her hands on either side of your head and just get going."   

I definitely agree with this one.  Doing it this way was impossible with hubwife.  I hardly felt "it" and she kept sliding out.  If you're not close to 7", don't waste your time with this one. 

Average size?  Try this one.

 

"An average penis: Wrap her legs around your midsection and her hands around your shoulders and get down in a squat position. Close press her body up against yours as you penetrate her."

This is very romantic, intimate and fun.  Creating such a mood; satin sheets, candles, etc might help things.  But again, it would be more romantic, more intimate and more fun with a bigger penis. 

Less than six inches?  You have to make accommodations...

 

"Less than six inches penis: After adequate foreplay, go rear entry if your penis size is less than six inches. Rest her head on a pillow, lift her butt up and then penetrate her. Doing this will offer you a deep penetration."

Under six...well, it is what it is.  The pillow is definitely a good idea in case she falls asleep trying this one with a lesser endowed partner.  Deep penetration?  Kind of a relative term isn't it?

Less than four inches? Here's their recommendation for "maximum pleasure."  It's kind of like playing the game "Twister."

"Less than four-inch penis: While a rear entry position like doggie will not help you pleasure her enough; the twisted doggie position allows more room for penetration. Add a slight twist to it, and you can get the most out of it. Instead of kneeling, she could lie on her stomach with a pillow under her pelvis. You can then enter her from behind while lying on top of her."

My advice if he's less than four inches?  Don't bother.  Take matters into your own hands.  Find a quality strap-on dildo and harness, use plenty of lube and let hubby feel what you've been missing out on due to his small penis.  

 

It's a guaranteed good time.

Diane 

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Hope you enjoyed!

Love,

sissy terrie - locked and less than 4" 💗💗💗 

Strap-on Chats

When She let Her best friend in on one of our most intimate secrets, Linda was all too willing to help share the "workload."

Better Linda that some guy!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗
 

A Female Led Retreat

A spur-of-the moment decision by Mistress found us heading south for a few days (or more) at our beach front condominium.

"I just want to relax for a few days.  Kind of like a retreat" She said and added "You, not so much.  I'll keep you busy."

As soon as we arrived I was told that my dress for the time we spend inside the condo would be "panties only."  We haven't been here in several weeks so as is my usual task, I get to dust and vacuum the whole place.  This time I did it without the "benefit" of a pretty apron. 

It hasn't all been that grueling.  I have gotten to worship Mistress a few times already and She's also found ways to relieve some of Her own stress both in the gym and in the bedroom.

I've been a pretty busy sissy.

Mature Monday will be back next week!

Love,

sissy terrie 💦 

 

Safe Sex - 99.99% Of The Time

Mistress has been trying to get me pregnant for years.

As a sissy, I'm so thankful She hasn't given up!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄👄👄 

Strap-On Sex

As most of my readers know, I've been on the receiving end of penetrative sex with Diane for many years.  It's been a staple of our lovemaking, and very pleasurable for both of us.

One of the things that makes it pleasurable (and safe) is that the strap-ons She makes love to me with are all reasonable in size.  Yes, She has several - after all we've been at this awhile - but definitely has her favorite.

Yet the strap-on porn you see on the web focuses on size.   I enjoyed this particular post by Servitor on his blog this past Sunday... 

Many men prefer women of moderate size in that regard but you wouldn't think so from looking at online porn.

From: Contemplating the Divine 

Yes, plenty of lube is so important, but lube has its limits to effectiveness.   Here's a very sexy piece of art from the Erotic Art tumblr site that reminded me very much of Diane.

I'd say most submissives would consider it size-appropriate.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Pleasing Her Sissy-Style

When Her Lover's not around, Mistress has one fewer option when it comes to being sexually pleased.  In my current state I am in no position to fill in for Karl (not that I ever was) and besides, I am way out of practice.  The last time I penetrated Her (not that deeply) was a long, long, long time ago.

So since I'm like this...

..and Mistress is "in the mood" for some penetration, this is usually Her preferred option:

So last night, I spent time sucking on the short end of this face-harness strap-on dildo while She smothered and rode my face. 

I good time was had by all.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Sissy Gift Giving

In many traditions around the world, the Christmas season extends to January 6th.  In Italy for example, an older women will give out gifts on this date to little children in their Christmas stockings.

The photo below is perfect for the establishment of a tradition in Female Led Relationships.  What's better than a Dominant Wife buying themselves a gift for their subs and sissies to give to them?  You know, something they can really use!

Even better when you can put it somewhere else than inside a silly Christmas stocking! 

From the Tumblr site Denial Permanente

But all this is just fantasy for me.  Diane would never think of giving me anything that would lead me to try and act like a real man with Her.   I do fantasize about at least trying to bring Her to an orgasm with a man-sized member strapped on over my chastity belt.

If you're excited, fearful, curious or whatever about chastity, I think you'll enjoy the Denial Permanente Tumblr site.  See the link above.

Love,

Sissy terrie 💓 

Sunday Spankings - Be Careful What You Wish For

Last Sunday I had a post about Sunday Spankings where I mused about how some D/s relationships or Female Led Marriages set aside Sunday for disciplinary sessions.   my Wife happened to read the post (She doesn't read them all) but didn't say anything to me about it until about a half hour ago.

"Do you miss your Sunday spankings?" She asked me as I served Her a fresh cup of coffee.

"Well sometimes I do, but not really" I answered.

"I miss them" She said in Her inimitable authoritative way with a slight emphasis on the "I", the emphasis indicating that Her opinion is all that really matters on the issue.  She quickly added "Get your punishment panties out.  You'll be wearing them later.

That's all it took to my little "thing" to stir slightly in my tiny cage.  Visions of pulling my panties down to expose my girly ass for Diane to administer a spanking.  Had I done anything wrong this week?  Did it matter?  

"Yes Ma'am" I answered and asked if there was any specific spanking implement She would like me take out.

"No.  I'll decide later.  But you can take my strap-on out."

"Yes Ma'am" I answered, feeling like a very submissive sissy wife.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Thoughts on Pegging

While yesterday's post was a rather thoughtful, tame and softer collection of thoughts on the subject of FemDom and Female Led Relationships, today's will probably make those of you with more prurient interests smile a little.

After having been on the "receiving end" of penetrative sex with Diane for so many years, I thought I'd share some things that have made it pleasurable - for the both of us...

First of all, foreplay is important.

The best sex always has plenty of foreplay.  Showing Her how much I want it turns both of us on.  So what if you gag a little?

Be realistic about size.

While most strap-on/pegging porn features leathered ladies with massive members, the fact of the matter is that our bottoms aren't made to accept "things" that big.  Find a dildo that is reasonable in size but can reach that special "P' spot.  Believe me, once She gets good at it, you'll love it!

A good lube is very important.

And you can never use too much.  More is better.  The application of the lube can be sexy in and of itself as evidenced by this picture.  It's also nice when She uses Her fingers to apply lube to our boi pussies!

Learn to help Her out.

You can assist Her in various positions.  Whether you "back onto it" or change your position to allow for more penetration, playing a more active role in the lovemaking will probably turn Her on!

Enjoy the moment.

Savor the intimacy.  It doesn't have to, nor should it, end when you have an orgasm.  Feeling Her inside of you is such a beautiful experience.  Let it last.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Sexy in Her Strap-on

In Her most Dominant of moods, Mistress is likely to tell me to fetch Her strap-on harness and simply take charge.  Rarely does it come totally by surprise.  Having spent many years with Her, I can sense the buildup over a few days.  I do my best to "be ready."

What eventually plays out is what I consider to be the ultimate "role reversal" as we go through the "process."  Despite Her feminine beauty, charm and more, She's in full "Alpha" mode with Her girl cock firmly in place.  Dressed appropriately for what's about to transpire and already in a deep subspace, Her demeanor awakens my most beta and feminine of feelings.

Forgive me for sounding misogynistic, but from foreplay to finish, She uses me just as any man would enjoy his dutiful wife.

Love,

sissy terrie 💖