Bulls & Cuckolds

Here's an interesting take on cuckold relationships, particularly how a wife might react to the dynamic between her bull and the cuckold, courtesy of the Tumblr blog Ms. C and Her Cuckwife.

Bull & Cuckold Dynamics - How Does it Affect Her?

When a couple takes that first step into the cuckold lifestyle, no matter how much preparation, research, vetting of potential lovers and care they've taken before starting, there will always be plenty of questions that remain. No one really knows how each of the parties involved are going to react to certain situations.

It's one thing to read about it, think about it, hear each others' feelings about it, talk openly about it (even as part of your sexual intimacies) and fantasize about it, but when that third person enters your life and begins to have sex with your wife, it's then that reality sets in.

There also comes a point, often dependent on the type of relationship that is sought, where the Alpha/beta dynamic starts to develop between the Bull and the cuckold. To what extent has that been discussed before? How far will it go? How dominant does the Bull want to be over the wife and the cuck? Who's willing to push the envelope? What if an Alpha Bull is more dominant than the cuckold or the wife expected? How will each of them react?

So much of this is trial and error. Not every step that's taken will work out perfectly.

 

The photo and caption above, as simple and filled with fantasy as it may seem, is very, very real. It's a real life example of a situation that could play out in any cuckold relationship. The wife seems surprised at her lovers' brazen domination and bullying of the cuckold. She may honestly be surprised, but she loves it. It excites her. It makes her want her bull even more.

What might be hellish, upsetting, embarrassing and very humiliating for the cuckold, and taken to a level the cuck never expected, at the same provides the wife a sexual excitement she has never experienced before. And it might be one she doesn't want to let go of.

Be prepared. If you're a submissive like I was when Carol and Jim began their relationship, you're likely to experience much stronger emotions than you expected.

Hope you enjoyed!

Love,

 

sissy terrie 👄👄👄 

Corset Poses - Two for Tuesday

I'm a "softie" in a number of ways.

And I've definitely got a soft spot for corsets.  They used to make me much harder than they do now (but that's a story for another post) however they still excite me.

I love how corsets look and feel on me but they're even more alluring on beautiful women of all shapes, sizes, ages, etc.

Take this gorgeous redhead who, AI generated or not, provides us with the prettiest of poses in these pictures.   First the front...

And now the back...

Which pose is your preference?  Mine is definitely the backside.  Most of you probably know my fascination with pretty bottoms in and out of panties, but those with a perfectly fitting panty with a beautiful gusset....mmmmm.

Photos courtesy of Brief Panty Nympho, a rather classy site on Tumblr that will fascinate you with feminine finery. 

I haven't done Two-for-Tuesday posts in quite some time.  Hope to continue with this in the weeks to come!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

She's In Charge

In any real, honest-to-goodness Female Led Relationship there has to be a surrender by the male or a meeting of the minds where the male surrenders to the Female.  The male has to accept the fact that the Wife, Girlfriend or Female Partner owns the stronger role.  

With that, comes the responsibility to submit to Her, even though you think She is wrong.  

One of the most profound, powerfully symbolic and humbling acts a male must endure is to submit to discipline whenever his Dominant decides it's time. These scenes don't always play out when the submissive happens to be "in the mood" for a spanking or other form of discipline.  Rather, they're likely to take place at the most inopportune of times.

With my Mistress 2700 miles away (give or tank 50 miles or so) and left under the supervision and care of Her best friend Linda, Mistress decided that I was due for a "maintenance spanking."  It didn't seem to matter (or who knows, perhaps it was the determining factor) that I hadn't had one of these spankings in months, Diane decided that now was the time.

Her decision came with specific instructions that included the implements (yes, implements with an "s" as in a crop and a paddle) to be used, the number of swats and the length of corner time I was to endure. 

The number of swats seemed just about brought me to tears.  Thankfully Linda showed a bit of mercy in the severity of Her strokes.  I didn't cry, nor was there anyone else there who could have possibly heard my sobs, seen me doing my time and corner and gazed at my reddened bottom.

All that being said, today was just one added layer (one of many) to reinforce that Diane has total control of the stronger role.  Her friend Linda is certainly an accomplice, but She/Diane is in charge.

love,

spanked sissy terrie 💓
 

Coffee & Cunilingus

Having a Wife, partner, lover who often wakes up horny can be a blessing to some and a curse to others.

As a submissive who now, more than ever after years of learning to serve, thoroughly enjoys to pleasure my Wife whenever She wakes up itching for satisfaction, I am truly blessed.

But some women, my Wife and Her friend Linda being two of them, both have to have their morning coffee before anything else.  That's fine with me.  

From:  Coffee With the Girls 

 

They might even take a sip now and then while they're being attended to.

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Happy Valentine's Day

This will be the first Valentine's Day since we first met that Mistress and me will be apart.  It's not a separation that has anything to do with our Female Led Marriage or cuckold lifestyle, but one that was necessitated by Her visit to a sick family member.  Fortunately, they are recovering and Mistress should be back home soon. 

I want to wish all my readers and anyone else who stops by today a very Happy Valentine's Day.  Share your love and your loving thoughts with those near you and even apart from you.  Just share it.  This world needs it.

Thought you'd like this cute little FemDom piece of art.   Many a submissive male grew up and matured in their devotion to authoritative Females with some type of direction from Elise Sutton.  Many a novice Domme did so as well.  Her writings on the subject are legendary.  She also had an extensive website that isn't around anymore but you can still purchase some of her books on Amazon, including her classic: The FemDom Experience.

I miss Elise Sutton's wisdom on the subject, but I miss my Mistress even more.  It's not really Valentine's Day without Her around.

Absence certainly makes the heart grow fonder.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕💘💖 

Cuckold Duties, Denials & a Reminder

No particular theme today but instead a couple of unrelated kinky thoughts and an important reminder.

Preparing coffee for a wife and her lover is a pretty important tank for many types of cuckolds, particularly submissive ones...

For a better view of this post, check out the Contemplating the Divine blog by Servitor.   I'm very fortunate that both Mistress and Her Lover take their coffee black.  It's a simple recipe that even I can follow.  

 

Isn't this the truth!!!  I've thought more and more about the added 60 day sentence I'm serving after the Super Bowl.  

 And by the time you read this you'll have less than one shopping day left to buy something nice for your special Valentine.  Flowers and chocolate are nice, but I think most of us would agree that some pretty lingerie takes gift giving to another level.  

If you don't have a special Valentine this year, then just treat yourself.  Head to Shadowline and buy yourself a cute little babydoll pajama set like the one shown above.  Every sissy should own at least one of them!

Love,

sissy terrie  

I love a pretty bra and panty set.

I also love women with beautiful, sensual and sexy curves.

When these to come together....it's a perfect fit. 

 

Some W/women, my Wife being one of them, believe that the color white "makes me look fat."

 I say "Nonsense.  It makes you look sexier."

 

Have a wonderful Thick Thursday!

Love,

sissy terrie 💖