Serving Her Friends

A little piece of Mature Monday flash fiction...

"Don't worry, they can all keep a secret" the Mother-in-law said as she assured her sissy cuckold son-in-law.  "Besides, look how long Janet has known about you and accepted you, and she hasn't said a word.  What's it been, nearly three years now?"

The sissy nodded in agreement, but expanding that circle of friends with two more was a big leap of faith for him.   He wasn't sure he could go through with it, but at the same time, didn't want to disappoint his Mother-in-law, with whom he'd enjoyed many intimate moments.

"Look, you have to trust me.  You know I love you and I love showing you off.  Do it for me" she said.  Then surprisingly added "Tell you what, you won't have to wear. your chastity cage.  They don't need to see that."

The sissy cuckold found some relief in that.  His mother-in-law approached him and gave him a soft kiss on the lips.  "Thank you" she said.  The kiss coaxed a smile out of the sissy.

Shortly after the women arrived an hour or so later, the sissy was introduced in a pretty bra and panty set and some stockings.  The women were welcoming and almost astonished at the "male" in front of them.

Perhaps not being kept in chastity wasn't as good an idea as it seemed a little while ago.  The humiliation was bad enough being seen like this, but now the sissy wasn't able to hide his excitement as his little clitty grew in his panties.

The woman's eyes seemed fixated on his crotch and the little bulge there.  He could feel it worsen and eventually knew that he had likely spotted his panties.  The orgasm arrived just a few moments later.

A couple of the woman smiled, one put her hand over her mouth but "Mom" just got up and put her arms around her sissy son-in-law.  

"It's okay honey" she said. "These things happen.  It's all good."

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 
 

A Pussy-Free Fiancee?

A few weeks ago I saw a post on Reddit's r/PussyFreeCommunity written by a dominant woman.  I hadn't been on Reddit for months and was just scrolling when the title of the post caught my eye, and the writer's comments reminded me of my own submissive journey.

 

I want to make my fiancé pussy-free

I want to make my fiancé pussy-free. Yes, the arrangement is deliberately unequal, that’s the entire point. I want to remove all physical access to my body so he gains real clarity and stops wavering. No more post-orgasm negotiations, no more bargaining for affection, no more “maybe if…” conversations. I need him to move fully into devotion instead of constantly hovering on the edge of commitment.

Since we began cuckolding, post-nut clarity has been a serious and recurring problem. Every time he finishes he crashes into jealousy, regret, guilt, and second-guessing the entire dynamic. Those moments of doubt undermine everything we’ve built, and I’m not willing to keep pausing or softening the rules to accommodate them. The dynamic isn’t stopping, his access is.

Keeping him pussy-free is also the most direct way to reinforce the power structure we both say we want. My unambiguous dominance and his unambiguous submission. Physical denial draws a bright, permanent line. No more blurred boundaries, no more “sometimes lovers, sometimes cuckolds” confusion. He either lives in the reality of his place or he doesn’t.

This isn’t about cruelty for its own sake. It’s about consistency, structure, and finally moving past the cycle of enthusiasm, release, regret, and renegotiation. I want him clear-headed, devoted, and fully surrendered, not cycling through buyer’s remorse every time he comes.

 Does anyone have any suggestions how I can bring this up to him?

The woman here really seems to have what it takes to be the Dominant partner in a Wife-Led Marriage and as such, expects a submissive whose submissive needs are a perfect match for Her own.  These are lofty goals for any couple and take time to fall into place.  The writer gave no indication of how long they'd been together.  I give her plenty of credit for wanting to bring these issue up before they "tie the knot" and asking for advice at how to do that. 

The post had many suggestions and the best one was exactly what I would have suggested based on my own experience.  She should get her fiancee to buy into the importance of Her taking complete control of his orgasms.  If the letdown after these orgasms are causing problems, then the only way to rectify that is to make his orgasms a rare occurrence.   Morever, when she does allow them, should should make it clear that his post-nut (as she refers to them) behavior will determine when he is allowed another.   Over time, I think she'll see improvement.  

love,

sissy terrie 💔 

Male Chastity - One Woman's Perspective

I'm estimating that 95% or more of the people who read this blog are submissive males.  Many of "us" have very similar thoughts, ideas, opinions, fantasies, etc.  Sometimes it is nice to read about how the other 5% sees things.

Today's post is from a Dominant Woman who chose to have her husband wear "the ultimate wedding ring" - a chastity cage.

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Intimacy Through Male Chastity

One of my main goals when I took charge of the relationship was to find ways to increase the intimacy between my husband and I, and surprisingly, one of the largest contributors has been male chastity. When men think of intimacy, they naturally think of sex. For most guys, it's the same thing.

We've all been there, right ladies? When you're not in the mood for sex but you know he wants it. A cuddle, a few kisses and some loving touches would be nice, but you don't go there because it will encourage him to pester you for sex and at that moment you just want to be held.

So you keep him at arms length, and you both lose out on intimacy just so you can avoid having unwanted sex. You end up feeling a bit guilty for holding him off and he feels rejected. It just sucks for both of you.

Enter male chastity. Why lock up his cock? Well, while he's wearing it, it removes the pressure on you to have sex when you not in the mood for it yourself. By keeping him on a fairly rigid release schedule, he knows it isn't going to happen for him that day. 

One of the amazing things about male chastity is it teaches him that while sex and intimacy can be intricately linked, they aren't necessarily the same thing. He learns that, most of the time, he doesn't need to put his penis into you to feel loved and wanted.

While he can't have penetrative sex, he will still crave other types of intimacy, and he learns that most of the time, cuddling, kissing, and touching can be enough for him to feel desired and validated, even though he remains horny.

For me persomally, once the pressure to have sex is removed, I find myself being intimate with him more often than ever before, as the reason to hold him off is eliminated. Funny thing is, random loving kisses and caresses will often put me in playful mood, while knowing things won't escalate any further than I want them to at the time.

Feeling his lust for me, tends to fuel my own desire, and I find myself teasing him to distraction while he is so helplessly locked up. Even though he is still locked in chastity and will remain so, he can't help but want to touch and caress me back, and I begin to welcome his advances.. In his lust fueled state, sexual attention in any form is better than none at all, and he concentrates on my pleasure, giving me a wonderful orgasm that I didn't think I even wanted initially.

Maybe that's why a lot of males who are locked in chastity in their relationships get addicted to it, never wanting to give it up. Even though they get less sexual relief, they get more of what they really need, intimacy, leaving them feeling more loved and content overall.

Hope you enjoyed!

love,

sissy terrie  💗

Smart & Sexy

 Just thought you should know...

From the National Today website: 

Smart and Sexy Day is held annually on March 13, and we are pumped up to celebrate the skills, quick-wit, and ingenuity of magnificent women in their various career fields. Do you know that according to research, women constitute about 49% of the global workforce? And the number is set to increase as women have been actively seeking jobs and employment opportunities in recent times.

 

I will be forever grateful to be married to a very sexy and incredibly smart Woman.   Not only is She much smarter than me, She's also far more Dominant.  Another gift I'm grateful for.

Don't forget to give thanks to the smart and sexy women in your life today!

love,

sissy terrie  👄👄👄

Big Girls in Babydolls

Sexiness knows no size.  Girls with curves have always caught my attention.  And when those curves are adorned with my favorite sleepwear style, I get even more excited.

This Thursday features two sizeable beauties in pretty babydoll pajamas...

This babydoll top leaves little to the imagination, nor does that sexy thong.  Doesn't she look delicious? 

And this pretty pink number enhances this Queen's femininity.  I'm jealous!
 

Feel free to submit ideas for Thick Thursdays!

love

sissy terrie 💗 

Panty Shopping

I think every sissy remembers the first time they ever went panty shopping.  I don't mean browsing online and picking out the pretty panties you want to by.  I'm talking about the old fashioned brick and mortar type of shopping where you get to experience being surrounded with rows and rows of bras, panties, garters, slips, nighties and other lovely unmentionables!

As the years go by, though it can still be exciting to "go" shopping accompanied by your Mistress or other special friend, there's something to be said about the convenience of shopping online.   Even better is when you're a regular customer and they notify you about new products and sales.

I thought I'd share this promotion I got from Vanity Fair Lingerie in my inbox this morning.   I've got plenty of panties but I thought their panty sale (5 panties for $35) was a pretty good deal.    

Vanity Fair Lingerie 

Just as an FYI, I just spent a lovely "Matching Panty Day" with a sissy friend.  Under the control and direction of Mistress Diane, we each wore white Vanity Fair Ravissant panties that day.  They felt so nice.  You can five of these lovely panties for just $35.  In addition to white, they come in some other very pretty and feminine pastels as well!  Just click HERE.

Who knows, maybe we can a few more sissies to join in a Matching Panty Day!

love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Big Sisters

I can't imagine going through the type of embarrassment and humiliation this young man experienced, but given my early experiences with cross dressing, it wouldn't have been outside the realm of possibility.  

The picture captures an era way before my time, and the two giggle girls look to be about the same age as my sisters were when their baby brother developed an interest in their panties and bras.   Mom never really confronted me this way, though one of my sisters actually caught me in the act once (read about it here). A long conversation ensued and I don't believe she ever told my mom.

The scene above makes for good fantasy.  Mom's plan to teach the boy a lesson might be just what he wanted, despite his sisters relishing in his "misery."  There isn't as great an age difference between him and his sisters as there was with me and mine.   Perhaps that's why the sister that actually caught me showed a little more compassion.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗