Active vs Passive Dominance

Earlier this week I wrote how a submissive friend of mine was yearning to be locked in chastity while I, after months of denial was yearning to be set free - Chastity, Orgasm Denial & Patience. A very similar situation just occurred a few days ago with my sissy sister Nancy-Jane. 

Nancy-Jane and me are incredibly similar in our desires, yet our two Mistress' couldn't be more different though very dominant, just unique in their separate approaches.

Mistress Diane practices what I would call is a very active type of control and dominance.  Nancy's wife, Mistress Kelly's approach is much more passive, to the point of sometimes displaying outright indifference.   

As you might expect, Nancy-Jane lusts for the type of dominance Diane dishes out and I fantasize about the treatment Nancy-Jane receives from Kelly.

Here's an incident that took place just this week which left me aching (literally and figuratively) for feeling what Nacny-Jane did...

Kelly and Nancy-Jane were getting ready to leave for a couple of weeks to visit friends in Florida, escaping the frigid temps of the Northeast.  Though Nancy-Jane had just worshiped Ms. Kelly a couple of days before and was allowed to cum in her panties (NJ's not locked like I am), the night before their departure Kelly, in a very business like manner told Nancy"

"I don't want you to be all frisky while we're on our vacation.  We'll be staying at our friends' place and I know how you can get.  I want you to masturbate now and get it out of your system."

The timing of the command surprised Nancy.  They were both getting ready for the trip and finishing up packing.  NJ's hesitation didn't sit well with Kelly....

"Get your lube and get on with it.  Kneel on the bed and masturbate" Kelly said and continued going about her business.

NJ was obedient, got the lube, knelt on the bed and began to stroke herself.  The thought of this type of  treatment drove me crazy with arousal and humiliation as NJ was relaying her story.  

As NJ stroked, Kelly walked around the bedroom in nothing but bra and panties, just going about her business.  From the master bathroom, came Kelly's voice...

"You sound like you're getting close.  I hope you take too long."

Nancy said she was indeed close, but what Kelly did next "sealed the deal."

"Her you go panty boi" Kelly said as she walked by the bed and tossed her worn panties in front of NJ "these should help."

They did.  Nancy came before the panties landed right in front of her.   

Kelly's arrogant indifference, no doubt purposefully managed, just drove me crazy with lust.  Her passive control of the situation was nothing short of masterful.   Nancy's masturbation was fulfilling her wishes.    

After coming back "down" from her sissy-style orgasm, Nancy got a well-deserved "good boi" from Kelly. 

I'm still tight in my cage thinking about it.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💞💕💕 

Her Favorite Toy

My unsuccessful Super Bowl wager is already two weeks (14 days) old, leaving at least another 44 days until my next orgasm.

It goes without saying that Mistress is under no such restraint when it comes to Her own sexual satisfaction.   Whether Her Lover Karl is around or absent doesn't matter.  I am always available to provide Her relief and/or satisfaction in my own way and She has other options.

When She makes use of those options, it's a double denial of sorts for me.  I don't get to orgasm myself and even worse, I don't get the pleasure of of serving Her orally.  The latter is a true gift which I am always grateful for.

But sometimes I am given permission to at least watch.  Locked in my cage, positioned properly a step or two away from "the scene", sometimes even tethered our bound in some way I assume the role of a voyeur, feeling my level of excitement increase with Her own, only to be prevented from reaching the promised land. 

And for whatever reason, when I am reduced to spectator status, my views are somehow always obstructed in some way, either by mine or her own positioning, or some other obstacle in the way.  

Last night when Mistress decided She was in need of an orgasm, She chose the self-gratification option and had me get Her favorite toy all charged up.  Call it Her "old reliable" Magic Wand, I'm still tasked with plugging it in and getting it ready for Her.  If She's in a hurry and it's not fully charged, there's always an extension chord.

I was positioned at the foot of the bed, fully anticipating a nice view of Her privates as She massaged them with the humming and buzzing vibrator when She disappointingly "turned things around" on me. 

She sensed my disappointment and smiled.

"Can't I at least see a bit more?" I pleaded.

"Oh come on.  Stop it.  I know you love watch, not matter how much or how little you see" She laughed.

She teased me a bit as She pleasured Herself.  Asking me if I was jealous of Her Magic Wand and if I would like to feel it buzzing on my cage.  There were other questions, the answers to most of them being "Yes Mistress."

She took Her time, an indication that the Magic Wand was indeed Her favorite toy.  And Her orgasm, though perhaps not thunderous, was clearly a powerful and enjoyable one.

When it was over, She invited up onto the bed.  My hopes that I would get to minister to Her juicy folds after the orgasm were quickly dashed. 

"Here you go" She said.  "Clean it like you would Karl's cock."

The big bulbous head of the wand was put to my lips and I did as I was told.  I licked it clean, tasting and sucking up whatever juices remained on the rubber toy that She held to my mouth.  Playfully, She turned the vibrating head on a few times to remind me of what She'd just experienced and what I was missing.

Whether it be Her Lover's cock or Her favorite toy, I clean them like a good cuckold.

Love,

sissy terrie 👅👄👅 

May Day! May Day! - Time to Enjoy Yourself!!!!

Did you know that May is International Masturbation Month?

And also, May 28th is International Masturbation day?

I know it may seem a little strange to read about this on a blog written by someone who's been locked in chastity 99% of the time for more than 9 years.  That doesn't mean that I haven't masturbated in all that time.  When there's a will (along with a benevolent Mistress) there's a way!

So why wait until May 28th to have a good time and partake in a little bit (or a lot) of self love?  Why not do it today? 

And while you're at it, think about sharing with us how it went.   

Here's something from a post I put up in August '2022 on Sissy Masturbation: 

All I'd like to know is...

Please share.  Don't limit yourself to just the physical or positioning aspect of it (of course those are important) but feel free to expound on any favorite toys, articles of lingerie, scenes, etc.  

I'm sure readers would love to hear.  Anonymous comments are welcome :)

Kisses,

👄👄👄 sissy terrie 👋👏👌

Sissy Masturbation - Different Strokes for Different Folks

We've all done it right?  Probably lots and lots of times.  Taking matters into our own hands or hand when our sexual energy and frustration gets the best of us can be a difficult topic to discuss with anyone.

I'm not going to write very much about it now.  Call this a lazy-sissy-ass post.  

All I'd like to know is...

Please share.  Don't limit yourself to just the physical or positioning aspect of it (of course those are important) but feel free to expound on any favorite toys, articles of lingerie, scenes, etc.  

I'm sure readers would love to hear.  Anonymous comments are welcome :)

Kisses,

👄👄👄 sissy terrie