Strap-on Chats

When She let Her best friend in on one of our most intimate secrets, Linda was all too willing to help share the "workload."

Better Linda that some guy!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗
 

A Female Led Retreat

A spur-of-the moment decision by Mistress found us heading south for a few days (or more) at our beach front condominium.

"I just want to relax for a few days.  Kind of like a retreat" She said and added "You, not so much.  I'll keep you busy."

As soon as we arrived I was told that my dress for the time we spend inside the condo would be "panties only."  We haven't been here in several weeks so as is my usual task, I get to dust and vacuum the whole place.  This time I did it without the "benefit" of a pretty apron. 

It hasn't all been that grueling.  I have gotten to worship Mistress a few times already and She's also found ways to relieve some of Her own stress both in the gym and in the bedroom.

I've been a pretty busy sissy.

Mature Monday will be back next week!

Love,

sissy terrie 💦 

 

Daily Panty Rules

The first time I ever stepped into a pair of panties, little did I know that I'd be spending the overwhelming majority of my life in them.  My "panty wearing" increased as the years went on to the point where, as our Female-Led lifestyle became more entrenched, panties became mandatory.

Over the years, there have been periods of times and certain days when Diane would either lay out or instruct me to wear specific panties, colors or styles.  However, when She first made "The Decision" that I had to wear panties all the time, I was allowed to choose which panties I would wear each day.   I had an adequate collection of them already, but I remember going to Macy's where we bought a set of matching panties that had lace and came in a range of colors.

"I like these" I remember Diane saying "and you can choose whichever color you want."   She wasn't lying about liking the panties; she even bought a set for herself.  "Some days we'll match" She laughed.  The most memorable moment of that shopping trip was when Diane went to pay for the panties and the sales lady asked "Did you want these in two different sizes?"  Diane calmly said "Yes I do" then looked at me and smiled.  I think the sales lady blushed more than I did!

 

There were some days we matched but on most days we did not.   Most days She would ask me what color I was wearing.  Other days She'd make me show Her.  Then there were plenty of days when She would tell me it was time for a "panty check" to make sure I wasn't trying to sneak out of the house with "big boy pants!"

It didn't take long before the range of colors I was allowed to choose from was reduced to a palette of pastels.  Eventually pink became the mandatory default color unless I was told otherwise.   I still have other pastels and whites and She usually allows me to wear them if I ask Her permission.  

I don't see these rules changing.  We both seem comfortable with the way things are.

Love,

sissy terrie 💝 

"Worship My Ass"

She actually didn't say those words.

She rolls over like this often.  Away from me in the bed.

Then, Her beautiful ass juts out just a bit towards me.

It's the "unspoken command."  my duties are clear.

I start to kiss, through the material of Her panty, hoping She wants them removed.

Some days She does, others She doesn't.

This day She didn't.

I didn't until She moved away, turned around, smile and said "Thanks."
 

Love,

sissy terrie 👄👄👄 

Thick Thursday Looks

Today them features women of size in lovely lingerie that flatters their curves, along with very sexy, playful and suggestive looks on their face...

Patty's is rather playful.  Her smile suggests she's open to a good time!

 

 

 

Susan's is more sultry and serious.  She seems settled on the style of sex she wants. 

 

Dianna's on the other hand is downright dominating.   Her's is a demanding invitation to obedience.  I think I know where she wants attention.  

 

 

I can only fantasize about experiencing all three of these lovely large ladies for an afternoon of facesitting.  I know that would be a heavy task to undertake, but something tells me I am for to it.

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie 👅💗 

Katie's Confession

It's a lifelong struggle for many to balance the inner tension that exists between our masculine selves and the powerful feminine feelings and urges we have. 

We all know that special place where we feel most at home but can't always express ourselves the way we want to.

This beautiful picture and caption, courtesy of my loving friend Katie is a thoughtful reminder that sometimes, we have to just take a deep breath and reflect on who we really are.   

Thank you Katie 👄💕👄

Love, 

sissy terrie 💝 

The Humbling Truth

What would a sissy cuckold blog be without a post about penis size, or lack thereof, every couple of months or so.

In the bizarre world of kink, it's always difficult to explain the why's and how's of something being so very embarrassing and humiliating can also be sexually arousing.

I suppose two or more things can be true at the same time. 

This young wife can't be much older than her late 20's.  It couldn't have taken her long to figure out that size does matter.  She finally "confessed."

And if something isn't big enough or able to be used for what it was intended, maybe you just lock it away until you need it.  That is if you ever do need it.  

 

 

The last photo features a not-so-sissy outfit worn under a pair of jeans.   Garters aren't a typical part of my wardrobe but there was a time when Mistress allowed or even insisted I wear then with some stockings.  The chastity device shown here was my first "baby pink" device, molded in the style of the once popular but ever-so-uncomfortable CB-6000 models.  

 

It's hard to collect "hard data" about penis size and how many men actually are locked in chastity.  But I think there's probably a noticeable correlation between the two.  

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie 💋 

Full, Firm and Mature Femine Guidance

My Mom's younger sister (my aunt) was the one person who helped teach me to swim when I was really young.  I wasn't old enough then to appreciate how beautiful and sexy she looked in her one piece swimsuit.  My lessons took place at the lake where my Mom's family had a summer lakehouse.   My aunt taught me well.  It didn't take long before I was swimming like a fish and pretty indifferent about her beautiful curves.

So as a follow up to yesterday's sissy swimsuit post, here's something not very sissy at all which reminds me of those swimming lessons many years ago. 

It got me to thinking about getting lessons in other important physical activities in life.  When you get to be a certain age, it might be worth while learning such things from women who know what they're doing, rather than by fumbling around doing things by trial and mostly error.

I thing I found the perfect teacher...

Have a happy Monday!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Sissy Swimsuits

Hoping that a sissy friend is able to make the trip to visit me this summer.  Much depends on her own Mistress' schedule (ideally she would make the trip with my friend), her willingness to let my friend travel alone and other logistical things.

There are so many aspects of such a reunion that would be enjoyable, too many to cover in one short post.  But one recurring desire is to spend some time on the patio and by the pool in some of our favorite one-piece swimsuits,

I mentioned this to Diane the other evening when we were in the pool and She tasked me with providing Her and my friend with two swimsuits that I thought the two of us would like to wear.   It was typical of Her to assign me with a task resulting from a comment I make about one of my "desires."  It was an easy task and one I was only to happy to complete.

There was one caveat to Her demand:  "Find something in a color other than pink for a change!"

Hard as it was, I did come up with a couple of swimsuits I think most sissies would love.

Which of these is your favorite?

Swimsuit #1?

Light Blue 1940s Halter Polka Dots Bow One-Piece Swimsuit

 

Or swimsuit #2? 

Blue 1940s Ditsy Floral Ruffles One-Piece Swimsuit

I'd love to hear your opinions!

Love,

sissy terrie💗💗 

 

Sissy Saturdays

"You should know better that, unless we have something else on the calendar, and he's around, he'll be coming over on Saturday nights" Diane told me in a rather authoritative tone.  "Call them and tell them you won't be there.  You've got lots to do."

The foursome I was to be a part of would have to go out as a threesome.  I humbly texted the other three and told them I wouldn't be making it today.  Two of the three were kind enough to just write back "No worries" and "Ok, see you soon."  The other made the comment "What happened?  You forget to ask for permission? 😂."

I simply responded with a thumbs up to all three.

"So did you call them?" She asked.

"No, I texted them" I told Her.

"What a baby you are" She said.  "Let's get you ready.  I have a list of things for you before Karl gets here."

When She's in a very dominant mood (and horny for Her Lover), She asserts Her control early in the day.

How I am made to dress usually reflects Her mood.

Love,

sissy terrie 💘 

R.E.D. Fridays

 

 R.E.D. Remember Everyone Deployed Till they all Come Home Safe ❤️❤️ 

 

Regardless of anyone's opinion on the wars going on, we do have to remember the men and women who are committed to defending this country and find themselves in harm's way.  RED Fridays are a way of doing that. 

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie 💗💗💗 

Large & Leathered

At any of the fetish parties I attended, the larger the ladies in leather, the lovelier they were...

I know I'm in the minority.  My Dominant Wife, when leather clad, got far more attention than Her heftier colleagues.

But I think it was all about the other Doms and subs being infatuated with Her boots...

 

Okay, and maybe Her corset.   Perhaps even Her ass.  

Love,

sissy terrie 💗💗💗💗💗 

Cuckold Regrets

I can't say that as a cuckold I have any regrets.  I'm so fortunate that it's worked out for us.  There's no doubt that can't be said about every couple that ventures out into the world of cuckolding.

But perhaps, there are some regrets that at the end of the day, work out for the best.  

Here's a short post with a very sexy accompanying picture.  The picture is absolutely stunning.  Well, maybe the not all the picture but this woman's derriere is close to divine!   But the scene has a "cuckold reality" to it.  Paired with the short script, you just sense the woman might be in some hotel room, posing perfectly for her bull who's only to happy to remind the cuck of what he's missing.  It's almost poetic...

 Her Big Ass

At one time he thought her ass was too big.

Then along came an Alpha Bull who thought it was just perfect.

Now the cuckold realizes how beautiful it always was and spends his time worshiping it, licking it, and sucking out as much of the bull's seed he can.

The cuckold now has acquired a taste for it.

 

Love,

sissy terrie 👅👅👅 

Domestic Disipline

I would think most domestic discipline takes place in a rather discreet setting.  Some exceptions might include discipline in front of some close (and usually kinky) friends in the know or family members.  Discipline within the context of a D/s relationship, and in our case a Wife Led Marriage, always carries some level of embarrassment and/or humiliation.  

There are of course other ways of expression that can be used to subtly, or not so subtly, let others know "who's in charge" without having the submissive put themselves over their dominant's lap for a spanking.  Leaving a paddle or crop lying around, or positioned for others to see can be a very effective "ice breaker" to steer the conversation a certain way.  

Here's one idea that I'm very fortunate Mistress didn't see until She reads this post (if she actually does), along with a short description by the Dominant who posted this on Tumblr.

                        Goals for submissives

Being in a relationship, where your dominant has built your own little punishment corner into the living room walls. Just big enough for you to fit in and small enough to prevent fidgeting and external distractions.

And the regular humiliation of having to explain and demonstrate to guests what the little alcove, labelled "Naughty Corner" is used for.

I can just see Diane explaining to the contractor why She wanted this particular little alcove!

And since it's Tuesday, I do feel compelled to add a little something else, even though it's not necessarily related to discipline of any sort.

In case you didn't know, today is National Beer Day.  So why not enjoy your favorite brew with a friend.  A cold draft, in a mug, bottle or even right from the tap if you're up to it.  

 

Rather than in the local pub, I think I'll have mine right between Mistress' lovely thighs!

Love, 

sissy terrie  💕

Mature Female Authority

Dominant Women, particularly Wives in Female Led Marriages develop their own Domme personalities over time.  But generally, at a certain level it's derived from their personality types.   They more or less fall into several archtypal categories.

Here are two of them to consider on this post-Easter Mature Monday:

The Soft Domme

This Domme tends to focus on a more nurturing style and positive reinforcement.  She has a gentler touch but still has plenty of strict rules.   She tends to put a focus on after-care or snuggle time after any type of D/s session. Discipline for the Soft Domme rarely includes any physically hurtful punishments.  Things like corner time, loss of discipline or calm, thoughtful discussions with their submissives are how they approach transgressions most of the time. 

And finally, their "looks" are powerful, but not as menacing as other Dommes.  

The Hard Domme 

Her's is a far more strict and demanding approach.  When you break her rules, expect severe punishment.  With the Hard Domme, the power dynamic and exchange is very clear and intense.  Sometimes even noticeable to others. Expect harsh commands and impactful punishments.  Their authority is absolute and they implement strict protocols.  

The Hard Domme's looks are rarely misunderstood.   

Fortunately, there are Dominant Wives that rule with a blend of more than one style or archetype.  I'm blessed to have one of those as my Wife.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Sissy's Easter Surprise

Sorry...the surprise isn't mine but some other "lucky" sissy who got to spend her time this way...

From: The Life & Times of a Part-time Sissy Maid to my Wife

An Easter surprise. My wife announced yesterday she is going to spend Easter with her friend Kryss and and some other workmates at a holiday home along the south coast and that it is a girls weekend and (no that doesn’t include crossdressing maids). I am also getting a holiday spending time with her mother and yesterday afternoon, Margaret came around and surprised me with a gift of four pairs of shiny opera style gloves which she insisted I include in my suitcase to take back to her house. She then insisted on watching me pack my suitcase for the break and told me I would not be needing any male clothes for the duration except for the ones I would arrive and leave in. So, my case is all ready for later this week and plenty of aprons and all these gloves are packed. I have no idea what she has in store that requires the gloves but I guess I’ll find out in due course. I’m both excited at the prospect of being her maid for 4 days and also full of trepidation as I really don’t know what I’m in for.

Happy Easter Everyone!

Love,

sissy bunny terrie 👯👄

Sissy Maid Duties

If a married woman is hosting family over for Easter, more than likely she wants the house to look just right.  It's lots of work but it's sometimes made easier if there's a submissive husband, hubwife or sissy maid around to help out.  

With the proliferation of AI-generated pictures these days, it seems like most the sissy maid/dominant wife genre have a bit of a retro type look with well mannered women sipping tea while the sissies take care of things.

Here's a good example:

 

Maybe someday soon we'll see something a little more realistic.  Not all dommes are like the lovely reserved lady sipping her Earl Grey tea and reading a copy of McCall's.

Something tells me that there are plenty of Dommes like this one who'd be much happier laying back and swilling away a couple of Bud Lites after a long day at her tool and dye shop.

I'd obey either one of them, but one would scare me more than the other.

Love,

sissy terrie 💋 

 

The Dominant Wife

 When you are in a Wife Led Marriage, Her pleasure is a priority.  Your pleasure should be derived from your efforts to please Her.  Here, courtesy of a married Dominant Female friend of Diane's, are some basic guidelines for submissive husbands of all kinds to take into consideration: 

Navigating a power-exchange dynamic in a marriage is all about finding the sweet spot between structured authority and mutual respect. In a female-led relationship (FLR), obedience is often less about "following orders" and more about a husband proactively streamlining his wife’s life and honoring her preferences.

Here are several ways a submissive husband can demonstrate obedience and devotion:

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1. Household Management & "Acts of Service"

In many D/s dynamics, the husband takes on the role of the "Chief Operating Officer" while the wife acts as the "CEO."

• Anticipatory Service: Don’t wait to be asked. If you know she likes her coffee at 7:00 AM or her gym bag packed by the door, ensure it's done perfectly every time.

• The "Silent" Chores: Take over the tasks she finds draining—whether that’s laundry, meal prep, or handling the household finances—so she can focus on her own priorities. 

  
  
  

• Standard Operating Procedures: Ask for her "standards" on how she likes the house kept and then adhere to them strictly, showing that her aesthetic and environmental preferences are your priority.

2. Physical Deference and Protocol

Establishing small, daily rituals can reinforce the dynamic without needing a "scene."

• Greeting Rituals: Stand when she enters the room, or offer a specific physical gesture (like a kiss on the hand or a bow) to acknowledge her authority when she returns home.

   

• Posture and Positioning: Practice mindful body language. This might mean sitting at her feet while watching TV or maintaining eye contact only when she initiates it.

• Waiting for Permission: Practice asking for permission for small things, such as starting a meal, leaving a room, or making a personal purchase. This reinforces that she is the final decision-maker.

3. Personal Grooming and Presentation

A submissive husband often views his body as an extension of his wife’s property or brand.

• Dress Codes: Ask her to pick out your clothes for the day or follow a specific style guide she prefers.

• Grooming Standards: Maintain your hair, beard, or skin exactly how she likes it. If she prefers you clean-shaven or wearing a specific scent, make that your "uniform."

• Fitness Goals: If she expresses a preference for a certain physique, dedicate your gym routine to achieving that look for her benefit.

4. Communication and Accountability

Obedience is rooted in transparency.

• Check-ins: Provide "Status Reports" at the end of the day. Briefly summarize what you accomplished, any mistakes you made, and what your plan is for the next day.

• The "Yes, [Title]" Rule: Use a specific honorific (like Ma'am, Mistress, or simply "My Queen") consistently. It’s a verbal reset that reminds both parties of the roles you’ve agreed upon.

• Radical Honesty: Total obedience requires total transparency. Disclose your thoughts, temptations, or errors immediately rather than hiding them.

5. Emotional Support and Focus

True submission often means being the "rock" that supports her throne.

• Active Listening: When she speaks, give her your undivided attention. Put the phone away and focus entirely on her needs or venting.

• Decision Fatigue Relief: While she holds the final say, you can show obedience by presenting her with two well-researched options for a decision (like a vacation or a new car) so she only has to choose, rather than do the legwork.

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Finally, remember that any successful D/s relationship is based upon trust in one another.   It should be safe, sane and consensual.

Best of luck on your journey.  Ms. C

Thank you Ms. C!

lovek

sissy terrie  👄👄👄

Female Domination - Know Your Place

Happy Thursday.

On a day that's typically dedicated to sexy and heavy (or heavier than average) women, I thought it would be a good idea to appreciate the work of fetish artist Namio Harukawa.

The Japanese artist his know for his work that typically depicted sexy BBW's taking advantage of smaller, weaker and very submissive men using them for oral servitude, face sitting, human furniture and even more serious forms of "control." 

Here's on of the more "tame" pieces of his work.

Here's another piece, kind of the feature for this post, that I've called "Know your Place."

In Namio's work, not only do the women always have the size advantage, but there are always multiple other aspects of it that exude FemDom and control.   This poor/lucky servant isn't going anywhere until this Woman decides it's time.

Who knows, he may simply remained tethered to Her favorite chair until She decides to sit there again.

It's probably his favorite chair also.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕💕💕

Maids Quarters - Big Changes Coming

There's been a pretty significant change in our Wife-Led Marriage, specifically involving Mistress' Alpha Lover Karl.  She notified me that beginning this evening, Karl would be staying with us until further notice and I would be relegated to the "maids quarters" otherwise known as the sissy cuckold bedroom.

We have done this before, but it was never a situation that I could describe as "until further notice."  Karl was here for a few days, a weekend, etc.   It was never open-ended like She described today.

I'm fortunate.  My maids quarters are likely very luxurious compared to those of real live-in maids.  Nonetheless, I take my maid duties, sissy or otherwise, quite serious.  It looks like I am going to have to take them even more serious until further notice.   

This also means more laundry.  I learned that when it comes to laundry, Mistress' expectations require more of my time and attention than just throwing things into the washing machine.

That being said...let me share some advice to any sissies who are serious of providing true maid service to their Dom/mes.

 

Sissy terrie's Laundry Advice/Rules:

• Make laundry a hobby and not a chore.  This will make you happy and bring you joy.
• Learn all you can about turning dirty fabric into clean fabric.
• Learn what cycles to use on the washer and dryer.
• Learn what items need to be hand-washed.  NEVER put lingerie into the washer.  Those things deserve your personal and special attention.
• Learn how to remove every type of stain.
• Learn how to properly fold each item.  Different items require different types of folding.
• Learn how to iron and about the different settings on the iron.  When steam is required, when it isn't.  You don't want to burn one of your Dominant's favorite blouses or shirts (on in a cuckold's case, ones belonging to their lovers).

Remember that as a maid, your days will be made full by attending to what may seem like countless mundane tasks.  Laundry is at the very top of that list of things to do.

Love,

sissy maid terrie 👄 

 

P.S.  One last thing:  April Fool's!!!!   Karl is not moving in until further notice.  But I'm sure he's not spent his last night in our marital bed either!