Random Sissy Thoughts

Just a few (or more) random sissy musings on this Sunday before Christmas...

I don't think I've every been dominant in any sexual encounter I've ever had.  If so, I never mean to be.  Even in the rare situations when I've had the opportunity to be intimate with another feminine submissive, I somehow have ended up in a more submissive role.  Perhaps I bring out whatever "dominant genes" in whomever I am with,  no matter how few they might have, 

Please tell me I'm not the only cross dresser who's ever done this.  It's just a very feminine feeling to sip a nice hot cup of coffee then stare at the lipstick you've left on the cup.   It's also nice to leave that lipstick in other places and on other things!

I often wish that more people would leave comments on this blog and share some of their own experiences with dressing, sexual dominance or submission and other thoughts of interest to sissies and other kinky types.  If you think of this blog as a safe place to share things, wouldn't it be nice to share those secrets "we can't tell anyone about?"   Even if you leave an anonymous comment...others might enjoy it!

In the spirit of the season, of sharing and the above thoughts....Just want to share that humping yourself to orgasm on a pillow and in a diaper can be a very humbling and embarrassing thing to do in front of an audience.  Also very fulfilling.  

Love,

sissy terrie 👗👄👠🍼

Sissy Thought for the Day

 

As a teen I would dress up and given the opportunity, play with makeup and some jewelry because I loved the feeling and I wanted to feel feminine and look pretty.

After becoming and living much of the time as a "sissy wife" and cuckold, I came to realize that it all about being submissive, feminine and looking pretty for Her.  I also want to please and make Her proud of me.

My focus is Her.  I want to keep Her happy by keeping a clean home, taking care of as many domestic duties as I am assigned and being a docile, obedient and supportive wife for Her.  I couldn't be happier in my role.  

Love,

sissy terrie 👄💗

Sweater Girls

Did you know that today is  2025 National Ugly Sweater Day? 

Well now you do!

It's celebrated on the third Friday of December each year, likely to get those pre-holiday office Christmas
parties off on the right foot. You know the office parties I mean.  The ones that likely shift to local watering holes and for some more adventurous and flirtatious types (office romances) end up in other places.   

This guy's sweater and getup gives him a good shot at winning the ugly sweater contest in his office.  The horns?  Maybe he's the office cuckold.  

I'll be attending one of those parties later this afternoon but Diane has no need to worry about my embarrassing myself with an ugly sweater.  The only embarrassing things I'll be wearing won't be visible to anyone.

And as to my being flirtatious and doing "you know what", that train left the station a long time ago.  There's also something about being locked in chastity that keeps me from not straying very far from the ranch.

It's still kind of unseasonably warm here in the desert southwest so I'm unlikely to wear a sweater today anyway.  But if I were to wear one, I kind of like these...

 Everyone loves Bambi right?

 This one's perfect to sip eggnog.  

I'd wear this one but I'd be afraid the top of my panties would show.

Love

sissy terrie 💖

Where She Belongs

 

And She can stay there as long as She wants.

 

As a regular practitioner of this type of oral servitude, I can attest that the above is correct.

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Eight Maids-a-Milking

I didn't intend to mislead you with the title of this post, so please try to elevate your sissy minds out of the gutter!   Don't get me wrong.  I would love a milking since I am in what I hope is the tail-end of a rather lengthy orgasm drought.

Getting into the Christmas spirit is sometimes difficult for some so I thought I would add a little cheer with a cute variety of "maids in service" today...8 days before Christmas!

Do you recognize any of these maids?

 One of them is obviously much naughtier than the others.

Any favorites?

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

 

"Excuse me but....

 ....your petticoat is showing!"

 "Well thank you, but I know it is.  I'm actually being punished."

 "Oh.....I'm sorry."

"Don't be sorry.  It's not that bad."

All photos from the Tumblr site "Finding my Femininity." 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗💗💗 

Sissy Bubble Baths

 So....

 I hope I'm not the only one who loves bubble baths.

A busy weekend and Monday here.

I promise tomorrow's post will be longer.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Interracial Cuckolding

Some wives' cuckolding experiences, like their sex lives and other kinks they might have, evolve over time.  Some have this almost unquenchable thirst for something more, something different or something better.

Sometimes it's for something better, bigger or darker...

                                                  Video from Kneel to the Allure of Black Kings

There's plenty to take in (no pun intended) when watching this video.  Things like positioning, the hierarchy it displays, the looks (or lack of) on each of the participants, the partial view of the cage in the background....could it be for the cuckold?

Love,

sissy terrie 💗

Dainty & Delicate

Some things are just too pretty to wear.

Finding my Femininity

But sissies just can't help themselves.

Love,

sissy terrie 💝 

Teenage Thoughts & Fantasies

My earliest dressing experiences began when I was quite young.  As I "matured" my fantasies about dressing became more sexual, including those about submission, punishment, embarrassment, etc.   In each of these fantasies, I was always the submissive.

When I saw this cover from a 1954 Life Magazine, it was reassuring to know that there were "sub-teen" even back then!

 

Even then, "petticoat punishment" was an oxymoron.  Just look at how happy those two are!

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Sizeable Christmas Gifts

What would you like under your tree this year...

...all wrapped up in a big red bow...

This would be nice...

 

And maybe some time for intimate worship in front of the fireplace?

And of course in the bedroom?

 

 

Which would be your favorite?

 

love,

 

sissy elf terrie 💓 

Hers and "hers" Panties

Some married sissies are luckier than others.

This one is luckier than most!

I have fond memories like this one of intimate moments in matching panties.

Those were the good old days (pre-2015) when I wasn't locked in chastity.

Since then, the intimacy in matching panties still takes place, but it's slightly different. 

love,

sissy terrie  💛

Christmas Parties & Cuckolds

'Tis the season for parties.  For a cuckold, attending a party hosted by their wife's lover can be a bit awkward, uncomfortable, embarrassing....but sometimes very erotic and arousing.

Thanks to a reader who wishes to remain anonymous for the submission!

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Cuckold Party Panties 

 Cuckold Panties for the Party

We attended the dinner party hosted by Lisa’s Bull Mike on Saturday night.   Earlier in the week, Mike had bought me one of those costume-like reindeer antlers to wear at the party, clearly a metaphor for cuckold antlers.  While others were dressed in festive clothing, I was the only one with something like that on my head.  I was told to wear them the entire evening.  I felt silly and self-conscious but I obeyed.  In addition to the antlers, I also had to wear specific panties that Mike requested.

They weren’t just any panties but ones he gave to me as a Christmas gift two years ago.  They became part of a collection that he and Lisa call my “cuckold panties”, ones Mike has bought for me over the years.  Sometimes he’ll just tell me to put on a pair of my cuckold panties or tell me which specific ones he wants me in.  He was very specific this time which was kind of arousing.  I expected him to check on what I was wearing but he didn’t.  It was a bit disappointing.

At the end of the night after all the guests had left, Lisa and I stayed.  I changed into something more suitable for housework while he and Lisa went off to bed.  Before going off to the master bedroom with my wife, she gave me a good night kiss and Mike told me he wanted me to wear the reindeer antlers while I cleaned up. 

I supposed I could have taken them off and he wouldn’t have known.  He was too busy with Lisa.  But I am used to being obedient so I just left them on,

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Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

The Femme Lifestyle

I've always enjoyed looking at skillfully created fantasy magazine covers that cater to the CD, Feminine, Sissy and submissive males.  They never fail to tease and tittillate with the topics that would be featured in the magazines.

If only....wouldn't something like this make a great read for all of us?

From Pantied into Prettiness

 

Do let me know if you can share resources like this!
 

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Sissy Bows & Other Little Things

 Each of the following pictures contain cute little sissy bows, and cute little things...

 

Free from chastity, a sissy's clitty is allowed to swell from the feeling of the nylon or silk in which it is encased.

 

 The bow, the lace and the frilly trim around the leg openings only make the swelling worse, the clitty coming to a full state of excitement, yet still small enough to remain in the tiny panty. 

 

 

The bow is the "star" in this picture.  Simple, centered yet prominently placed above sissy's noticeable excitement.

"Im not a fan of bikini panties but I thought this one looked cute on her" said the sissy's Wife & Cuckoldress.

"Besides, my boyfriend thinks hubby looks cute in it" She laughed

End of story. 

  

"He looks excited" said the submissive's mother-in-law as she smiled at her daughter and son-in-law.  "It looks bigger now that he's smooth as a baby."

"Maybe, but it's not any bigger than it's ever been.  It's fully erect right now.  Would you like to milk him before I put him back in chastity? I can leave you too alone if you'd like" Amanda asked her mom.

"Hmmm.  That would be nice.  It's been awhile since I've been alone with him" mom answered.

"Then he's all yours mom.  It'll give me some alone time.  Enjoy!" Amanda said as she left the room. 

 

Bigger bow, bigger picture....smaller clitty.  It's all that time in chastity...

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

"Worship Me"

I remember the first time she made me do this.

"Lick me to an orgasm through my panties" She said.

I had to lay with my head back on a loveseat as she planted her pussy on my mouth and started to lick...

I felt a bit inept, not to mention uncomfortable.  My neck strained and it seemed like forever before I began to taste Her juices through the wetness of Her panties.  The went from dry, to damp, to damper, to wet...then soaking went.

Eventually She came; and in waves.   I tasted the most intimate of Her juices...She just gushed all over my face.  

"I love to sit on your face" She told me, then without missing a beat, slid Her panties off and placed them over my head.

"Play with yourself" She said.

I dd, and came in a matter of seconds.  

It's a very, very fond memory.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗💗💗 

Size Matters

Adapted from "Her Dutiful Handmaiden" and "Saragirl's Sissy Confesstions."

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"Oh god, it's even smaller than I expected!"

 

"Oh, darling, no, I didn't mean it like that. It's perfect, honestly. You're exactly what I've been looking for.

Let me explain.

Do you have any idea how easy it is for me to find a guy with a big cock? Believe me, every guy I meet who's packing more than seven inches finds a way to let me know at the earliest opportunity. And, I won't lie, there are times when I've rewarded their boldness.

Oh, don't let my public persona fool you, dear. I enjoy a good fuck as much as the next girl. And, when I'm in the mood, there's nothing quite like a tall, handsome, arrogant, well-endowed, hunk to hit that spot.

But, men like that tend to be a little... patriarchal, for me. As much as I might like a man to be dominant in the bedroom, when it comes to every day life, woe betide any man that tries to control me.

No, what I'm looking for in a partner is someone more... passive and to be honest, submissive.  Someone who'll let me take the lead. Someone who's not so full of macho entitlement, who'll submit to me and my authority.

And you, my small penised friend, strike me as exactly the sort of... person, I'm looking for.

So, if you're interested, follow me into the bedroom. I have something I'd like you to try on."

Love,

 

sissy terrie 👄 

Thick Thursday

So I have an interest in curvy women.  To each his/her own.  I'll be trying to devote Thursdays to those lovely women with beautiful rubenesque and voluptuous figures. 

This week features the lovely Mrs Provocateur...

The first is a pose/posture I'm used to seeing, particularly as part of our morning ass devotion ritual...

Lingerie ensembles with garters have a way of so sensually displaying a woman's assets...
 

I'm not usually a fan of thongs for myself, but who can argue about how they look on Mrs. P?

 

 Love,

 

sissy terrie 💙 

Morning Ritual

It's one of, if not the first thing I do each morning.  Planting a kiss on Mistress' beautiful ass every morning has been a long standing practice.  I've been doing so for more than twenty years.   

From "Women of Authority"

I know we're not the only Female Led couple who do this.   It's a lovely way to start a day.

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Cuckold Lingerie

Many a submissive male has had fantasies of seeing their wife with another man.  Some of these fantasies venture into the realm of interracial cuckolding - their wife being bedded by an alpha and well endowed black man.   Here's a short piece of flash fiction submitted to me by a follower who wishes to remain anonymous...

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Somehow, He Knew

 

Tyrone Jackson <tjackson@cuckoldmail.com>                                                   Dec1, 2025, 5:55 AM 

Beta boi bobbie 

I  had a weird feeling from the onset that you’re one of those beta-male husbands who are incapable of manhandling your wives in bed. Don’t ask me how I came about this — you can think of it as instinctual — seeing the way you stood beside her two weeks ago at the party, letting her chat with whomever while you held her drink and smiled sheepishly told me everything I needed to know. Moreover when I introduced myself, I noticed the glimmer that happened in your eyes when I shook her hand. Even your wife’s smile seemed broader compared to when she chatted with other men around.

When I met your wife for coffee last week all my suspicions were confirmed, and then some.  Sissy betas like you make cuckolding so much easier.   She's my bitch now and I'm very grateful.   We're going to have plenty of fun together...the three of us.

And by the way...you have great taste in lingerie.   She told me you're the one that bought what she was wearing last night.  Great choice....the color is a nice contrast between her white soft plump ass and my big strong black hands don't you think?

I'm looking forward to seeing your panties soon.

Master D 

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Many thanks to "bobbie" for this submission.  Though my wife's lover is not a  black man, i've also had the privilege of buying Her lingerie to wear with Her lover.  It's a privilege to be able to buy Her such a special gift.  Similarly I've also received such gifts from both Diane and Karl; some specifically designated as "cuckold panties" that I'm to wear when I'm told.  

Pretty aren't they?

Love

sissy terrie 💕 

 

 

Dinner

 Guess what I had for dinner last night?

Low cal but still very filling.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗💗💗