Full Cut & Frilly

Yes, these panties can be considered "Full Cut."  This style is often referred to as "Granny Panties" but there's nothing really grandmotherly about this particular collection.

Just one short of providing a full week's worth of feminine luxury, this half dozen pair of panties are made for just about any sissy I know.   It's hard to pick out a particular favorite. 

They provide a perfect balance (3 each) of simple girly pastels along with dainty and delicate lace, ruffles and sissy bows to send us swooning with delight!

You might not find these panties being worn by many Grandmas, but I do know some "men" of a certain age (i.e. grandpas) who'd love to prance around in them!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

When She asks you that question in the middle of your lovemaking with Her, it's kind of like a "no confidence vote" isn't it?

It's one of the most effective Small Penis Humiliation techniques as well.  

Here's a little snippet from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her cuckwife:

"Are you all the way in?"

Of course she knows the answer to her question, particularly when she’s in the missionary position position and looking you right in the eyes.

What are you supposed to say? What can you say? You've done your best. It's just not happening for Her.

She just wants you to humiliate yourself by saying “Yes I am.”

The humiliation might cause it to shrink even more and possibly even make you ejaculate prematurely, mercifully bringing another failed attempt to please her to an end.

You know she’s thinking, wishing and even wanting something bigger and better.

No picture needed for today's post.

Sometimes words are far more powerful. 

Love,

sissy terrie 😍 

Looking on the Bright Side....

...there is light at the end of the tunnel (of denial)!!!

It didn't take me long to realize that the likelihood of my being allowed an orgasm in the next few days was slipping away rather rapidly.

With each sack, fumble and loss of yardage plays my hope faded.

But as one opportunity closes, another is not too far (in this case just 60 days) away.  And with my years of experience with this type of denial, I think I can handle it.

Instead of not knowing when my next orgasm will come and living in a state of angst and suspense, there's something to be said for just 8+ weeks of certainty!  

60 days?  I think I could almost do that standing on my head.  Instead all I have to do is do it in my cage.

As to the game, what can I say?  My Pats just got spanked. 

Clearly the best team won.

A special congratulations to my sissy friend up in the Seattle area, Wapanty, who is reveling with revenge for the unexplainable loss they suffered in Super Bowl XLIX to my Patriots.  I don't think she stopped cheering until after midnight...

 Let the countdown begin!

 

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

Super Bowl LX

I have lots on the line in today's Super Bowl between the Seattle Seahawks and our New England Patriots.  Thought both of us are big Pats fans, having spent a good part of our lives in the Boston metro area and attending many of their games, we are going to find ourselves, Mistress and me, with somewhat mixed allegiances as we watch the game with friends.

Yesterday Mistress proposed (it really was a non-negotiable offer) that the two of us have a friendly wager on the game.  Our wager would be on the point spread (Seattle -4.5) and I could choose my team first.   

The stakes:  If I won the bet, Mistress would allow me to have an orgasm, cage-free, within the next three days after the game.   If She won, my next orgasm would be delayed 60 days; a fitting number for Super Bowl LX.  

"I think it's a win-win for you" She opined.  "After all, it's been months since you've had an orgasm and this way, as a demonstration of my benevolence, I'm promising you an orgasm one way or another."

Though I had a couple of arguments I could raise, how can a submissive really argue with that kind of "Mistress logic?" 

So I really can't root against my Patriots.  I want them to flat out win and now, even if they lose by less than 5 points I get to enjoy an orgasm.  And since I just know they are going to win, I'll be enjoying a cage-free orgasm very, very soon.

This really is more than a win-win for me.  I really think it is a win-win-Win when think about it.  She gets to enjoy reveling in Her control of things.

And besides, what is another 60 days for me?  I've been locked for much longer periods.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

"Put On Your Big Girl Panties and..."

Whenever Mistress utters those humbling words I'm filled with a wide variety of emotions, not the least of which are plenty of embarrassment and shame.  They've sometimes included instructions to do just that, come back and pose for Her, perhaps Her lover Karl or best friend Linda.

Further, the instructions might change a bit by Her saying "Put on your little girl (or baby) panties and..."

Hence, I've posed in little girl panties....

 And big girl panties...

The former brings a greater feeling of humiliation most of the times, but depending on the situation, not always.

My panty drawer seems to be filled with panties that fall into either one of these two categories:  Little girl/baby panties or Big girl/granny panties.

I never thought of it that way until I found this panty which offers a beautiful blend of both.  The rumba style ruffles across the backside of the panty give it a very childlike innocent look to it.  I think every sissy would love that.  Yet the panty also includes a set of garters which are not childlike at all and clearly meant for the more mature woman.

 

I should probably find this pair somewhere, just in case Mistress can't make up Her mind what She wants me to pose in.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕 

Strap-On Sex

As most of my readers know, I've been on the receiving end of penetrative sex with Diane for many years.  It's been a staple of our lovemaking, and very pleasurable for both of us.

One of the things that makes it pleasurable (and safe) is that the strap-ons She makes love to me with are all reasonable in size.  Yes, She has several - after all we've been at this awhile - but definitely has her favorite.

Yet the strap-on porn you see on the web focuses on size.   I enjoyed this particular post by Servitor on his blog this past Sunday... 

Many men prefer women of moderate size in that regard but you wouldn't think so from looking at online porn.

From: Contemplating the Divine 

Yes, plenty of lube is so important, but lube has its limits to effectiveness.   Here's a very sexy piece of art from the Erotic Art tumblr site that reminded me very much of Diane.

I'd say most submissives would consider it size-appropriate.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Show Me

A little piece of flash fiction from a friend/bbw enthusiast....

True Love? 

"Is it really me you love?  Or are you simply infatuated with my ass?" the sexy BBW asked Her beta boyfriend.

"I love you more than anything" he said as She strode around the room in bra, panties and heels.   

"Just get naked.  Do as I say" She told.  He obeyed and stood in front of Her with his little dicklette pointing upward.

"Look at you.  Is that love, or is it lust?" She asked, but before he could answer added "I think it's my panties you love isn't it?"

"I love you, and your panties" he answered meekly.

"I know.  I saw fondling them the other day by the hamper.  Saw you kissing the crotch and the gussett over and over" She said.  

The boyfriend thought he had put the panties away when he heard her coming.  

"Surprised?  I backed away, coughed to give you a warning to compose yourself.  I'd seen enough" She said with a laugh.

"It's the gussett that turns you on the most isn't it?" She asked him.

There was need for an answer.   He blushed with shame, yet his little erection kept it's rigidity.

"Then show me how much you love my panty gussett" She told him as She made Her way onto the bed.

 

"Get down there and worship it" She said.

He obeyed and began to show his lust for Her, Her panty and the gussett.  The more he kissed the more aroused he got.

"Good boy...just don't make a mess of the bed.  Understand?"

Before He could answer, it was too late.  He hadn't been able to control himself.

Hope you enjoyed :)

Love, 

sissy terrie  💗

Sissy Friends in Babydolls

 My sissy friend and loyal reader Laci loves to tease me now and then with lovely photos of her posing some of her pretty things.  She sent me this selfie taken while on a golfing trip with three "non-suspecting" golf buddies.  Posing in the pretty aqua blue  babydoll in the privacy of her room, she knew full well how it would make me feel...

And how do I feel?

Well, jealous of course.  She certainly knows how to push my sissy buttons, as well as how to make me uncomfortable in my cage.  I really need to play golf with her soon.  

Maybe she can help me improve my stroke, or I hers, or....

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Chastity - Not Just for Sissies

 I saw this meme the other day along with the accompanying comment:

This is very true for us. He's a very masculine man, a warrior, stubborn, and smart. And he loves to submit to my power over him sexually. I get the best of both worlds. In fact... I often see sissy men and women who seem to encourage sissy men, and I am not sure what the attraction is to that. Personally for me, it's way more fun to bend my big strong husband to my will! He's twice my size and could snap me in half if he wanted to. But besides being a nice man, he's also turned on by my power over him.

There's no doubt that when it comes to a male chastity lifestyle, it's safe to say those locked and their keyholders represent a wide variety of sexual preferences and gender identity orientations.  It's a mystery to our own selves as to why we are the way we are.  To try and understand why others are the way they are is a total waste of time and a bit too judgemental in most cases.   

Kudos to those with rugged and alpha personalities who are willing to submit to someone sexually and be put in chastity.  They are accepting who they really are and doing what comes natural to them, just like I am!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

Cuckold Duties

Mistress D's lover Karl spent last night here at our place, in the marital bed of course.   Besides taking care of dinner, taking the bed down and some minimal "fluffing" type duties.  I also got to prepare the two of them their favorite cocktails.  Karl's was a simple mix I'm used to preparing.  But Mistress had a special request...

I'm pretty sure She enjoyed it.

And of course there's always the obligatory Sunday morning coffee for the two lovers, served when, where and how they want it.

 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

 

New Year Lingerie Drawer Overhaul!!!

I, and several of my sissy sisters, are big fans of the very womanly and full cut panties sold by Shadowline Lingerie.  In fact, I've even had "matching panty days" with one of my sissy sisters.  If you ever feel like joining us, well just let me know!

Today's post is from the Shadowline website blog.  I loved reading it and hope you will as well.

 

 Lingerie Care & Styling Tips

New Year Lingerie Drawer Overhaul: The Must-Have Essentials

 

Wouldn’t it be nice to always have the perfect underwear for whichever outfit you pick out in the morning? You can make that a reality. All it takes is a little reviewing and refreshing of your current lingerie drawer, and that ‘new year, new start’ mood is the perfect motivation to do it.

 

Step 1: decide what needs to go

Start by taking a look at all the underwear you currently own, checking for anything worn out which needs replacing. There’s also no point hanging onto items which no longer fit or which are uncomfortable.

Be honest with yourself. You may love a particular bra or panty, but if it has seen better days, just think about how much more you’ll love having a fresh, flawless new replacement – or an upgrade!

A smoothing essential: Shadowline Flawless Fit Full Brief Panty

Step 2: work out what you’re missing

Second, try to identify any gaps in your collection. Do you regularly find yourself running out of a particular lingerie style or color? Then you’ll benefit from having more of it.

Do you find yourself avoiding certain garments in your closet because you never seem to have the right thing to wear below them? Consider what the ideal underpinnings would be – something that elegantly fills in a too-low neckline perhaps, or which doesn’t create a visible panty line – and that will tell you what you need to shop for.

Perfect Underpants: Shadowline Nylon High Cut Panty

Step 3: ensure you have the basics covered

No lingerie drawer is complete until you’ve got enough great-fitting, comfortable and practical pieces to meet your day-to-day needs. Everyone’s ‘essentials’ will be a little different based on personal preferences and the types of outfits you typically wear, but here are some suggestions to help you figure out your own must-haves:

Essential everyday briefs

It pays to have a variety of panty silhouettes in your collection, to suit different outfits. For example, hipster briefs are a great for staying hidden when you’re wearing pants or skirts with lower-rise waistlines, while high-waisted briefs offer a smoother silhouette under close-fitting dresses. And for pencil skirts or pants, high leg underwear is a great option since it won’t create any visible lines at the upper thigh.

Shaddowline Essential Wide Strap Camisole

Endlessly-versatile camisoles

Camisoles are so multi-purpose – here are seven ways to wear one – that we truly believe they should be a staple in every woman’s wardrobe. Layering one under itchy sweaters for softness, or using one to add some modesty to a sheer or low-necked top, are a couple of many suggestions, so it’s always handy to have a few camisoles in your closet.

As a starting point, consider choosing one in cozy cotton for cold weather, and one with a lace trim for when it’s just seen. A camisole with a reversible neckline is also a great first piece that gives you options!

Smoothing, comfort-enhancing slips

Similarly, slips can serve a variety of purposes, from creating a comfy base layer to erasing visible bra and panty lines, to reducing static cling from your skirts.  Read more about all the reasons you'll love owning a slip here. If you’ve never owned a slip before, we suggest starting with a half slip in a short or midi length which you can wear below both skirts and dresses with various hemlines. But full slips and even pant slips are also available.

The secret to a smoother look: Velrose 25" Nylon Half Slip & 26"Nylon Full Slip

Step 4 (optional): treat yourself!

Once you’ve decluttered your lingerie drawer and stocked back up on the basics, any leftover budget can go towards those stylish, just-for-fun pieces you’d simply love to have. You may not wear these pieces quite so often, but they still deserve a spot in your collection.

Maybe that means indulging in a vintage style babydoll or some lacy panties  for special occasions. Or it might mean adding some more decorative variations of your favorite go-to basics, such as a beautiful satin and lace slip to complement your simpler nylon ones.

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Reorganizing and refreshing your lingerie collection is an easily achievable start-of-the-year goal. Take a little time out this weekend to sort through yours and you’ll breeze through the rest of the year, never having to worry about whether you’ve got the right underwear for each day’s outfit.

 

Well I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I did.  Did you feel more and more feminine as you read it????

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Panty Sale!

I'm having a sale on some of my favorite panty styles.

Grab them while they last.

Trust me, they'll be all gone soon!!!!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Pleasing "Daddy"

Diane's instructions were rather specific.  

"Just do what he tells you" would have seemed to cover everything.  But She went on to tell me exactly what Karl was expecting me to be wearing when he arrived that evening, most likely an hour or so before She herself would get home.

"I might be pretty tired after a long day.  He knows that.  So if he wants attention, just do what he tells you" were Her basic orders.

So I did what I always did and followed instructions.   There's something very humbling yet erotic about getting yourself ready for a man, particularly if that man is your wife's lover.

I wore the skirt, top, stockings, shoes and panties that he wanted me to wear.

I felt very, very submissive when he arrived.

After serving him his favorite adult beverage and he sat in his favorite chair, I found myself at his side and on my knees as he instructed.  I knelt there, my bottom resting on my  heels for what seemed like forever as he watched Sportscenter. 

Finally, he put his drink down, stood up, looked at me and said:

"Skirt up!" he said with a smile.

I lifted my tartan skirt. 

I thought he was never going to ask.  I'd been waiting a long time to show Daddy my panties!

I smiled back and did everything he wanted.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Pink or Blue?

I know several cd and sissy girlfriends of mine who are fans of so-called full cut "granny panties."  I do wish I had a fuller more girlish ass at times, one with curves in just the right places.  

These two AI generated lovelies have derrieres that I'd be proud to flaunt.

Which color and bottom is your favorite...

The pink one?

 Or the blue one?

 Love,

sissy terrie 💗💙 

Chastity: Do You Really Need a Keyholder?

Many years ago, I was the one who initiated the discussion of chastity in our relationship.  Diane was open to it and the experiment began.  There were a few failed attempts to make it work.  During those trial periods, in order to get used to the feel and discomfort of the cage, I was given the freedom to "self lock" and release myself when it became too uncomfortable.   Diane grew impatient with me and my whining and the whole idea was shelved until I was given a "last chance" in late 2014.

We officially began my "lock up" at midnight on 1/1/2015 and we are still going strong.  Fortunately, I have a loving and controlling keyholder.  Many people aren't as fortunate, or at least that's the way that I see it.  

But the fact is that most men who give chastity a try don't have a keyholder.  Perhaps many wish they had one, but there are probably some who are just find without one.

I found an interesting article on Medium on the subject.  I think you'll find it interesting. 

 

Why the Cage Works — Even Solo

You don’t need a Master to feel mastered.

Some of us wear the cage for:

• Discipline & Focus
  The days stretch differently when you’re denied. I write more. I scroll less. I show up cleaner in my work — and sharper in my flirtations.
• Erotic Tension Without Release
  The cage doesn’t kill desire. It concentrates it. A stranger’s cologne on the street? Devastating. A hot barista? Earth-shattering. You feel everything.
• A Different Kind of Masculinity
  Not every man needs to fuck everything that moves. Some of us find power in waiting. In choosing to ache instead of act.
• The Ritual of Restraint
  For me, locking up after Key West felt ceremonial. Vacation was over. Playtime done. Click. Time to focus.
  I felt grounded. Balanced. In control of something primal.

Who Has the Key?

• Sometimes me.
• Sometimes an app.
• Sometimes I give it to a friend and say, “Don’t give it back until I finish this creative project.”
• Sometimes it goes into a timed lockbox — no cheating, no shortcuts.
• And sometimes? I’ll lock up while I’m out of town and mail the key back home to myself. (A little delayed gratification, courtesy of the postal service.)

But lately?
No one.

And there’s a strange, electric freedom in that.
You realize you don’t need someone else to tell you “no.”
You can do that yourself. And when you do, it hits different.

This is about choosing to want. Choosing to withhold.
Choosing to feel that hungry, sexy tension throb through you with every step.

Try It. Or At Least Think About It.

If you’ve ever hovered over a product listing with curiosity…
If the idea of not being able to touch yourself makes you twitch in the best way…
If you’ve ever whispered “what if…” just once…

This is your sign.

Try it.

Lock it up.
Keep the key — or toss it.
And see who you become when your pleasure isn’t the prize — it’s the pressure.

You might find yourself walking taller.
Thinking clearer.
And feeling something you haven’t felt in years:

Aroused. Alive. A little dangerous.

Love,

 

sissy terrie  💓💓💓

 

Disciplinary Rituals

 

I've been discipline a couple of times over the last week which is something that hasn't happened in a while.   I was deserving of both punishments.  But I do think Diane's increased libido as of late played a role in both her decision to discipline me and the intensity of the discipline.

In each instance She was very calm, having thought things through before deciding to put me over Her lap. Before sending me to go put on some "punishment panties" She told me why I was being punished and how She expected me to behave properly going forward.  

After each of the spankings I was sent to the corner for thirty minutes of quiet time.  My phone was nearby with the timer set.  I could leave the corner when the alarm went off.   Unlike the picture above, Diane didn't spank me "a whole lot more."

My second discipline session was much the same except that my bottom was still sore from the first one.  I still have a slightly bruised bottom. 

Both spankings put me into a very deep subspace.  The space I'm referring to was made even deeper by the actions that followed about an hour after each of the spankings.   In a very calming but authoritative tone, She summoned me upstairs where I would drop to my knees, thank Her for my discipline and proceed to worship Her to an orgasm.

I love being Her submissive.  She knows what I need and when I need it.  I think She knows me better than myself.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

 

Orally Focused

 Sometimes art is more sensual and sexier than a real picture...

 

"Placing oral sex at the helm ensures no confusion about who’s getting the prime attention. When intimacy revolves around your enjoyment, there’s no more worrying whether your climax is “nice to have” or “optional.” It’s the priority—and that’s exactly how it should be in a woman-led dynamic."

Cat Boulder; Woman’s Pleasure, Front and Center

Well said.

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Watching Your Wife & Her Bull

There can be plenty of angst and nervousness involved the first time a cuckold is either made to or invtited to watch their wife and her lover.   I can attest to that.   I think there's often lots of pre-planning and discussion amongst the wife, lover and sometimes the cuckold before it actually happens.  I don't watch Diane and Karl as often as I used to.  These days my presence is more to serve a specific purpose, sexual or otherwise, than to just be there as a voyeur.

Here's a short piece from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her Cuckwife that broaches the subject: 

In a cuckold relationship, some bulls require a healthy dose of convincing before allowing the cuckold to watch. Most women who have affairs, find a lover on the side, etc. aren't necessarily into a cuckold threesome type of thing. Most men who have an affair with married women aren't into it either.

If a wife wants it, she is probably a bit hesitant to bring it up to her lover out of fear it might scare him away. It's a subject that has to be broached carefully and with some preparation.

Once a lover/Bull is accepting of a cuckold "watching" as he makes love to the wife, it still takes time to develop a certain comfort level.    A dominant wife isn't likely to ask the cuckold if he's "ready."  That's going to be her decision.  Once a bull knows the cuckold is submissive, it makes his decision to proceed a bit easier.  The more the lover is an Alpha personality the the cuckold a beta, the quicker the process can proceed.  No "buy in" from the cuckold is needed. 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

p.s. - I did get to watch some last night! 

Sweet Nothings

Every sissy loves to hear sweet nothings.  Despite their name, these nothings mean an awful lot!

Things like:

"You look so nice in those panties!"

"You look so pretty in a tutu."

"I love how you lick my ass!" 

So....today happens to be National Compliment Day.

Why not compliment five people today?  Especially those you love.  You may even want to compliment someone who might not be on your list of favorites.  It might make you and them feel a little better.

Most important, if you have one, compliment the Dom/me in your life.

And next, if you're a Dom/me with a sissy....please compliment them.  It means so much to us!

Love,

sissy terrie  💖 

Frills & Thrills

It doesn't take much to get a horny sissy off.

Pink panties (especially frilly ones) and a pillow or our favorite stuffed animal are usually all we need.

 If we have an audience we have chance at lasting very long.

Please, someone tell me I'm not the only one who's ever done this!!! 

Love,

sissy terrie 💕 

Size Advantage & Differences

Dominant BBW's have always been an interest of mine.  Mistress knows this and often teases me about it.

"I bet you'd love to submit to her?" She's often said to me, referring to an attractive BBW we see or someone we've met.  Maybe someday I'll get that permission.

On to my 'Thick Thursday" post...

I can relate to this submissive in many ways.  My similar lack of size in the presence of a confident woman with such a size advantage puts me in an immediate subspace.   

Photo courtesy of Big, Bitch & Bossy

If he's lucky, he and his little penis will end up in the same place I did. 

In chastity and pink panties. 

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Pleasing Her Sissy-Style

When Her Lover's not around, Mistress has one fewer option when it comes to being sexually pleased.  In my current state I am in no position to fill in for Karl (not that I ever was) and besides, I am way out of practice.  The last time I penetrated Her (not that deeply) was a long, long, long time ago.

So since I'm like this...

..and Mistress is "in the mood" for some penetration, this is usually Her preferred option:

So last night, I spent time sucking on the short end of this face-harness strap-on dildo while She smothered and rode my face. 

I good time was had by all.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

CRM & Feelings of Femininity

In the business world CRM is an acronym for Customer Relationship Management.  The old adage is that businesses get 80% of their revenue from 20% of their customers.  It's a pretty general rule of thumb to expect that.  Of course it varies by industry but the point is that to be successful, you have to keep your customers happy.

I recently placed a lingerie order with Wacoal (with Diane's permission of course) and a few days later received a follow up email from the company.

When I get emails like this, it brings a smile to my face and a nice warm feeling of femininity in my soul.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

p.s.  If you click on the Fit Experts link below, you can book a virtual consultation.  Go ahead, just do it!Be brave and experience a fuller sense of femininity.

 

 

            Hi Terry! 

            Thank you for shopping at Wacoal.  We appreciate our loyal 

            customers.  Our Fit Experts are here for you, so please reac

            out if you have any questions.

            We look forward to seeing you again!

 

Lingerie Discussions

 It wasn't a typical conversation between a husband and wife, but one between a Dominant Wife (Diane) and Her sissy cuckold (me)...

"I'm not sure I like it" Diane said.

"Why not?  It looks great on You" i said in my most flattering and submissive voice.

"Thanks, but he might not like it" She whispered to me.  He = Her lover Karl.

"i'm sure he will" i assured Her as She looked at herself in the mirror.

"If not, i'll give it to you.  I know you'll love it" She laughed.

"Now i hope he doesn't like it" i said. 

We giggled like two girls.

It wasn't a particularly FemDom moment, but a very intimate one.  Her desire to please Her alpha lover Karl increases my own desire to please Her even more.  I don't ever see myself in competition with him.  I please Her in ways he does not and vice versa.  I'm incredibly grateful that I can share such moments with my loving Wife.

Love,

sissy terrie  👄👄👄

Female Led Relationships - Rules are Rules

Happy Sunday!

I can't count the number of times when, in the midst of some type of minor disagreement or my own asking D about something She's simply looked at me and said "Rules are Rules."  Rarely did those three words not put an immediate end to our discussion.

Successful Female Led Relationships probably have several hard and fast rules.  Ours certainly does. Though Diane has allowed me some rare exceptions, the rules have benefited us in many, many ways.

Here's a short and interesting article by Mistress Raven that you might enjoy.  Mistress Raven's thoughts can be found on Medium, where her column "Exploring Sensual Psyche" appears.  

I've highlighted a few items that stuck out to me, reminding me of some of the things that D expects.

Female-Led Relationship Rules

Every relationship has rules or requirements that are in place for one or both parties to feel secure or satisfied by the other person’s efforts.

Here are some rules I think are enjoyable for both parties because they end in a playful reward or a deepened connection.

Respect In All Forms

Respect is a dealbreaker. Address her correctly, never use words like “bro” or even, “girl”. The use of manners, etiquette, and any kind of consideration are especially noticed by women. Certain topics should be avoided as well. Learning her annoyances is just as beneficial as knowing her preferences.

Check-Ins

Text, verbal, and photo check-ins are quite normal and can be fun. It’s important to greet her and acknowledge each other every day. Although it’s something light-hearted, it can cause resentment when neglected.

Anticipate Her Wishes

This one is a little self-explanatory. You should strive to know your partner well enough to anticipate or be proactive about doing things that will show your effort, passion, and compassion.

Tasks

She could give you a small task or a big one. Either way this is a call to action and a call of love. Most of the time men miss this opportunity for intimacy and mistake it as an act of power dominance. What she really wants to do is reward you. First you have to complete her task, the amount of enthusiasm you show will ultimately determine what will happen next.

Public Behavior and Permissions

This is unique to every couple. However in most FLR it is obvious to the outside perspective that the female is treated with high favor by the man. She is often seen physically leading or being waited on. Permissions and levels of leadership from both partners in decision-making varies for everyone. There should also be an element of “Yes”, or “Yes and” — be willing to comply and adapt to her requests.

Leadership

Levels of leadership change with every person and can change over time. Naturally, your partner will expect you to follow and complete tasks, wishes, and desires. So qualities like leadership, strategic thinking, and problem-solving skills are very important. Being submissive doesn’t mean sitting back and being “thoughtless”.

Mistakes and Punishments

Failure to adhere to her rules or requests should not be taken lightly. As discussed in the beginning, these are things that are needed to let the connection thrive. There should be a clear understanding of a mistake and punishment versus playful disobedience within a sexual time and space. Showing disinterest or inability to set aside your own interests or needs equates to the failure of the female-led relationship. The act of putting her above yourself is the essence of submission.

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Mistakes and Punishments is an important section.  We have certain protocols in place that stress this.  Failure to follow the rules and to meet expectations should result in some form of discipline.  

Mistakes aren't always a clear cut violation of our rules/contract.  Sometimes there is just some subtle 
faux-pas' that require attention, maybe a compilation of things that might just require an attitude adjustment...

 

Love,

sissy terrie 😢😢😢 

Are you Sure you're In?

 Size Matters

A true story, written as accurately as possible given the time that has passed since it happened. 

Of course Diane knew the answer to Her question, particularly when She was in this position and staring right at it.

She just enjoyed hearing me humiliate myself and have me “Yes it is.”

I remember the first time She said this to me. Instinctively, my thrusts became harder as I tried to go in as deep as I could. I didn’t want to answer her question. As I fucked Her as best as I possibly could, I also realized that “it” wasn’t to get any bigger, nor was I going to penetrate Her any deeper.

And the look on Her face would never be mistaken as one of a woman in the throes of passion. All these thoughts humiliated and aroused me at the same time. The arousal increased, the size of my small penis didn’t, and I was afraid I was going to ejaculate prematurely….again.

Then She asked again.

“Are you sure it’s in all the way?”

I think I answered “yes” and ejaculated at the same time.

At least the humiliation didn’t cause me to shrink immediately, though my staying hard was of no benefit to Her. And once again, my premature ejaculation mercifully brought another failed attempt to please Her to an end.

She was nice about it. She always was. I sensed She felt sorry for me.

She just smiled and said “Well I guess it’s cleanup time isn’t it?”

As I dutifully pleasured Her orally to an orgasm, I just knew she had to be thinking, wishing and wanting something bigger and better.

And as you know, eventually She found what She needed. 

 

Love,

sissy terrie 💕  

Happy International Fetish Day

I almost missed this but today, January 15th is International Fetish Day.   The day has been celebrated on the third Friday in January since 2009.  The purpose of the day is to increase awareness and support of the fetish community. It is also designed to encourage members of the community to be more open about their sexuality.

The day has its origins in Great Britain as a protest to some laws that were being proposed or had passed in Parliament.   It started out as "National Fetish Day" in 2008 until it took on an international flavor the following year.   On the day, members of the community would wear something purple as a sign they were members and the slogan "Perverts wear purple" became quite popular.  

I hope to write more about the fetish community and our own experience with some of it years ago.  It led to meeting some very, very nice people and really helped us embrace a more fulfilling Female Led lifestyle. 

I suppose you could call the love of panties a fetish and maybe in my case it began in that way but over time was just part of my everyday attire and something associated with my femininity.  So I thought it would be apropos to feature a couple pairs of pretty purple panties, the first of which is an identical image of a pair I owned many years ago...

You might ask why I don't still have them.  When Diane decided that my panty-wearing regimen would be limited to pinks and other soft pastels, the purple panties were purged along with some other rather lovely but dark pieces of lingerie.  And yes, of course I miss them!

I'm thinking of asking Her for permission to buy something in more of a lilac shade of purple to wear next International Fetish Day in 2027.  Something instead of my everyday pink!

You could find these on Amazon for $12.99...

Anyone want to join me?  

Love,

sissy terrie 💜💜💜

Lingerie With Curves

It's Thursday, so don't expect any pictures of "Twiggy-like" girls in this plus-size lingerie feature!

Any curvy women wearing a pair of full cut pink nylon back seamed panties with a prominent gusset is certain to get my attention.

If she's provocatively posed like this she'd probably get my utmost devotion and adoration 👅 

These very ladylike looking strawberry pink shaded panties are very fitting on this bountiful bottom, one that is surely shaped to be noticed by Alpha and betas alike; for obviously different reasons/intentions!

 

Another backseamed and gusseted favorite.  Tightly fitting, shiny and sexy.  Try as I might, I can't quite get to get my girly bottom shaped exactly like this.

 

And finally, you can always count on a firmly fitting corset to give your own bottom a few extra curves!

 

Hope you noticed that these pictures are a little on the large side.  These fine ladies deserve to fill the screen along with the panties they may or may not be wearing.

Love,

 

sissy terrie 👄 

p.s. - If you're wondering who Twiggy was, she was a 60's iconic model who was a little too much on the thin side for this writer.   Even her pixie like haircut was a little too butch for me.