My Girdles

"I think you should wear a girdle tonight" Diane said rather nonchalantly.   

The fact that She'd said while walking away and was already in the other room before I had a chance to respond indicated that it wasn't really a suggestion.  I would wear a girdle to dinner at some friends house. 

Though my very first fascinations with feminine things had to do with panties, it didn't take long for girdles and bras to find their way into my field of dreams.  Much later, the joys of being laced into a corset became part of my life and as such, I've always loved the feeling of shapewear.  There's something intoxicating about actively pursuing a path to create a more flattering and feminine appearance.

I also find vintage or old fashioned ads about girdles or lingerie incredibly fascinating and arousing.   Though the print size makes the description of the product, the "Little X Hideway" hard to read, when you do see the words, you might see why they make sissies like me flushed with blushing femininity!

Dinner that night went fine.  No one suspected I was "girdled", much less wearing a chastity cage.  But the combination of the two provided me with a constant reminder of my submission and femininity.  It also reminded me of who called the shots in our relationship.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

 

Sissy Cuck

I've always enjoyed the creativity of the artists who put together these fantasy magazine covers with titillating titles of articles that might appear in them.  If only they were real and I could subscribe.

I've featured a few of these over the years.  You can check them out here - Sissy Magazines.

This particular magazine cover caught my eye for obvious reasons, but especially because of the "If you find this issue, your wife is cucking you." caption.

I sometimes get free trial issues of magazines based upon some organizations I may belong to, my professional life, charitable causes I support, etc.  

Just imagine if you were to receive this particular magazine in the mail (okay, in "plain brown wrapper") as means to inform you that you were a cuckold.

The senders/publishers do a great job of making your wife's and her lover's desires known to you. 

They don't beat around the bush.  They want to feminize you.

I suppose there are worse ways of finding out your wife is cuckolding you.

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

The Dominant BBW

As a submissive in a long time Wife Led Marriage, my beta personality is well understood by my Loving Wife & Mistress.   She knows all the right buttons to push to either get the what She wants or to evoke whatever response from me She desires.   This comes from many years of perfecting these skills.  She pushes these "buttons" in a variety of ways; both by the things She does or doesn't do, what She says or doesn't say, by the look She gives me or the way She ignores me....the list could go on and on.

Some women have a knack for making their submissives feel a certain way; inept, inferior, embarrassed, humiliated, awestruck, etc.

This Big Beautiful Woman makes me feel small...

Some women know how to use their size to their advantage.

She strikes me as such a woman.

love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Bulls & Cuckolds

Here's an interesting take on cuckold relationships, particularly how a wife might react to the dynamic between her bull and the cuckold, courtesy of the Tumblr blog Ms. C and Her Cuckwife.

Bull & Cuckold Dynamics - How Does it Affect Her?

When a couple takes that first step into the cuckold lifestyle, no matter how much preparation, research, vetting of potential lovers and care they've taken before starting, there will always be plenty of questions that remain. No one really knows how each of the parties involved are going to react to certain situations.

It's one thing to read about it, think about it, hear each others' feelings about it, talk openly about it (even as part of your sexual intimacies) and fantasize about it, but when that third person enters your life and begins to have sex with your wife, it's then that reality sets in.

There also comes a point, often dependent on the type of relationship that is sought, where the Alpha/beta dynamic starts to develop between the Bull and the cuckold. To what extent has that been discussed before? How far will it go? How dominant does the Bull want to be over the wife and the cuck? Who's willing to push the envelope? What if an Alpha Bull is more dominant than the cuckold or the wife expected? How will each of them react?

So much of this is trial and error. Not every step that's taken will work out perfectly.

 

The photo and caption above, as simple and filled with fantasy as it may seem, is very, very real. It's a real life example of a situation that could play out in any cuckold relationship. The wife seems surprised at her lovers' brazen domination and bullying of the cuckold. She may honestly be surprised, but she loves it. It excites her. It makes her want her bull even more.

What might be hellish, upsetting, embarrassing and very humiliating for the cuckold, and taken to a level the cuck never expected, at the same provides the wife a sexual excitement she has never experienced before. And it might be one she doesn't want to let go of.

Be prepared. If you're a submissive like I was when Carol and Jim began their relationship, you're likely to experience much stronger emotions than you expected.

Hope you enjoyed!

Love,

 

sissy terrie 👄👄👄 

Corset Poses - Two for Tuesday

I'm a "softie" in a number of ways.

And I've definitely got a soft spot for corsets.  They used to make me much harder than they do now (but that's a story for another post) however they still excite me.

I love how corsets look and feel on me but they're even more alluring on beautiful women of all shapes, sizes, ages, etc.

Take this gorgeous redhead who, AI generated or not, provides us with the prettiest of poses in these pictures.   First the front...

And now the back...

Which pose is your preference?  Mine is definitely the backside.  Most of you probably know my fascination with pretty bottoms in and out of panties, but those with a perfectly fitting panty with a beautiful gusset....mmmmm.

Photos courtesy of Brief Panty Nympho, a rather classy site on Tumblr that will fascinate you with feminine finery. 

I haven't done Two-for-Tuesday posts in quite some time.  Hope to continue with this in the weeks to come!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

She's In Charge

In any real, honest-to-goodness Female Led Relationship there has to be a surrender by the male or a meeting of the minds where the male surrenders to the Female.  The male has to accept the fact that the Wife, Girlfriend or Female Partner owns the stronger role.  

With that, comes the responsibility to submit to Her, even though you think She is wrong.  

One of the most profound, powerfully symbolic and humbling acts a male must endure is to submit to discipline whenever his Dominant decides it's time. These scenes don't always play out when the submissive happens to be "in the mood" for a spanking or other form of discipline.  Rather, they're likely to take place at the most inopportune of times.

With my Mistress 2700 miles away (give or tank 50 miles or so) and left under the supervision and care of Her best friend Linda, Mistress decided that I was due for a "maintenance spanking."  It didn't seem to matter (or who knows, perhaps it was the determining factor) that I hadn't had one of these spankings in months, Diane decided that now was the time.

Her decision came with specific instructions that included the implements (yes, implements with an "s" as in a crop and a paddle) to be used, the number of swats and the length of corner time I was to endure. 

The number of swats seemed just about brought me to tears.  Thankfully Linda showed a bit of mercy in the severity of Her strokes.  I didn't cry, nor was there anyone else there who could have possibly heard my sobs, seen me doing my time and corner and gazed at my reddened bottom.

All that being said, today was just one added layer (one of many) to reinforce that Diane has total control of the stronger role.  Her friend Linda is certainly an accomplice, but She/Diane is in charge.

love,

spanked sissy terrie 💓
 

Coffee & Cunilingus

Having a Wife, partner, lover who often wakes up horny can be a blessing to some and a curse to others.

As a submissive who now, more than ever after years of learning to serve, thoroughly enjoys to pleasure my Wife whenever She wakes up itching for satisfaction, I am truly blessed.

But some women, my Wife and Her friend Linda being two of them, both have to have their morning coffee before anything else.  That's fine with me.  

From:  Coffee With the Girls 

 

They might even take a sip now and then while they're being attended to.

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Happy Valentine's Day

This will be the first Valentine's Day since we first met that Mistress and me will be apart.  It's not a separation that has anything to do with our Female Led Marriage or cuckold lifestyle, but one that was necessitated by Her visit to a sick family member.  Fortunately, they are recovering and Mistress should be back home soon. 

I want to wish all my readers and anyone else who stops by today a very Happy Valentine's Day.  Share your love and your loving thoughts with those near you and even apart from you.  Just share it.  This world needs it.

Thought you'd like this cute little FemDom piece of art.   Many a submissive male grew up and matured in their devotion to authoritative Females with some type of direction from Elise Sutton.  Many a novice Domme did so as well.  Her writings on the subject are legendary.  She also had an extensive website that isn't around anymore but you can still purchase some of her books on Amazon, including her classic: The FemDom Experience.

I miss Elise Sutton's wisdom on the subject, but I miss my Mistress even more.  It's not really Valentine's Day without Her around.

Absence certainly makes the heart grow fonder.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕💘💖 

Cuckold Duties, Denials & a Reminder

No particular theme today but instead a couple of unrelated kinky thoughts and an important reminder.

Preparing coffee for a wife and her lover is a pretty important tank for many types of cuckolds, particularly submissive ones...

For a better view of this post, check out the Contemplating the Divine blog by Servitor.   I'm very fortunate that both Mistress and Her Lover take their coffee black.  It's a simple recipe that even I can follow.  

 

Isn't this the truth!!!  I've thought more and more about the added 60 day sentence I'm serving after the Super Bowl.  

 And by the time you read this you'll have less than one shopping day left to buy something nice for your special Valentine.  Flowers and chocolate are nice, but I think most of us would agree that some pretty lingerie takes gift giving to another level.  

If you don't have a special Valentine this year, then just treat yourself.  Head to Shadowline and buy yourself a cute little babydoll pajama set like the one shown above.  Every sissy should own at least one of them!

Love,

sissy terrie  

I love a pretty bra and panty set.

I also love women with beautiful, sensual and sexy curves.

When these to come together....it's a perfect fit. 

 

Some W/women, my Wife being one of them, believe that the color white "makes me look fat."

 I say "Nonsense.  It makes you look sexier."

 

Have a wonderful Thick Thursday!

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Full Cut & Frilly

Yes, these panties can be considered "Full Cut."  This style is often referred to as "Granny Panties" but there's nothing really grandmotherly about this particular collection.

Just one short of providing a full week's worth of feminine luxury, this half dozen pair of panties are made for just about any sissy I know.   It's hard to pick out a particular favorite. 

They provide a perfect balance (3 each) of simple girly pastels along with dainty and delicate lace, ruffles and sissy bows to send us swooning with delight!

You might not find these panties being worn by many Grandmas, but I do know some "men" of a certain age (i.e. grandpas) who'd love to prance around in them!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

When She asks you that question in the middle of your lovemaking with Her, it's kind of like a "no confidence vote" isn't it?

It's one of the most effective Small Penis Humiliation techniques as well.  

Here's a little snippet from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her cuckwife:

"Are you all the way in?"

Of course she knows the answer to her question, particularly when she’s in the missionary position position and looking you right in the eyes.

What are you supposed to say? What can you say? You've done your best. It's just not happening for Her.

She just wants you to humiliate yourself by saying “Yes I am.”

The humiliation might cause it to shrink even more and possibly even make you ejaculate prematurely, mercifully bringing another failed attempt to please her to an end.

You know she’s thinking, wishing and even wanting something bigger and better.

No picture needed for today's post.

Sometimes words are far more powerful. 

Love,

sissy terrie 😍 

Looking on the Bright Side....

...there is light at the end of the tunnel (of denial)!!!

It didn't take me long to realize that the likelihood of my being allowed an orgasm in the next few days was slipping away rather rapidly.

With each sack, fumble and loss of yardage plays my hope faded.

But as one opportunity closes, another is not too far (in this case just 60 days) away.  And with my years of experience with this type of denial, I think I can handle it.

Instead of not knowing when my next orgasm will come and living in a state of angst and suspense, there's something to be said for just 8+ weeks of certainty!  

60 days?  I think I could almost do that standing on my head.  Instead all I have to do is do it in my cage.

As to the game, what can I say?  My Pats just got spanked. 

Clearly the best team won.

A special congratulations to my sissy friend up in the Seattle area, Wapanty, who is reveling with revenge for the unexplainable loss they suffered in Super Bowl XLIX to my Patriots.  I don't think she stopped cheering until after midnight...

 Let the countdown begin!

 

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

Super Bowl LX

I have lots on the line in today's Super Bowl between the Seattle Seahawks and our New England Patriots.  Thought both of us are big Pats fans, having spent a good part of our lives in the Boston metro area and attending many of their games, we are going to find ourselves, Mistress and me, with somewhat mixed allegiances as we watch the game with friends.

Yesterday Mistress proposed (it really was a non-negotiable offer) that the two of us have a friendly wager on the game.  Our wager would be on the point spread (Seattle -4.5) and I could choose my team first.   

The stakes:  If I won the bet, Mistress would allow me to have an orgasm, cage-free, within the next three days after the game.   If She won, my next orgasm would be delayed 60 days; a fitting number for Super Bowl LX.  

"I think it's a win-win for you" She opined.  "After all, it's been months since you've had an orgasm and this way, as a demonstration of my benevolence, I'm promising you an orgasm one way or another."

Though I had a couple of arguments I could raise, how can a submissive really argue with that kind of "Mistress logic?" 

So I really can't root against my Patriots.  I want them to flat out win and now, even if they lose by less than 5 points I get to enjoy an orgasm.  And since I just know they are going to win, I'll be enjoying a cage-free orgasm very, very soon.

This really is more than a win-win for me.  I really think it is a win-win-Win when think about it.  She gets to enjoy reveling in Her control of things.

And besides, what is another 60 days for me?  I've been locked for much longer periods.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

"Put On Your Big Girl Panties and..."

Whenever Mistress utters those humbling words I'm filled with a wide variety of emotions, not the least of which are plenty of embarrassment and shame.  They've sometimes included instructions to do just that, come back and pose for Her, perhaps Her lover Karl or best friend Linda.

Further, the instructions might change a bit by Her saying "Put on your little girl (or baby) panties and..."

Hence, I've posed in little girl panties....

 And big girl panties...

The former brings a greater feeling of humiliation most of the times, but depending on the situation, not always.

My panty drawer seems to be filled with panties that fall into either one of these two categories:  Little girl/baby panties or Big girl/granny panties.

I never thought of it that way until I found this panty which offers a beautiful blend of both.  The rumba style ruffles across the backside of the panty give it a very childlike innocent look to it.  I think every sissy would love that.  Yet the panty also includes a set of garters which are not childlike at all and clearly meant for the more mature woman.

 

I should probably find this pair somewhere, just in case Mistress can't make up Her mind what She wants me to pose in.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕 

Strap-On Sex

As most of my readers know, I've been on the receiving end of penetrative sex with Diane for many years.  It's been a staple of our lovemaking, and very pleasurable for both of us.

One of the things that makes it pleasurable (and safe) is that the strap-ons She makes love to me with are all reasonable in size.  Yes, She has several - after all we've been at this awhile - but definitely has her favorite.

Yet the strap-on porn you see on the web focuses on size.   I enjoyed this particular post by Servitor on his blog this past Sunday... 

Many men prefer women of moderate size in that regard but you wouldn't think so from looking at online porn.

From: Contemplating the Divine 

Yes, plenty of lube is so important, but lube has its limits to effectiveness.   Here's a very sexy piece of art from the Erotic Art tumblr site that reminded me very much of Diane.

I'd say most submissives would consider it size-appropriate.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Show Me

A little piece of flash fiction from a friend/bbw enthusiast....

True Love? 

"Is it really me you love?  Or are you simply infatuated with my ass?" the sexy BBW asked Her beta boyfriend.

"I love you more than anything" he said as She strode around the room in bra, panties and heels.   

"Just get naked.  Do as I say" She told.  He obeyed and stood in front of Her with his little dicklette pointing upward.

"Look at you.  Is that love, or is it lust?" She asked, but before he could answer added "I think it's my panties you love isn't it?"

"I love you, and your panties" he answered meekly.

"I know.  I saw fondling them the other day by the hamper.  Saw you kissing the crotch and the gussett over and over" She said.  

The boyfriend thought he had put the panties away when he heard her coming.  

"Surprised?  I backed away, coughed to give you a warning to compose yourself.  I'd seen enough" She said with a laugh.

"It's the gussett that turns you on the most isn't it?" She asked him.

There was need for an answer.   He blushed with shame, yet his little erection kept it's rigidity.

"Then show me how much you love my panty gussett" She told him as She made Her way onto the bed.

 

"Get down there and worship it" She said.

He obeyed and began to show his lust for Her, Her panty and the gussett.  The more he kissed the more aroused he got.

"Good boy...just don't make a mess of the bed.  Understand?"

Before He could answer, it was too late.  He hadn't been able to control himself.

Hope you enjoyed :)

Love, 

sissy terrie  💗

Sissy Friends in Babydolls

 My sissy friend and loyal reader Laci loves to tease me now and then with lovely photos of her posing some of her pretty things.  She sent me this selfie taken while on a golfing trip with three "non-suspecting" golf buddies.  Posing in the pretty aqua blue  babydoll in the privacy of her room, she knew full well how it would make me feel...

And how do I feel?

Well, jealous of course.  She certainly knows how to push my sissy buttons, as well as how to make me uncomfortable in my cage.  I really need to play golf with her soon.  

Maybe she can help me improve my stroke, or I hers, or....

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Chastity - Not Just for Sissies

 I saw this meme the other day along with the accompanying comment:

This is very true for us. He's a very masculine man, a warrior, stubborn, and smart. And he loves to submit to my power over him sexually. I get the best of both worlds. In fact... I often see sissy men and women who seem to encourage sissy men, and I am not sure what the attraction is to that. Personally for me, it's way more fun to bend my big strong husband to my will! He's twice my size and could snap me in half if he wanted to. But besides being a nice man, he's also turned on by my power over him.

There's no doubt that when it comes to a male chastity lifestyle, it's safe to say those locked and their keyholders represent a wide variety of sexual preferences and gender identity orientations.  It's a mystery to our own selves as to why we are the way we are.  To try and understand why others are the way they are is a total waste of time and a bit too judgemental in most cases.   

Kudos to those with rugged and alpha personalities who are willing to submit to someone sexually and be put in chastity.  They are accepting who they really are and doing what comes natural to them, just like I am!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

Cuckold Duties

Mistress D's lover Karl spent last night here at our place, in the marital bed of course.   Besides taking care of dinner, taking the bed down and some minimal "fluffing" type duties.  I also got to prepare the two of them their favorite cocktails.  Karl's was a simple mix I'm used to preparing.  But Mistress had a special request...

I'm pretty sure She enjoyed it.

And of course there's always the obligatory Sunday morning coffee for the two lovers, served when, where and how they want it.

 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗