Corset Poses - Two for Tuesday

I'm a "softie" in a number of ways.

And I've definitely got a soft spot for corsets.  They used to make me much harder than they do now (but that's a story for another post) however they still excite me.

I love how corsets look and feel on me but they're even more alluring on beautiful women of all shapes, sizes, ages, etc.

Take this gorgeous redhead who, AI generated or not, provides us with the prettiest of poses in these pictures.   First the front...

And now the back...

Which pose is your preference?  Mine is definitely the backside.  Most of you probably know my fascination with pretty bottoms in and out of panties, but those with a perfectly fitting panty with a beautiful gusset....mmmmm.

Photos courtesy of Brief Panty Nympho, a rather classy site on Tumblr that will fascinate you with feminine finery. 

I haven't done Two-for-Tuesday posts in quite some time.  Hope to continue with this in the weeks to come!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

She's In Charge

In any real, honest-to-goodness Female Led Relationship there has to be a surrender by the male or a meeting of the minds where the male surrenders to the Female.  The male has to accept the fact that the Wife, Girlfriend or Female Partner owns the stronger role.  

With that, comes the responsibility to submit to Her, even though you think She is wrong.  

One of the most profound, powerfully symbolic and humbling acts a male must endure is to submit to discipline whenever his Dominant decides it's time. These scenes don't always play out when the submissive happens to be "in the mood" for a spanking or other form of discipline.  Rather, they're likely to take place at the most inopportune of times.

With my Mistress 2700 miles away (give or tank 50 miles or so) and left under the supervision and care of Her best friend Linda, Mistress decided that I was due for a "maintenance spanking."  It didn't seem to matter (or who knows, perhaps it was the determining factor) that I hadn't had one of these spankings in months, Diane decided that now was the time.

Her decision came with specific instructions that included the implements (yes, implements with an "s" as in a crop and a paddle) to be used, the number of swats and the length of corner time I was to endure. 

The number of swats seemed just about brought me to tears.  Thankfully Linda showed a bit of mercy in the severity of Her strokes.  I didn't cry, nor was there anyone else there who could have possibly heard my sobs, seen me doing my time and corner and gazed at my reddened bottom.

All that being said, today was just one added layer (one of many) to reinforce that Diane has total control of the stronger role.  Her friend Linda is certainly an accomplice, but She/Diane is in charge.

love,

spanked sissy terrie 💓
 

Coffee & Cunilingus

Having a Wife, partner, lover who often wakes up horny can be a blessing to some and a curse to others.

As a submissive who now, more than ever after years of learning to serve, thoroughly enjoys to pleasure my Wife whenever She wakes up itching for satisfaction, I am truly blessed.

But some women, my Wife and Her friend Linda being two of them, both have to have their morning coffee before anything else.  That's fine with me.  

From:  Coffee With the Girls 

 

They might even take a sip now and then while they're being attended to.

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Happy Valentine's Day

This will be the first Valentine's Day since we first met that Mistress and me will be apart.  It's not a separation that has anything to do with our Female Led Marriage or cuckold lifestyle, but one that was necessitated by Her visit to a sick family member.  Fortunately, they are recovering and Mistress should be back home soon. 

I want to wish all my readers and anyone else who stops by today a very Happy Valentine's Day.  Share your love and your loving thoughts with those near you and even apart from you.  Just share it.  This world needs it.

Thought you'd like this cute little FemDom piece of art.   Many a submissive male grew up and matured in their devotion to authoritative Females with some type of direction from Elise Sutton.  Many a novice Domme did so as well.  Her writings on the subject are legendary.  She also had an extensive website that isn't around anymore but you can still purchase some of her books on Amazon, including her classic: The FemDom Experience.

I miss Elise Sutton's wisdom on the subject, but I miss my Mistress even more.  It's not really Valentine's Day without Her around.

Absence certainly makes the heart grow fonder.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕💘💖 

Cuckold Duties, Denials & a Reminder

No particular theme today but instead a couple of unrelated kinky thoughts and an important reminder.

Preparing coffee for a wife and her lover is a pretty important tank for many types of cuckolds, particularly submissive ones...

For a better view of this post, check out the Contemplating the Divine blog by Servitor.   I'm very fortunate that both Mistress and Her Lover take their coffee black.  It's a simple recipe that even I can follow.  

 

Isn't this the truth!!!  I've thought more and more about the added 60 day sentence I'm serving after the Super Bowl.  

 And by the time you read this you'll have less than one shopping day left to buy something nice for your special Valentine.  Flowers and chocolate are nice, but I think most of us would agree that some pretty lingerie takes gift giving to another level.  

If you don't have a special Valentine this year, then just treat yourself.  Head to Shadowline and buy yourself a cute little babydoll pajama set like the one shown above.  Every sissy should own at least one of them!

Love,

sissy terrie  

I love a pretty bra and panty set.

I also love women with beautiful, sensual and sexy curves.

When these to come together....it's a perfect fit. 

 

Some W/women, my Wife being one of them, believe that the color white "makes me look fat."

 I say "Nonsense.  It makes you look sexier."

 

Have a wonderful Thick Thursday!

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Full Cut & Frilly

Yes, these panties can be considered "Full Cut."  This style is often referred to as "Granny Panties" but there's nothing really grandmotherly about this particular collection.

Just one short of providing a full week's worth of feminine luxury, this half dozen pair of panties are made for just about any sissy I know.   It's hard to pick out a particular favorite. 

They provide a perfect balance (3 each) of simple girly pastels along with dainty and delicate lace, ruffles and sissy bows to send us swooning with delight!

You might not find these panties being worn by many Grandmas, but I do know some "men" of a certain age (i.e. grandpas) who'd love to prance around in them!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

When She asks you that question in the middle of your lovemaking with Her, it's kind of like a "no confidence vote" isn't it?

It's one of the most effective Small Penis Humiliation techniques as well.  

Here's a little snippet from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her cuckwife:

"Are you all the way in?"

Of course she knows the answer to her question, particularly when she’s in the missionary position position and looking you right in the eyes.

What are you supposed to say? What can you say? You've done your best. It's just not happening for Her.

She just wants you to humiliate yourself by saying “Yes I am.”

The humiliation might cause it to shrink even more and possibly even make you ejaculate prematurely, mercifully bringing another failed attempt to please her to an end.

You know she’s thinking, wishing and even wanting something bigger and better.

No picture needed for today's post.

Sometimes words are far more powerful. 

Love,

sissy terrie 😍 

Looking on the Bright Side....

...there is light at the end of the tunnel (of denial)!!!

It didn't take me long to realize that the likelihood of my being allowed an orgasm in the next few days was slipping away rather rapidly.

With each sack, fumble and loss of yardage plays my hope faded.

But as one opportunity closes, another is not too far (in this case just 60 days) away.  And with my years of experience with this type of denial, I think I can handle it.

Instead of not knowing when my next orgasm will come and living in a state of angst and suspense, there's something to be said for just 8+ weeks of certainty!  

60 days?  I think I could almost do that standing on my head.  Instead all I have to do is do it in my cage.

As to the game, what can I say?  My Pats just got spanked. 

Clearly the best team won.

A special congratulations to my sissy friend up in the Seattle area, Wapanty, who is reveling with revenge for the unexplainable loss they suffered in Super Bowl XLIX to my Patriots.  I don't think she stopped cheering until after midnight...

 Let the countdown begin!

 

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

Super Bowl LX

I have lots on the line in today's Super Bowl between the Seattle Seahawks and our New England Patriots.  Thought both of us are big Pats fans, having spent a good part of our lives in the Boston metro area and attending many of their games, we are going to find ourselves, Mistress and me, with somewhat mixed allegiances as we watch the game with friends.

Yesterday Mistress proposed (it really was a non-negotiable offer) that the two of us have a friendly wager on the game.  Our wager would be on the point spread (Seattle -4.5) and I could choose my team first.   

The stakes:  If I won the bet, Mistress would allow me to have an orgasm, cage-free, within the next three days after the game.   If She won, my next orgasm would be delayed 60 days; a fitting number for Super Bowl LX.  

"I think it's a win-win for you" She opined.  "After all, it's been months since you've had an orgasm and this way, as a demonstration of my benevolence, I'm promising you an orgasm one way or another."

Though I had a couple of arguments I could raise, how can a submissive really argue with that kind of "Mistress logic?" 

So I really can't root against my Patriots.  I want them to flat out win and now, even if they lose by less than 5 points I get to enjoy an orgasm.  And since I just know they are going to win, I'll be enjoying a cage-free orgasm very, very soon.

This really is more than a win-win for me.  I really think it is a win-win-Win when think about it.  She gets to enjoy reveling in Her control of things.

And besides, what is another 60 days for me?  I've been locked for much longer periods.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

"Put On Your Big Girl Panties and..."

Whenever Mistress utters those humbling words I'm filled with a wide variety of emotions, not the least of which are plenty of embarrassment and shame.  They've sometimes included instructions to do just that, come back and pose for Her, perhaps Her lover Karl or best friend Linda.

Further, the instructions might change a bit by Her saying "Put on your little girl (or baby) panties and..."

Hence, I've posed in little girl panties....

 And big girl panties...

The former brings a greater feeling of humiliation most of the times, but depending on the situation, not always.

My panty drawer seems to be filled with panties that fall into either one of these two categories:  Little girl/baby panties or Big girl/granny panties.

I never thought of it that way until I found this panty which offers a beautiful blend of both.  The rumba style ruffles across the backside of the panty give it a very childlike innocent look to it.  I think every sissy would love that.  Yet the panty also includes a set of garters which are not childlike at all and clearly meant for the more mature woman.

 

I should probably find this pair somewhere, just in case Mistress can't make up Her mind what She wants me to pose in.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕 

Strap-On Sex

As most of my readers know, I've been on the receiving end of penetrative sex with Diane for many years.  It's been a staple of our lovemaking, and very pleasurable for both of us.

One of the things that makes it pleasurable (and safe) is that the strap-ons She makes love to me with are all reasonable in size.  Yes, She has several - after all we've been at this awhile - but definitely has her favorite.

Yet the strap-on porn you see on the web focuses on size.   I enjoyed this particular post by Servitor on his blog this past Sunday... 

Many men prefer women of moderate size in that regard but you wouldn't think so from looking at online porn.

From: Contemplating the Divine 

Yes, plenty of lube is so important, but lube has its limits to effectiveness.   Here's a very sexy piece of art from the Erotic Art tumblr site that reminded me very much of Diane.

I'd say most submissives would consider it size-appropriate.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Show Me

A little piece of flash fiction from a friend/bbw enthusiast....

True Love? 

"Is it really me you love?  Or are you simply infatuated with my ass?" the sexy BBW asked Her beta boyfriend.

"I love you more than anything" he said as She strode around the room in bra, panties and heels.   

"Just get naked.  Do as I say" She told.  He obeyed and stood in front of Her with his little dicklette pointing upward.

"Look at you.  Is that love, or is it lust?" She asked, but before he could answer added "I think it's my panties you love isn't it?"

"I love you, and your panties" he answered meekly.

"I know.  I saw fondling them the other day by the hamper.  Saw you kissing the crotch and the gussett over and over" She said.  

The boyfriend thought he had put the panties away when he heard her coming.  

"Surprised?  I backed away, coughed to give you a warning to compose yourself.  I'd seen enough" She said with a laugh.

"It's the gussett that turns you on the most isn't it?" She asked him.

There was need for an answer.   He blushed with shame, yet his little erection kept it's rigidity.

"Then show me how much you love my panty gussett" She told him as She made Her way onto the bed.

 

"Get down there and worship it" She said.

He obeyed and began to show his lust for Her, Her panty and the gussett.  The more he kissed the more aroused he got.

"Good boy...just don't make a mess of the bed.  Understand?"

Before He could answer, it was too late.  He hadn't been able to control himself.

Hope you enjoyed :)

Love, 

sissy terrie  💗

Sissy Friends in Babydolls

 My sissy friend and loyal reader Laci loves to tease me now and then with lovely photos of her posing some of her pretty things.  She sent me this selfie taken while on a golfing trip with three "non-suspecting" golf buddies.  Posing in the pretty aqua blue  babydoll in the privacy of her room, she knew full well how it would make me feel...

And how do I feel?

Well, jealous of course.  She certainly knows how to push my sissy buttons, as well as how to make me uncomfortable in my cage.  I really need to play golf with her soon.  

Maybe she can help me improve my stroke, or I hers, or....

Love,

sissy terrie  💗

Chastity - Not Just for Sissies

 I saw this meme the other day along with the accompanying comment:

This is very true for us. He's a very masculine man, a warrior, stubborn, and smart. And he loves to submit to my power over him sexually. I get the best of both worlds. In fact... I often see sissy men and women who seem to encourage sissy men, and I am not sure what the attraction is to that. Personally for me, it's way more fun to bend my big strong husband to my will! He's twice my size and could snap me in half if he wanted to. But besides being a nice man, he's also turned on by my power over him.

There's no doubt that when it comes to a male chastity lifestyle, it's safe to say those locked and their keyholders represent a wide variety of sexual preferences and gender identity orientations.  It's a mystery to our own selves as to why we are the way we are.  To try and understand why others are the way they are is a total waste of time and a bit too judgemental in most cases.   

Kudos to those with rugged and alpha personalities who are willing to submit to someone sexually and be put in chastity.  They are accepting who they really are and doing what comes natural to them, just like I am!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

Cuckold Duties

Mistress D's lover Karl spent last night here at our place, in the marital bed of course.   Besides taking care of dinner, taking the bed down and some minimal "fluffing" type duties.  I also got to prepare the two of them their favorite cocktails.  Karl's was a simple mix I'm used to preparing.  But Mistress had a special request...

I'm pretty sure She enjoyed it.

And of course there's always the obligatory Sunday morning coffee for the two lovers, served when, where and how they want it.

 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

 

New Year Lingerie Drawer Overhaul!!!

I, and several of my sissy sisters, are big fans of the very womanly and full cut panties sold by Shadowline Lingerie.  In fact, I've even had "matching panty days" with one of my sissy sisters.  If you ever feel like joining us, well just let me know!

Today's post is from the Shadowline website blog.  I loved reading it and hope you will as well.

 

 Lingerie Care & Styling Tips

New Year Lingerie Drawer Overhaul: The Must-Have Essentials

 

Wouldn’t it be nice to always have the perfect underwear for whichever outfit you pick out in the morning? You can make that a reality. All it takes is a little reviewing and refreshing of your current lingerie drawer, and that ‘new year, new start’ mood is the perfect motivation to do it.

 

Step 1: decide what needs to go

Start by taking a look at all the underwear you currently own, checking for anything worn out which needs replacing. There’s also no point hanging onto items which no longer fit or which are uncomfortable.

Be honest with yourself. You may love a particular bra or panty, but if it has seen better days, just think about how much more you’ll love having a fresh, flawless new replacement – or an upgrade!

A smoothing essential: Shadowline Flawless Fit Full Brief Panty

Step 2: work out what you’re missing

Second, try to identify any gaps in your collection. Do you regularly find yourself running out of a particular lingerie style or color? Then you’ll benefit from having more of it.

Do you find yourself avoiding certain garments in your closet because you never seem to have the right thing to wear below them? Consider what the ideal underpinnings would be – something that elegantly fills in a too-low neckline perhaps, or which doesn’t create a visible panty line – and that will tell you what you need to shop for.

Perfect Underpants: Shadowline Nylon High Cut Panty

Step 3: ensure you have the basics covered

No lingerie drawer is complete until you’ve got enough great-fitting, comfortable and practical pieces to meet your day-to-day needs. Everyone’s ‘essentials’ will be a little different based on personal preferences and the types of outfits you typically wear, but here are some suggestions to help you figure out your own must-haves:

Essential everyday briefs

It pays to have a variety of panty silhouettes in your collection, to suit different outfits. For example, hipster briefs are a great for staying hidden when you’re wearing pants or skirts with lower-rise waistlines, while high-waisted briefs offer a smoother silhouette under close-fitting dresses. And for pencil skirts or pants, high leg underwear is a great option since it won’t create any visible lines at the upper thigh.

Shaddowline Essential Wide Strap Camisole

Endlessly-versatile camisoles

Camisoles are so multi-purpose – here are seven ways to wear one – that we truly believe they should be a staple in every woman’s wardrobe. Layering one under itchy sweaters for softness, or using one to add some modesty to a sheer or low-necked top, are a couple of many suggestions, so it’s always handy to have a few camisoles in your closet.

As a starting point, consider choosing one in cozy cotton for cold weather, and one with a lace trim for when it’s just seen. A camisole with a reversible neckline is also a great first piece that gives you options!

Smoothing, comfort-enhancing slips

Similarly, slips can serve a variety of purposes, from creating a comfy base layer to erasing visible bra and panty lines, to reducing static cling from your skirts.  Read more about all the reasons you'll love owning a slip here. If you’ve never owned a slip before, we suggest starting with a half slip in a short or midi length which you can wear below both skirts and dresses with various hemlines. But full slips and even pant slips are also available.

The secret to a smoother look: Velrose 25" Nylon Half Slip & 26"Nylon Full Slip

Step 4 (optional): treat yourself!

Once you’ve decluttered your lingerie drawer and stocked back up on the basics, any leftover budget can go towards those stylish, just-for-fun pieces you’d simply love to have. You may not wear these pieces quite so often, but they still deserve a spot in your collection.

Maybe that means indulging in a vintage style babydoll or some lacy panties  for special occasions. Or it might mean adding some more decorative variations of your favorite go-to basics, such as a beautiful satin and lace slip to complement your simpler nylon ones.

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Reorganizing and refreshing your lingerie collection is an easily achievable start-of-the-year goal. Take a little time out this weekend to sort through yours and you’ll breeze through the rest of the year, never having to worry about whether you’ve got the right underwear for each day’s outfit.

 

Well I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I did.  Did you feel more and more feminine as you read it????

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Panty Sale!

I'm having a sale on some of my favorite panty styles.

Grab them while they last.

Trust me, they'll be all gone soon!!!!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Pleasing "Daddy"

Diane's instructions were rather specific.  

"Just do what he tells you" would have seemed to cover everything.  But She went on to tell me exactly what Karl was expecting me to be wearing when he arrived that evening, most likely an hour or so before She herself would get home.

"I might be pretty tired after a long day.  He knows that.  So if he wants attention, just do what he tells you" were Her basic orders.

So I did what I always did and followed instructions.   There's something very humbling yet erotic about getting yourself ready for a man, particularly if that man is your wife's lover.

I wore the skirt, top, stockings, shoes and panties that he wanted me to wear.

I felt very, very submissive when he arrived.

After serving him his favorite adult beverage and he sat in his favorite chair, I found myself at his side and on my knees as he instructed.  I knelt there, my bottom resting on my  heels for what seemed like forever as he watched Sportscenter. 

Finally, he put his drink down, stood up, looked at me and said:

"Skirt up!" he said with a smile.

I lifted my tartan skirt. 

I thought he was never going to ask.  I'd been waiting a long time to show Daddy my panties!

I smiled back and did everything he wanted.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Pink or Blue?

I know several cd and sissy girlfriends of mine who are fans of so-called full cut "granny panties."  I do wish I had a fuller more girlish ass at times, one with curves in just the right places.  

These two AI generated lovelies have derrieres that I'd be proud to flaunt.

Which color and bottom is your favorite...

The pink one?

 Or the blue one?

 Love,

sissy terrie 💗💙