"Tied Up"

I've been quite busy over the past week or so.  But not busy enough with "things that are really important" so Mistress says. 

Hence I've kind of been in this "electronic devices/surfing-the-web/social media" corner time.   Much as I tried to explain that much of my time on my laptop and other devices has to do with research for my professional work, that argument didn't carry any weight.  

Stupid me.  In any Female-Led-Relationship worth its salt, the submissive male never winds any debate.  I hesitate to lift our discussion (mine and Diane's) to the level of argument because having an argument is way, way, way out of bounds.

So my time's been limited here as I've now been "tied up" but in a good way.

I've not been as fortunate as this lucky boi to enjoy some bondage, panties, ruffled anklet socks and a blindfold and displayed in front of one of his Mistress' friends.

But I did get to spend some corner time for 15+ minutes after serving Mistress and Her friend Ms. Linda a glass of wine last night.

That's what earned me the right to post today.  

I'll be good, and back soon.

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Cuckold Thoughts

I found this story on Medium.com, as part of a series called "Cuckold Thoughts."    It touches on the topic of how different and varied the sex a wife has with her alpha lover can be from the sex she has with her cuckold..  This short story focuses on one particular difference but I'm sure there are many others.  It also goes beyond any one particular sex act.  With "him" a wife is likely a very different lover.

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The Things She Does for Her Bull 

In those cuckold relationships where the Bull is a superior lover than the cuckold (for whatever reasons), there are probably several sexual activities that the wife has done with the bull that she hasn’t done with her husband. Anal sex might be one of those activities.

It took some time, but Jim eventually took Carol from behind. After much discussion (most all of it without and unbeknownst to me) they’d decided to “do it.” Then, followed by plenty of preparation in the days leading up to it, preparation on the day of the event and plenty of lube, it finally happened.

She’d never had anal sex with me. I only penetrated her bottom with my tongue. Moreover, my days of penetrating anything with my penis are over. That train left the station a long time ago.

When Jim filled Carol’s bottom with his seed, it was a seminal (pun intended) moment in our relationship. It shaped and solidified each of our roles going forward.

I’d cleaned Carol’s vagina many times after Jim had made love to Her, but the first time I did the same to Her beautiful bottom, ingesting His semen from Her bum, it sent me into the deepest subspace I’d ever experienced.

There are other things they’ve done together that I never got to experience with Carol, but Jim’s taking Her anal virginity was the most powerful of all of them.

Hope you enjoyed this piece.

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Love,

sissy terrie 💗  

Big, Beautiful & Fully Feminine

Quite often the Thursday feature on this blog portrays Big Beautiful Women as Dominant, Demanding, Controlling and all too willing to subjugate willing or even unwilling male subjects.

Today's post has a slightly different twist.  This particularly large lady emits a soft, sensual and almost passive feminine sexuality that is the least bit menacing...

Moreover, I cant help but be infatuated with her stunning curves encased by those incredibly feminine ruffled "sissy" panties...

There is just sooooo much to love!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Tutoring Sessions

In grad school Carol and Catherine ran a rather lucrative tutoring business for select beta boys who needed help with their studies.   As graduate assistants at the prestigious Ivy League school, they would hand pick those students they thought could benefit from the services they offered.

Besides the hefty hourly fee they charged, the boys were also required to please them in any ways they wished.

Facesitting was one of those ways.

It also served to keep their clients focused.

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

The Age of Authority

Her friends teased her about being a cougar.

There were whispers and snide remarks about their "May-December" marriage.

"She's a cradle robber" said her best friend "and she found a boytoy!"

Say what they may, all were  jealous of how her new husband doted on her.

 His friends wondered what got into him.

Most thought he married her for the money.

"The cougar and her cub" they'd laugh. 

Yet  the coupling of the two renewed Her confidence in Her controlling ability, and brought peace and serenity to Her submissive.

It was a beautiful thing to see.

Love,

sissy terrie 💘💘 

 

The FemDom Book Club

A submissive husband's humiliation in front of his wife's "new friends" is just the beginning...

“Hold them up for everyone to see!” There was some giggling in the room, many smiles and a few silent smirks.  All the women in the book club seemed to enjoy seeing the hostess’ “husband” in this shameful predicament, modeling his new lingerie for her friends.

“We just bought the outfit yesterday.  Isn’t it pretty?” she asked the group.  There was plenty of nodding in agreement, some positive comments and a few catcalls.  "It came with two panties, one of them gartered and the other not.  Sissy just loved the set and couldn't wait to show all of you.  Isn't that right darling?"

"Yes Mistress" replied the dainty and docile submissive. 

“Ok, you can run along now” the hostess said dismissing the husband with her waving hand.  "Don't forget to close the door and get on with your chores."

Hubby closed the doors to the study and hurried quickly back into the kitchen where he would finish preparing snacks for the ladies.  The book club began a few months back and the women would discuss a chapter each week.  It seemed to hubby that they should be moving at a faster pace.  

Hubby wondered what book they were reading.  Each of the women, newly found friends of his wife, had their Kindles, tables or iPads to follow along.  Each seemed to leave the meetings very inspired and happy.

This was their 7th meeting.  All but two of them had been held here in their home.  It was at the second meeting that his wife Bernice had "outed" him to the group, introducing the blushing man in a pretty pink pinafore as "my loving and doting husband Robin." 

Love,

sissy terrie 💖

 

Sex Positions & Penis Size

 

Happy Saturday!

Today's post is an "oldie but goodie" from a previous blog that my Mistress Wife Diane had at one time.  There's always hopes that She may decide to resurrect it but for now, you'll just have to enjoy some re-blogs from time to time.

So, having received Her permission to post it here, I do hope you enjoy it, along with Her own views on penetrative sex when it comes to various penis sizes.

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Sex Positions - Size Matters 

A reader sent me an interesting article about the best sex positions for penises of all sizes.  Since I've been planning on sharing some thoughts on penetrative sex, particularly when it comes to couples in Female Led Relationships, I thought this topic might be a good way to start if off.  

The article begins by stating that these sex positions will bring maximum pleasure to both partners.  Hmmm?  I'm not so sure about that.

The article states that 5.8" is the average penis size that can "cause" a woman to have an orgasm.  Interesting data don't you think?  Figures lie and liars figure, so let's just assume that's correct.   But the Journal of Sex Medicine writes that regardless of size, you can still have plenty of fun.  Yeah right.

So get our your rulers, do what you have to do to come up with a measurement and let's see how you measure up ok? 

And please, no exaggerations!

I'll show the positions for each size along with the article's rationale and add my own commentary.

So let's start with the real men who have "Big Penises."  Here's the recommended sexual position: 

"Big penis: Do a lot of foreplay to make her vagina expand and choose woman-on-top moves to control how deep you go. Just have her lean over your body with her hands on either side of your head and just get going."   

I definitely agree with this one.  Doing it this way was impossible with hubwife.  I hardly felt "it" and she kept sliding out.  If you're not close to 7", don't waste your time with this one. 

Average size?  Try this one.

 

"An average penis: Wrap her legs around your midsection and her hands around your shoulders and get down in a squat position. Close press her body up against yours as you penetrate her."

This is very romantic, intimate and fun.  Creating such a mood; satin sheets, candles, etc might help things.  But again, it would be more romantic, more intimate and more fun with a bigger penis. 

Less than six inches?  You have to make accommodations...

 

"Less than six inches penis: After adequate foreplay, go rear entry if your penis size is less than six inches. Rest her head on a pillow, lift her butt up and then penetrate her. Doing this will offer you a deep penetration."

Under six...well, it is what it is.  The pillow is definitely a good idea in case she falls asleep trying this one with a lesser endowed partner.  Deep penetration?  Kind of a relative term isn't it?

Less than four inches? Here's their recommendation for "maximum pleasure."  It's kind of like playing the game "Twister."

"Less than four-inch penis: While a rear entry position like doggie will not help you pleasure her enough; the twisted doggie position allows more room for penetration. Add a slight twist to it, and you can get the most out of it. Instead of kneeling, she could lie on her stomach with a pillow under her pelvis. You can then enter her from behind while lying on top of her."

My advice if he's less than four inches?  Don't bother.  Take matters into your own hands.  Find a quality strap-on dildo and harness, use plenty of lube and let hubby feel what you've been missing out on due to his small penis.  

 

It's a guaranteed good time.

Diane 

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Hope you enjoyed!

Love,

sissy terrie - locked and less than 4" 💗💗💗 

Friday Frillies

I used to feature a lot more "panty posts" on this blog and even had a few "panty polls" that readers seemed to enjoy.  When I looked as some blog statistics the other day those panty polls were among the most popular.

There's not panty poll today but I am featuring a very pretty picture that might resonate with some of you who enjoy those full cut ladylike panties with a touch of lace and ruffles.

Don't you think panties on hangers always look more girly?

Love,

sissy terrie 💗

Big & Beautiful: The Bottoms We Love

A while back a reader suggested that in order to be featured here on my "Thick Thursday" posts, the models shown in the pictures should meet a minimum weight or measurement requirement.   They recommended a weight of at least 225 lobs and hip measurements of 44".  

Sorry, but I don't have an "AI scale" or some other way of getting the approximate weight of the lovely ladies shown here, nor do I have anything that can measure their hips.

Instead, they're all the result two things I've relied on for most of my life.  The first is the good old fashioned "eye test."  If it looks good for me, then they make the cut.

The second is even more scientific.  If the models generate a physical response from my locked penis (I can still feel the stirring in the cage) then they go to the front of the line.  

Here are four such beauties whose bottoms both caught my eye and elicited some excitement between my legs!

Poor thing.  She has such a pretty face and I bet while she's wearing that dress, people hardly notice it.   

This is a lovely outfit, one that doesn't use much material on the top, probably because there's lots of bottom to cover.  But despite that coverage, it doesn't leave too much to the imagination.  Those globes are simply delicious to look at.  

Not much to say about this next one other than it's very easy to fall in love with!

 I wonder what this beauty's hip measurement is?  And her waist?  Whew...

 

There's one last "test" that I often apply which is just as effective as my first two.   

My face would welcome any of these ladies any time.  

Love,

sissy terrie 💕💕💕💕 

What Kind of Cuckold Are You?

One of my readers sent me this graphic.   They obviously knew the answer but it's an interesting depiction of general types of cuckold relationships.  

 If I had time I'd find a corresponding picture for each of these nine types.  Instead, if you're having a hard time figuring out which of these types our relationship falls into, here's a hint:

Love,

sissy terrie 💛💛💛 

Strap-on Chats

When She let Her best friend in on one of our most intimate secrets, Linda was all too willing to help share the "workload."

Better Linda that some guy!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗
 

A Female Led Retreat

A spur-of-the moment decision by Mistress found us heading south for a few days (or more) at our beach front condominium.

"I just want to relax for a few days.  Kind of like a retreat" She said and added "You, not so much.  I'll keep you busy."

As soon as we arrived I was told that my dress for the time we spend inside the condo would be "panties only."  We haven't been here in several weeks so as is my usual task, I get to dust and vacuum the whole place.  This time I did it without the "benefit" of a pretty apron. 

It hasn't all been that grueling.  I have gotten to worship Mistress a few times already and She's also found ways to relieve some of Her own stress both in the gym and in the bedroom.

I've been a pretty busy sissy.

Mature Monday will be back next week!

Love,

sissy terrie 💦 

 

Daily Panty Rules

The first time I ever stepped into a pair of panties, little did I know that I'd be spending the overwhelming majority of my life in them.  My "panty wearing" increased as the years went on to the point where, as our Female-Led lifestyle became more entrenched, panties became mandatory.

Over the years, there have been periods of times and certain days when Diane would either lay out or instruct me to wear specific panties, colors or styles.  However, when She first made "The Decision" that I had to wear panties all the time, I was allowed to choose which panties I would wear each day.   I had an adequate collection of them already, but I remember going to Macy's where we bought a set of matching panties that had lace and came in a range of colors.

"I like these" I remember Diane saying "and you can choose whichever color you want."   She wasn't lying about liking the panties; she even bought a set for herself.  "Some days we'll match" She laughed.  The most memorable moment of that shopping trip was when Diane went to pay for the panties and the sales lady asked "Did you want these in two different sizes?"  Diane calmly said "Yes I do" then looked at me and smiled.  I think the sales lady blushed more than I did!

 

There were some days we matched but on most days we did not.   Most days She would ask me what color I was wearing.  Other days She'd make me show Her.  Then there were plenty of days when She would tell me it was time for a "panty check" to make sure I wasn't trying to sneak out of the house with "big boy pants!"

It didn't take long before the range of colors I was allowed to choose from was reduced to a palette of pastels.  Eventually pink became the mandatory default color unless I was told otherwise.   I still have other pastels and whites and She usually allows me to wear them if I ask Her permission.  

I don't see these rules changing.  We both seem comfortable with the way things are.

Love,

sissy terrie 💝 

"Worship My Ass"

She actually didn't say those words.

She rolls over like this often.  Away from me in the bed.

Then, Her beautiful ass juts out just a bit towards me.

It's the "unspoken command."  my duties are clear.

I start to kiss, through the material of Her panty, hoping She wants them removed.

Some days She does, others She doesn't.

This day She didn't.

I didn't until She moved away, turned around, smile and said "Thanks."
 

Love,

sissy terrie 👄👄👄 

Thick Thursday Looks

Today them features women of size in lovely lingerie that flatters their curves, along with very sexy, playful and suggestive looks on their face...

Patty's is rather playful.  Her smile suggests she's open to a good time!

 

 

 

Susan's is more sultry and serious.  She seems settled on the style of sex she wants. 

 

Dianna's on the other hand is downright dominating.   Her's is a demanding invitation to obedience.  I think I know where she wants attention.  

 

 

I can only fantasize about experiencing all three of these lovely large ladies for an afternoon of facesitting.  I know that would be a heavy task to undertake, but something tells me I am for to it.

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie 👅💗 

Katie's Confession

It's a lifelong struggle for many to balance the inner tension that exists between our masculine selves and the powerful feminine feelings and urges we have. 

We all know that special place where we feel most at home but can't always express ourselves the way we want to.

This beautiful picture and caption, courtesy of my loving friend Katie is a thoughtful reminder that sometimes, we have to just take a deep breath and reflect on who we really are.   

Thank you Katie 👄💕👄

Love, 

sissy terrie 💝 

The Humbling Truth

What would a sissy cuckold blog be without a post about penis size, or lack thereof, every couple of months or so.

In the bizarre world of kink, it's always difficult to explain the why's and how's of something being so very embarrassing and humiliating can also be sexually arousing.

I suppose two or more things can be true at the same time. 

This young wife can't be much older than her late 20's.  It couldn't have taken her long to figure out that size does matter.  She finally "confessed."

And if something isn't big enough or able to be used for what it was intended, maybe you just lock it away until you need it.  That is if you ever do need it.  

 

 

The last photo features a not-so-sissy outfit worn under a pair of jeans.   Garters aren't a typical part of my wardrobe but there was a time when Mistress allowed or even insisted I wear then with some stockings.  The chastity device shown here was my first "baby pink" device, molded in the style of the once popular but ever-so-uncomfortable CB-6000 models.  

 

It's hard to collect "hard data" about penis size and how many men actually are locked in chastity.  But I think there's probably a noticeable correlation between the two.  

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie 💋 

Full, Firm and Mature Femine Guidance

My Mom's younger sister (my aunt) was the one person who helped teach me to swim when I was really young.  I wasn't old enough then to appreciate how beautiful and sexy she looked in her one piece swimsuit.  My lessons took place at the lake where my Mom's family had a summer lakehouse.   My aunt taught me well.  It didn't take long before I was swimming like a fish and pretty indifferent about her beautiful curves.

So as a follow up to yesterday's sissy swimsuit post, here's something not very sissy at all which reminds me of those swimming lessons many years ago. 

It got me to thinking about getting lessons in other important physical activities in life.  When you get to be a certain age, it might be worth while learning such things from women who know what they're doing, rather than by fumbling around doing things by trial and mostly error.

I thing I found the perfect teacher...

Have a happy Monday!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Sissy Swimsuits

Hoping that a sissy friend is able to make the trip to visit me this summer.  Much depends on her own Mistress' schedule (ideally she would make the trip with my friend), her willingness to let my friend travel alone and other logistical things.

There are so many aspects of such a reunion that would be enjoyable, too many to cover in one short post.  But one recurring desire is to spend some time on the patio and by the pool in some of our favorite one-piece swimsuits,

I mentioned this to Diane the other evening when we were in the pool and She tasked me with providing Her and my friend with two swimsuits that I thought the two of us would like to wear.   It was typical of Her to assign me with a task resulting from a comment I make about one of my "desires."  It was an easy task and one I was only to happy to complete.

There was one caveat to Her demand:  "Find something in a color other than pink for a change!"

Hard as it was, I did come up with a couple of swimsuits I think most sissies would love.

Which of these is your favorite?

Swimsuit #1?

Light Blue 1940s Halter Polka Dots Bow One-Piece Swimsuit

 

Or swimsuit #2? 

Blue 1940s Ditsy Floral Ruffles One-Piece Swimsuit

I'd love to hear your opinions!

Love,

sissy terrie💗💗 

 

Sissy Saturdays

"You should know better that, unless we have something else on the calendar, and he's around, he'll be coming over on Saturday nights" Diane told me in a rather authoritative tone.  "Call them and tell them you won't be there.  You've got lots to do."

The foursome I was to be a part of would have to go out as a threesome.  I humbly texted the other three and told them I wouldn't be making it today.  Two of the three were kind enough to just write back "No worries" and "Ok, see you soon."  The other made the comment "What happened?  You forget to ask for permission? 😂."

I simply responded with a thumbs up to all three.

"So did you call them?" She asked.

"No, I texted them" I told Her.

"What a baby you are" She said.  "Let's get you ready.  I have a list of things for you before Karl gets here."

When She's in a very dominant mood (and horny for Her Lover), She asserts Her control early in the day.

How I am made to dress usually reflects Her mood.

Love,

sissy terrie 💘