Pink or Blue?

I know several cd and sissy girlfriends of mine who are fans of so-called full cut "granny panties."  I do wish I had a fuller more girlish ass at times, one with curves in just the right places.  

These two AI generated lovelies have derrieres that I'd be proud to flaunt.

Which color and bottom is your favorite...

The pink one?

 Or the blue one?

 Love,

sissy terrie 💗💙 

Chastity: Do You Really Need a Keyholder?

Many years ago, I was the one who initiated the discussion of chastity in our relationship.  Diane was open to it and the experiment began.  There were a few failed attempts to make it work.  During those trial periods, in order to get used to the feel and discomfort of the cage, I was given the freedom to "self lock" and release myself when it became too uncomfortable.   Diane grew impatient with me and my whining and the whole idea was shelved until I was given a "last chance" in late 2014.

We officially began my "lock up" at midnight on 1/1/2015 and we are still going strong.  Fortunately, I have a loving and controlling keyholder.  Many people aren't as fortunate, or at least that's the way that I see it.  

But the fact is that most men who give chastity a try don't have a keyholder.  Perhaps many wish they had one, but there are probably some who are just find without one.

I found an interesting article on Medium on the subject.  I think you'll find it interesting. 

 

Why the Cage Works — Even Solo

You don’t need a Master to feel mastered.

Some of us wear the cage for:

• Discipline & Focus
  The days stretch differently when you’re denied. I write more. I scroll less. I show up cleaner in my work — and sharper in my flirtations.
• Erotic Tension Without Release
  The cage doesn’t kill desire. It concentrates it. A stranger’s cologne on the street? Devastating. A hot barista? Earth-shattering. You feel everything.
• A Different Kind of Masculinity
  Not every man needs to fuck everything that moves. Some of us find power in waiting. In choosing to ache instead of act.
• The Ritual of Restraint
  For me, locking up after Key West felt ceremonial. Vacation was over. Playtime done. Click. Time to focus.
  I felt grounded. Balanced. In control of something primal.

Who Has the Key?

• Sometimes me.
• Sometimes an app.
• Sometimes I give it to a friend and say, “Don’t give it back until I finish this creative project.”
• Sometimes it goes into a timed lockbox — no cheating, no shortcuts.
• And sometimes? I’ll lock up while I’m out of town and mail the key back home to myself. (A little delayed gratification, courtesy of the postal service.)

But lately?
No one.

And there’s a strange, electric freedom in that.
You realize you don’t need someone else to tell you “no.”
You can do that yourself. And when you do, it hits different.

This is about choosing to want. Choosing to withhold.
Choosing to feel that hungry, sexy tension throb through you with every step.

Try It. Or At Least Think About It.

If you’ve ever hovered over a product listing with curiosity…
If the idea of not being able to touch yourself makes you twitch in the best way…
If you’ve ever whispered “what if…” just once…

This is your sign.

Try it.

Lock it up.
Keep the key — or toss it.
And see who you become when your pleasure isn’t the prize — it’s the pressure.

You might find yourself walking taller.
Thinking clearer.
And feeling something you haven’t felt in years:

Aroused. Alive. A little dangerous.

Love,

 

sissy terrie  💓💓💓

 

Disciplinary Rituals

 

I've been discipline a couple of times over the last week which is something that hasn't happened in a while.   I was deserving of both punishments.  But I do think Diane's increased libido as of late played a role in both her decision to discipline me and the intensity of the discipline.

In each instance She was very calm, having thought things through before deciding to put me over Her lap. Before sending me to go put on some "punishment panties" She told me why I was being punished and how She expected me to behave properly going forward.  

After each of the spankings I was sent to the corner for thirty minutes of quiet time.  My phone was nearby with the timer set.  I could leave the corner when the alarm went off.   Unlike the picture above, Diane didn't spank me "a whole lot more."

My second discipline session was much the same except that my bottom was still sore from the first one.  I still have a slightly bruised bottom. 

Both spankings put me into a very deep subspace.  The space I'm referring to was made even deeper by the actions that followed about an hour after each of the spankings.   In a very calming but authoritative tone, She summoned me upstairs where I would drop to my knees, thank Her for my discipline and proceed to worship Her to an orgasm.

I love being Her submissive.  She knows what I need and when I need it.  I think She knows me better than myself.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

 

Orally Focused

 Sometimes art is more sensual and sexier than a real picture...

 

"Placing oral sex at the helm ensures no confusion about who’s getting the prime attention. When intimacy revolves around your enjoyment, there’s no more worrying whether your climax is “nice to have” or “optional.” It’s the priority—and that’s exactly how it should be in a woman-led dynamic."

Cat Boulder; Woman’s Pleasure, Front and Center

Well said.

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Watching Your Wife & Her Bull

There can be plenty of angst and nervousness involved the first time a cuckold is either made to or invtited to watch their wife and her lover.   I can attest to that.   I think there's often lots of pre-planning and discussion amongst the wife, lover and sometimes the cuckold before it actually happens.  I don't watch Diane and Karl as often as I used to.  These days my presence is more to serve a specific purpose, sexual or otherwise, than to just be there as a voyeur.

Here's a short piece from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her Cuckwife that broaches the subject: 

In a cuckold relationship, some bulls require a healthy dose of convincing before allowing the cuckold to watch. Most women who have affairs, find a lover on the side, etc. aren't necessarily into a cuckold threesome type of thing. Most men who have an affair with married women aren't into it either.

If a wife wants it, she is probably a bit hesitant to bring it up to her lover out of fear it might scare him away. It's a subject that has to be broached carefully and with some preparation.

Once a lover/Bull is accepting of a cuckold "watching" as he makes love to the wife, it still takes time to develop a certain comfort level.    A dominant wife isn't likely to ask the cuckold if he's "ready."  That's going to be her decision.  Once a bull knows the cuckold is submissive, it makes his decision to proceed a bit easier.  The more the lover is an Alpha personality the the cuckold a beta, the quicker the process can proceed.  No "buy in" from the cuckold is needed. 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

p.s. - I did get to watch some last night! 

Sweet Nothings

Every sissy loves to hear sweet nothings.  Despite their name, these nothings mean an awful lot!

Things like:

"You look so nice in those panties!"

"You look so pretty in a tutu."

"I love how you lick my ass!" 

So....today happens to be National Compliment Day.

Why not compliment five people today?  Especially those you love.  You may even want to compliment someone who might not be on your list of favorites.  It might make you and them feel a little better.

Most important, if you have one, compliment the Dom/me in your life.

And next, if you're a Dom/me with a sissy....please compliment them.  It means so much to us!

Love,

sissy terrie  💖 

Frills & Thrills

It doesn't take much to get a horny sissy off.

Pink panties (especially frilly ones) and a pillow or our favorite stuffed animal are usually all we need.

 If we have an audience we have chance at lasting very long.

Please, someone tell me I'm not the only one who's ever done this!!! 

Love,

sissy terrie 💕