New Year Lingerie Drawer Overhaul!!!

I, and several of my sissy sisters, are big fans of the very womanly and full cut panties sold by Shadowline Lingerie.  In fact, I've even had "matching panty days" with one of my sissy sisters.  If you ever feel like joining us, well just let me know!

Today's post is from the Shadowline website blog.  I loved reading it and hope you will as well.

 

 Lingerie Care & Styling Tips

New Year Lingerie Drawer Overhaul: The Must-Have Essentials

 

Wouldn’t it be nice to always have the perfect underwear for whichever outfit you pick out in the morning? You can make that a reality. All it takes is a little reviewing and refreshing of your current lingerie drawer, and that ‘new year, new start’ mood is the perfect motivation to do it.

 

Step 1: decide what needs to go

Start by taking a look at all the underwear you currently own, checking for anything worn out which needs replacing. There’s also no point hanging onto items which no longer fit or which are uncomfortable.

Be honest with yourself. You may love a particular bra or panty, but if it has seen better days, just think about how much more you’ll love having a fresh, flawless new replacement – or an upgrade!

A smoothing essential: Shadowline Flawless Fit Full Brief Panty

Step 2: work out what you’re missing

Second, try to identify any gaps in your collection. Do you regularly find yourself running out of a particular lingerie style or color? Then you’ll benefit from having more of it.

Do you find yourself avoiding certain garments in your closet because you never seem to have the right thing to wear below them? Consider what the ideal underpinnings would be – something that elegantly fills in a too-low neckline perhaps, or which doesn’t create a visible panty line – and that will tell you what you need to shop for.

Perfect Underpants: Shadowline Nylon High Cut Panty

Step 3: ensure you have the basics covered

No lingerie drawer is complete until you’ve got enough great-fitting, comfortable and practical pieces to meet your day-to-day needs. Everyone’s ‘essentials’ will be a little different based on personal preferences and the types of outfits you typically wear, but here are some suggestions to help you figure out your own must-haves:

Essential everyday briefs

It pays to have a variety of panty silhouettes in your collection, to suit different outfits. For example, hipster briefs are a great for staying hidden when you’re wearing pants or skirts with lower-rise waistlines, while high-waisted briefs offer a smoother silhouette under close-fitting dresses. And for pencil skirts or pants, high leg underwear is a great option since it won’t create any visible lines at the upper thigh.

Shaddowline Essential Wide Strap Camisole

Endlessly-versatile camisoles

Camisoles are so multi-purpose – here are seven ways to wear one – that we truly believe they should be a staple in every woman’s wardrobe. Layering one under itchy sweaters for softness, or using one to add some modesty to a sheer or low-necked top, are a couple of many suggestions, so it’s always handy to have a few camisoles in your closet.

As a starting point, consider choosing one in cozy cotton for cold weather, and one with a lace trim for when it’s just seen. A camisole with a reversible neckline is also a great first piece that gives you options!

Smoothing, comfort-enhancing slips

Similarly, slips can serve a variety of purposes, from creating a comfy base layer to erasing visible bra and panty lines, to reducing static cling from your skirts.  Read more about all the reasons you'll love owning a slip here. If you’ve never owned a slip before, we suggest starting with a half slip in a short or midi length which you can wear below both skirts and dresses with various hemlines. But full slips and even pant slips are also available.

The secret to a smoother look: Velrose 25" Nylon Half Slip & 26"Nylon Full Slip

Step 4 (optional): treat yourself!

Once you’ve decluttered your lingerie drawer and stocked back up on the basics, any leftover budget can go towards those stylish, just-for-fun pieces you’d simply love to have. You may not wear these pieces quite so often, but they still deserve a spot in your collection.

Maybe that means indulging in a vintage style babydoll or some lacy panties  for special occasions. Or it might mean adding some more decorative variations of your favorite go-to basics, such as a beautiful satin and lace slip to complement your simpler nylon ones.

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Reorganizing and refreshing your lingerie collection is an easily achievable start-of-the-year goal. Take a little time out this weekend to sort through yours and you’ll breeze through the rest of the year, never having to worry about whether you’ve got the right underwear for each day’s outfit.

 

Well I hope you enjoyed reading this as much as I did.  Did you feel more and more feminine as you read it????

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

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Grab them while they last.

Trust me, they'll be all gone soon!!!!

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

Pleasing "Daddy"

Diane's instructions were rather specific.  

"Just do what he tells you" would have seemed to cover everything.  But She went on to tell me exactly what Karl was expecting me to be wearing when he arrived that evening, most likely an hour or so before She herself would get home.

"I might be pretty tired after a long day.  He knows that.  So if he wants attention, just do what he tells you" were Her basic orders.

So I did what I always did and followed instructions.   There's something very humbling yet erotic about getting yourself ready for a man, particularly if that man is your wife's lover.

I wore the skirt, top, stockings, shoes and panties that he wanted me to wear.

I felt very, very submissive when he arrived.

After serving him his favorite adult beverage and he sat in his favorite chair, I found myself at his side and on my knees as he instructed.  I knelt there, my bottom resting on my  heels for what seemed like forever as he watched Sportscenter. 

Finally, he put his drink down, stood up, looked at me and said:

"Skirt up!" he said with a smile.

I lifted my tartan skirt. 

I thought he was never going to ask.  I'd been waiting a long time to show Daddy my panties!

I smiled back and did everything he wanted.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Pink or Blue?

I know several cd and sissy girlfriends of mine who are fans of so-called full cut "granny panties."  I do wish I had a fuller more girlish ass at times, one with curves in just the right places.  

These two AI generated lovelies have derrieres that I'd be proud to flaunt.

Which color and bottom is your favorite...

The pink one?

 Or the blue one?

 Love,

sissy terrie 💗💙 

Chastity: Do You Really Need a Keyholder?

Many years ago, I was the one who initiated the discussion of chastity in our relationship.  Diane was open to it and the experiment began.  There were a few failed attempts to make it work.  During those trial periods, in order to get used to the feel and discomfort of the cage, I was given the freedom to "self lock" and release myself when it became too uncomfortable.   Diane grew impatient with me and my whining and the whole idea was shelved until I was given a "last chance" in late 2014.

We officially began my "lock up" at midnight on 1/1/2015 and we are still going strong.  Fortunately, I have a loving and controlling keyholder.  Many people aren't as fortunate, or at least that's the way that I see it.  

But the fact is that most men who give chastity a try don't have a keyholder.  Perhaps many wish they had one, but there are probably some who are just find without one.

I found an interesting article on Medium on the subject.  I think you'll find it interesting. 

 

Why the Cage Works — Even Solo

You don’t need a Master to feel mastered.

Some of us wear the cage for:

• Discipline & Focus
  The days stretch differently when you’re denied. I write more. I scroll less. I show up cleaner in my work — and sharper in my flirtations.
• Erotic Tension Without Release
  The cage doesn’t kill desire. It concentrates it. A stranger’s cologne on the street? Devastating. A hot barista? Earth-shattering. You feel everything.
• A Different Kind of Masculinity
  Not every man needs to fuck everything that moves. Some of us find power in waiting. In choosing to ache instead of act.
• The Ritual of Restraint
  For me, locking up after Key West felt ceremonial. Vacation was over. Playtime done. Click. Time to focus.
  I felt grounded. Balanced. In control of something primal.

Who Has the Key?

• Sometimes me.
• Sometimes an app.
• Sometimes I give it to a friend and say, “Don’t give it back until I finish this creative project.”
• Sometimes it goes into a timed lockbox — no cheating, no shortcuts.
• And sometimes? I’ll lock up while I’m out of town and mail the key back home to myself. (A little delayed gratification, courtesy of the postal service.)

But lately?
No one.

And there’s a strange, electric freedom in that.
You realize you don’t need someone else to tell you “no.”
You can do that yourself. And when you do, it hits different.

This is about choosing to want. Choosing to withhold.
Choosing to feel that hungry, sexy tension throb through you with every step.

Try It. Or At Least Think About It.

If you’ve ever hovered over a product listing with curiosity…
If the idea of not being able to touch yourself makes you twitch in the best way…
If you’ve ever whispered “what if…” just once…

This is your sign.

Try it.

Lock it up.
Keep the key — or toss it.
And see who you become when your pleasure isn’t the prize — it’s the pressure.

You might find yourself walking taller.
Thinking clearer.
And feeling something you haven’t felt in years:

Aroused. Alive. A little dangerous.

Love,

 

sissy terrie  💓💓💓

 

Disciplinary Rituals

 

I've been discipline a couple of times over the last week which is something that hasn't happened in a while.   I was deserving of both punishments.  But I do think Diane's increased libido as of late played a role in both her decision to discipline me and the intensity of the discipline.

In each instance She was very calm, having thought things through before deciding to put me over Her lap. Before sending me to go put on some "punishment panties" She told me why I was being punished and how She expected me to behave properly going forward.  

After each of the spankings I was sent to the corner for thirty minutes of quiet time.  My phone was nearby with the timer set.  I could leave the corner when the alarm went off.   Unlike the picture above, Diane didn't spank me "a whole lot more."

My second discipline session was much the same except that my bottom was still sore from the first one.  I still have a slightly bruised bottom. 

Both spankings put me into a very deep subspace.  The space I'm referring to was made even deeper by the actions that followed about an hour after each of the spankings.   In a very calming but authoritative tone, She summoned me upstairs where I would drop to my knees, thank Her for my discipline and proceed to worship Her to an orgasm.

I love being Her submissive.  She knows what I need and when I need it.  I think She knows me better than myself.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

 

Orally Focused

 Sometimes art is more sensual and sexier than a real picture...

 

"Placing oral sex at the helm ensures no confusion about who’s getting the prime attention. When intimacy revolves around your enjoyment, there’s no more worrying whether your climax is “nice to have” or “optional.” It’s the priority—and that’s exactly how it should be in a woman-led dynamic."

Cat Boulder; Woman’s Pleasure, Front and Center

Well said.

Love,

sissy terrie 💖