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Sunday, August 28, 2022

The Sissy Size Dilemma

Note:  Today's post comes from a reader and follower of the blog who muses on the topic of penis size and how it relates to sissies like us.  I'm sure we'll recognize ourselves in some of the things she brings up.  Enjoy!

 

I admitted it to myself years ago that I am a sissy. I wear panties every day. I live to serve Women. When I think about “having sex” with my Wife, I do not think about intercourse because She does not allow penetration, has not for years.

There was a time in my life that I used to feel bad that I had a small penis. (I won’t say how small I am. I will just say that it is not over four inches.) But now, now that I’ve accepted my status in life as a sissy, I am happy to be small. It makes sissy life easier.

Panties of various styles fit better, and often no bulge is visible even without a tuck. When I do tuck (often), there is little discomfort and achieving a smooth frontal appearance is easy with only a light control brief.

If I’m not tucked and out in public and happen to get an erection, it is (of course) not noticeable at all. My wife likes to make teasing comments when we are out to see if She can “get a rise” out of me, and I must tell Her if I become erect because She can’t tell even if She stares right at my crotch. Related to teasing, my small size gives Her plenty of material to tease me about. Even though I’ve come to prefer my small size, I still find it extremely humiliating to be reminded about it – or “threatened” that She will reveal it to Her friends.

There was a time, years ago, when I foolishly used to wish that I “had a big one.” But, no more. Since I have accepted that I am a sissy and since my Wife only allows me to pleasure Her with my mouth and with Her vibrator (which is larger than me, of course and as she loves to point out “has much more lasting power”), size truly doesn’t matter. I am proud to be small!

I’ve often wondered if it is more common for males with small penises to become sissies. I do think I was born this way. I first wore panties when I was very young. 

 

Many thanks to my anonymous friends.  The line that I absolutely love is "I am proud to be small."  How beautiful!  Talk about accepting ourselves for who we really are.  


Editor's note:  I added the picture :)

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie

12 comments:

  1. Thanks for s it's very haring such a thoughtful self-reflection. I think those of us who are less endowed also have a tendency to "not last very long."

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  2. It's really not a dilemma unless you make it one. I realized at a young age I didn't "measure up." I gave up trying to be a stud, alpha male, etc. I agree with CD Wild Beach now...the smaller the better!

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  3. As a member of the “small” club, I learned early on how to satisfy Her without it. Now we both prefer my oral service :-). Nancy

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  4. My penis is below average in size but not much. Before I was put in a chastity, it was 5". If I had been better at using it, figure out how to last longer and more masculine in daily life, my wife would not have taken control and feminized me. Her boyfriend is really not much bigger than me [don't ask how I know] but he knows what he wants and takes it. I am still envious when she gives him whatever he wants. But I understand why she does every time he pats my bottom and sends me off to do something. Being a man is a lot more than penis size. So is being a sissy.

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  5. All good points and an interesting discussion. I'm sure there are "smaller" men who enjoy being dominant, and "larger" men who have a thing about being submissive. However, I do think that, for the most part men on the smallish side tend to be more submissive and maybe lack the sexual self confidence to please a woman by regular intercourse. There seems to be quite a few articles about it on the web, but not a lot of serious medical or psychological research. Here's a link to one I found interesting: https://www.mentalhelp.net/anxiety/small-penis-syndrome/

    Finally, thanks to the writer for sharing this blog post, and to you Terrie for sharing the picture!

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  6. It is kind of foolish to "wish I had a big one." I know I couldn't use it effectively, or for very long...giggles.

    sissy pet

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  7. Yes this post is very close to home. I am 3 inches and have not had penetrative sex in over 5 years. My wife finally said it was pointless and did nothing for her especially after she met her Bull who is 8 thick inches. We are both very happy with oral for her from me and strap on or vibrator on me from her. I love not having to worry if my wife is satisfied by my small endowment I know she doesn’t need me for that

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  8. I used to think I was normal size. For a shorter guy. My old gf even called me “little man” but o thought she meant my height. Um.. later she married a black guy.
    But it wasn’t until porn videos I realized my situation. And by then, oddly enough I’d found I loved wearing nylon panties! So there you gO SaraE

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  9. There are some that may feel a sense of loss or let down and sad due to their tiny white penis. However others will joyfully embrace and revel in their true nature of submissiveness and Femininity. Your lack of endowment should be seen as an asset.
    One can follow the course set by nature, or resist it.  It is best to surrender willingly to what is most likely to happen.  You may have urges to be:

    Taken
    Dominated
    Humiliated
    Emasculated

    You will come to see the above as needs. You may come to desire these with every fiber of your being. There is no need for anxiety as you  watch what you once considered your masculinity erode.  You will come to welcome it. Embrace your Femininity with passion.  In embracing the Feminine, you should adopt Feminine interests. 

    Beauty, Hair, Nails, Fashion, along with Love and Romance. Yes, to fully embrace Femininity, you may need to find fulfillment in the arms of a Male. 

    Fulfilment is for the Male. Be submissive. Surrender fully to him. Surrender to his animal passion. Give him as much pleasure as possible. You will have the electrifying pleasure of making love to a real man.

    Why resist? Embrace it!

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  11. One of my greatest humiliations was being measured (with a ruler). I will never forget Her demeanor in taking the measurement (quite business-like) and Her tone (patronizing) in announcing the nominal inches and fractional length … and then Her laughter. It helped solidify my identity as a sissy

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