Disciplinary Rituals

 

I've been discipline a couple of times over the last week which is something that hasn't happened in a while.   I was deserving of both punishments.  But I do think Diane's increased libido as of late played a role in both her decision to discipline me and the intensity of the discipline.

In each instance She was very calm, having thought things through before deciding to put me over Her lap. Before sending me to go put on some "punishment panties" She told me why I was being punished and how She expected me to behave properly going forward.  

After each of the spankings I was sent to the corner for thirty minutes of quiet time.  My phone was nearby with the timer set.  I could leave the corner when the alarm went off.   Unlike the picture above, Diane didn't spank me "a whole lot more."

My second discipline session was much the same except that my bottom was still sore from the first one.  I still have a slightly bruised bottom. 

Both spankings put me into a very deep subspace.  The space I'm referring to was made even deeper by the actions that followed about an hour after each of the spankings.   In a very calming but authoritative tone, She summoned me upstairs where I would drop to my knees, thank Her for my discipline and proceed to worship Her to an orgasm.

I love being Her submissive.  She knows what I need and when I need it.  I think She knows me better than myself.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄 

 

Orally Focused

 Sometimes art is more sensual and sexier than a real picture...

 

"Placing oral sex at the helm ensures no confusion about who’s getting the prime attention. When intimacy revolves around your enjoyment, there’s no more worrying whether your climax is “nice to have” or “optional.” It’s the priority—and that’s exactly how it should be in a woman-led dynamic."

Cat Boulder; Woman’s Pleasure, Front and Center

Well said.

Love,

sissy terrie 💖 

Watching Your Wife & Her Bull

There can be plenty of angst and nervousness involved the first time a cuckold is either made to or invtited to watch their wife and her lover.   I can attest to that.   I think there's often lots of pre-planning and discussion amongst the wife, lover and sometimes the cuckold before it actually happens.  I don't watch Diane and Karl as often as I used to.  These days my presence is more to serve a specific purpose, sexual or otherwise, than to just be there as a voyeur.

Here's a short piece from the tumblr blog  Ms. C & Her Cuckwife that broaches the subject: 

In a cuckold relationship, some bulls require a healthy dose of convincing before allowing the cuckold to watch. Most women who have affairs, find a lover on the side, etc. aren't necessarily into a cuckold threesome type of thing. Most men who have an affair with married women aren't into it either.

If a wife wants it, she is probably a bit hesitant to bring it up to her lover out of fear it might scare him away. It's a subject that has to be broached carefully and with some preparation.

Once a lover/Bull is accepting of a cuckold "watching" as he makes love to the wife, it still takes time to develop a certain comfort level.    A dominant wife isn't likely to ask the cuckold if he's "ready."  That's going to be her decision.  Once a bull knows the cuckold is submissive, it makes his decision to proceed a bit easier.  The more the lover is an Alpha personality the the cuckold a beta, the quicker the process can proceed.  No "buy in" from the cuckold is needed. 

Love,

sissy terrie 💗 

p.s. - I did get to watch some last night! 

Sweet Nothings

Every sissy loves to hear sweet nothings.  Despite their name, these nothings mean an awful lot!

Things like:

"You look so nice in those panties!"

"You look so pretty in a tutu."

"I love how you lick my ass!" 

So....today happens to be National Compliment Day.

Why not compliment five people today?  Especially those you love.  You may even want to compliment someone who might not be on your list of favorites.  It might make you and them feel a little better.

Most important, if you have one, compliment the Dom/me in your life.

And next, if you're a Dom/me with a sissy....please compliment them.  It means so much to us!

Love,

sissy terrie  💖 

Frills & Thrills

It doesn't take much to get a horny sissy off.

Pink panties (especially frilly ones) and a pillow or our favorite stuffed animal are usually all we need.

 If we have an audience we have chance at lasting very long.

Please, someone tell me I'm not the only one who's ever done this!!! 

Love,

sissy terrie 💕 

Size Advantage & Differences

Dominant BBW's have always been an interest of mine.  Mistress knows this and often teases me about it.

"I bet you'd love to submit to her?" She's often said to me, referring to an attractive BBW we see or someone we've met.  Maybe someday I'll get that permission.

On to my 'Thick Thursday" post...

I can relate to this submissive in many ways.  My similar lack of size in the presence of a confident woman with such a size advantage puts me in an immediate subspace.   

Photo courtesy of Big, Bitch & Bossy

If he's lucky, he and his little penis will end up in the same place I did. 

In chastity and pink panties. 

Love,

sissy terrie 💓 

Pleasing Her Sissy-Style

When Her Lover's not around, Mistress has one fewer option when it comes to being sexually pleased.  In my current state I am in no position to fill in for Karl (not that I ever was) and besides, I am way out of practice.  The last time I penetrated Her (not that deeply) was a long, long, long time ago.

So since I'm like this...

..and Mistress is "in the mood" for some penetration, this is usually Her preferred option:

So last night, I spent time sucking on the short end of this face-harness strap-on dildo while She smothered and rode my face. 

I good time was had by all.   

Love,

sissy terrie 💓