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Friday, June 18, 2021

Male Chastity - Comfort & Compliance

It's unlikely you're going to find the chastity belt that works best for you with your first purchase. Most of us spend more money than we should in search of that perfect fit. We start out with a cheap "knock off" because we don't want to waste money if we're not going to be serious about a chastity lifestyle.  But the cheap devices are so uncomfortable we're likely to get discouraged before giving chastity a chance.  

I've been in all of these devices and a couple others I gave away.   In many ways it was a trial and error process.   

Of those shown the most comfortable is the Holy Trainer (far left) and what I'm currently wearing followed by The Jailbird (middle).  The least comfortable was the CB-6000 (second from the right).

Realistically, when it comes to chastity as a lifestyle, some level of comfort matters if you're going to reap its benefits or reach the goals your keyholder might have in mind.  

Here's something from the long time blog Astonished by Her:

 Oh Lock Me, Boss Woman, Mother Woman

 

One law of Matriarchy

if i'm kept from masturbation, 

i'm more compliant.

i become more affiliated with Gynarchy.

Her needs, Her orders find home in my body.

Her stature grows, 

Her whims are honored.



The picture and prose resonate with me.   I'm also kept from masturbation unless it's in Her presence and I'm very compliant.  Nearly six and a half years will do that to you.

I'm happy honoring Her and Her whims.

Love,

sissy terrie ๐Ÿ’—

Thursday, June 17, 2021

Gorgeous Garters

It would be a pretty boring world if everyone enjoyed the same things.  And maybe, a blog can become pretty boring if the writer tends to post only those things that they like.  I'm certainly guilty of posting things that I find attractive and arousing.  Most bloggers tend to do the same.

It's also difficult to gauge popularity of any particular post by the number of views or comments, though those two things tend to be decent indicators.  All that being said, today's post has to do with stockings and garters and more specifically, on what type of legs they look best on!

My "thing" for BBW's is well documented here on these pages.  As Diane likes to tell me "the grass is always greener...." and She's not about to put on 50-100 pounds just to temporarily fulfill my BBW fantasy.  Trust me, She's not "skinny" and most men would think She's "just right" but a submissive hubwife can fantasize can't she?

So in my ever-so-humble opinion, I think garters and stockings tend to look their best on a women whose thighs and derriere are a little on the thicker side...

Maybe be it's just the angle of this picture, but that bottom has awesome curves that are hugged every so beautifully by that garter...

Not necessarily thick, but these thighs look firm enough to keep me focused on the oral task at hand; fleshy enough to feel wonderful on my face...


I wish this photo revealed more of the stockings that encase those legs, but there's enough to know that there's plenty of meat on those bones...

Happy Thick Thursday!

Love,

sissy terrie ๐Ÿ’—



Wednesday, June 16, 2021

Panty Poll - Baby Panties

Happy Hump Day!  It's time for the long awaited panty poll featuring some pretty sissy baby panties.

But first let's review the results of last week's poll.  For the first time since I've had these weekly panty polls, we have an actual tie.  Both panty #1 and panty #3 received the same number of votes.  I had not only one, but two recounts and both came out the same!  Rather than have a runoff election, I've decided to simply certify both as winners!


If anyone would like to volunteer to be on a "Panty Poll Board of Sissy Judges" to be used in case of future ties please let me know by emailing me at terryj1011@gmail.com.  Include a brief resume highlighting your qualifications :)

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"If you want to act like a baby, then we'll have to treat you like a baby!" She said.

How many of us have ever heard that before? Or fantasized about it?  I'm quite sure there are a lot of "us" out there who have a thing for being put is the sissies and babiest of panties non?

This may be the first "baby panty poll" but it's probably not going to be the last.  We'll see how the polling goes.  So let's get to this week's entries....

Baby Panty #1 -  This one has a special story behind it.  A former sissy friend of mine received this as a wedding gift from "her" dominant wife! Can you imagine.  I lost touch with Jocelyn but I hope she's enjoying a lovely Female Led Relationship and being a good baby for her Mistress!

Baby Panty #2 - This one doesn't have all the fancy trimmings that the first panty has, but it's still loaded with enough ruffles (and some dainty little bows) to fulfill anyone's sissy baby fantasy.  From "Binkies & Bows", the Etsy purveyor of adult baby apparel, this panty is both functional and feminizing!

Baby Panty #3 - Who said sissy babies have to be dressed in pink?  This pretty pastel yellow rumba styled panty with rows of white lace ruffles and a pretty satin bow is perfect for the sissy who is prone to get excited and have those embarrassing accidents!  A layer of extra protection helps hide the mess and avoid any additional humiliation. No, it does NOT come with that pretty Mary Jane shoe!

Poll closes next Wednesday, June 23rd at 7: 00 AM.  I'm looking forward to reading the comments with your votes!

Love,

sissy (baby) terrie ๐Ÿ’๐Ÿผ

Tuesday, June 15, 2021

Sissy Bells and Baby Bumps

Sharing a couple of sissy thoughts on this lazy Monday morning as the end of a long relaxing weekend approaches.

The first is an idea that Diane got from a Dominant Male friend of ours who would sometimes make his wife wear a collar with a little bell on it.

"I like hearing the bell as she's doing things around the house, or simply doing other 'things' for me or to me" he said as his wife just smiled and blushed a little.

 

It wasn't long before I had my own pink collar with a bell on it.  I pretty sure we still have the collar but I didn't bring it along this weekend.  It came up in a conversation we had yesterday.  "Try to find it when we get back home" She told me.   

The second is a fantasy I've had for a long time that was rekindled this weekend by a lovely young woman on the beach discreetly but very sensually displaying her baby bump.  It got me to thinking how lovely it would be to experience such a fuller version of femininity.

Doesn't that garter look so girly?

Love,

sissy terrie  ๐Ÿ’“

Monday, June 14, 2021

Small Penis Humiliation

There are a different types and methods of small penis humiliation.  Once a Dominant Woman finds your "weak" spots, they'll exploit them and enjoy doing so.   Teasing you about it, sometimes in front of your friends is one way.   

"He's so tiny" this buxom beauty told some co-workers recently on Zoom waiting for a meeting to start.  Company rules prohibited any off color language but everyone knew what She was talking about.

 

Other Dommes simply take on a lover with a bigger penis.  It's that simple.  They approach sex entirely different with the more alpha male.  They enjoy cuckolding their lesser endowed husbands. 

 

Size matters.

Love,

sissy cuckold terrie  ๐Ÿ‘„

Sunday, June 13, 2021

A Cuckold's View

After awhile a cuckod gets used to some of the humiliation and embarrassment that come with it.  I'm sure every cuckold is different and each h as certain things that push their "buttons."

For me, it's certain displays of affection and lust that take place right in front of me.

I'm quite sure they do it on purpose.

Love,

sissy terrie ๐Ÿ’“

Saturday, June 12, 2021

A Change in their Marriage Part 4 - Humiliating Her Sissy Hubby

Part 4 of my sissy sister Nancy has our poor panty-addicted Jim sweating it out at the restaurant, about to meet his Mother-in-law and her "friend" for the purpose of confessing his nasty secrets.  The friend turns out to be a younger family member - The Mother-in-law's grand daughter and his Wife Carla's niece.

The scene makes for some delicious humiliation at the hands of three generations of female family members.  Can it get any more intense?

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Jim saw his mother-in-law, Audrey, enter the front door of the restaurant. He watched her approach their table. A younger woman trailed a step behind her, Carla’s niece. As usual, Carla’s mother was dressed impeccably. She was wearinga fashionable turquoise suit with a white satin blouse, nylons that matched her blouse, and heels and earrings matched her suit. Not many women dressed like that anymore, certainly not just to go out for lunch. He could smell her perfume before she reached the table. He slid out of the booth to greet her. She gave him a cursory nod and leaned across the table to kiss Carla on the cheek. “Hello, darling. Perhaps it’s been a while since you’ve seen Lindsey. You wanted her to join us?”

Carla’s niece Lindsey, 26, had just returned to the city for a job after years away for college and law school. She was dressed far more casually, with leopard print yoga pants and a loose-fitting ivory top over a black tank. She reached out a hand and smiled as she slid into the booth next to Audrey. “Thanks for inviting me,” she said, “I’m intrigued. Audrey said this was something about managing ‘P’s and Q’s’ in marriage?”

Carla smiled. “Sorry for being so cryptic. I understand you being curious what this is all about.” She turned to Jim who was fumbling with a napkin and avoiding eye contact with the women.“I’ve asked Jim to tell you about an important change in our marriage.”

Jim felt beads of sweat forming on his forehead. He glanced up and saw the two women across the table were staring expectantly. He was sure that by now they’d noticed the lace of his peach camisole under his shirt.

Kelly continued, “Mom, I wanted you to know about it, hear it directly from Jim, about the P’s and Q’s, and I’m hoping that it might help you Lindsey in your new marriage. It’s something I wish I’d understood years ago.”

“Okay…,”Lindsey said, “It sounds quite mysterious.”

Carla laughed. “Mysterious, no. Unusual, maybe, at least until you take the time to think about it and understand.” She gave Jim a playful peck on his cheek.

Lindsey looked perplexed. “I’m sure there’s a lot to learn about marriage. That’s part of what is exciting about it, right? Learning together?”

“Maybe,” Carla said. “Let me just see if I can save you some time. Let me ask you a question first if I may. Would you say that your fiancรฉ would do anything for you?”

“Yes, I think so. In fact, I’m sure he would.”

“Well, you are an extremely attractive woman. Excuse my being so forward, but you’ve been together long enough to know that he is quite sexually attracted to you, right? 

Lindsey blushed, laughed self-consciously. “I guess that’d be fair to say, yes.” 

Carla put her hand on Jim’s thigh under the table. “Okay Jim, you’re on.” 

“I’m supposed to tell you about the ‘power of P,’ and …” Jim stopped looked around, lowered his voice. “Male masturbation, control, and, and…” He looked at Carla with pleading eyes.

“You can do it Jim. Remember what we talked about, your reward for doing a good job?”

Jim drew a breath, looked from Lindsey to Audrey, then back at Lindsey. “And tease and denial.” 

Carla took Jim’s hand and patted it. “Very good, Jim. Now let’s start with the power of the P’s. Tell my mom about the P’s.”

“I hate to be crude, Mrs. Ellingson, but one P is for p,p,pussy. A woman needs to understand how powerful that is, the power she has, that most men, most healthy red-blooded men will do ANYTHING to have access to that special part of a woman, to be able to not only have sex with their wife, but to see it, to smell it, to taste it. Most women give it away too easily – even when their husbands are disrespectful or don’t earn it.” 

Audrey smiled. “Well, I believe that. I sure as heck did. There’s more than one meaning for the letter P?”

Jim’s face was beet red. He couldn’t look at either woman. “The other P is for panties. Most women don’t understand how powerful their panties are. There are two kinds of men – those who enjoy wearing women’s panties and who would do anything to be allowed to wear them. Then there are who love women in pretty lingerie but find the prospect of being required to wear panties themselves, or any kind of feminine underwear, extremely humiliating.” He stopped, took a breath, looked at Carla, who nodded, encouraged him to proceed.“Women who have husbands who are the latter type should require them to wear panties if they are to get any pussy, then use the threat of exposing their panty-wearing to control them.”

 

The Power of Panties

Lindsey laughed. “My fiancรฉ would never wear panties.”

“Oh yes he would,” Carla said, “If you required it, he would. You’d be surprised. Jim is just describing one variation. There are many. Which brings us to the Q. All men have quirks, or specific turn-ons, sometimes called fetishes.”

“I’ve heard that, yes,” Audrey said, “Your father had a thing for my mink coat.”

“Please, Mother.”

Lindsey got a serious look on her face. “I’ve had a feeling that he has some secrets.”

“All men do,” Carla said, “It’s nothing unusual or anything to be ashamed of.” She turned to Jim. “Tell them about your panties, Jim, about your problem with control.”

Jim looked at Carla who nodded and smiled. “I tried to hide it from Carla, but now I know that wasn’t right, and she knew anyway. My Q is panties and I,” The words caught in his throat and tears formed in the corner of his eyes.

“Remember what we talked about Jim. I expect you to tell them. This is for your own good,” Carla said, putting a hand on Jim’s shoulder. “I want you to be honest with women about your little Quirk. This is just practice. Soon we’ll be telling some of my friends.”

Jim took a deep breath and continued. “I couldn’t control myself. I was masturbating, taking Carla’s panties, and doing it. Now that she knows, she has taken control. She lets me wear panties. Now I have my own, and she has stopped me from masturbating. She controls it. Things are so much better this way.”

“Yes, we are both so much happier,” Carla said. She looked at her mother. “Yes, Mother, I know it is shocking, but he was jerking off in my panties. That, of course, has stopped. He does not ejaculate now without my permission.”

“But how do you know?” Audrey asked.

“I simply ask him if he has been a good boy. I can look in his eyes and I know if he is telling me the truth. If he’s beengood, I reward him. If he’s been naughty he is punished. He understands that, accepts that, knows he needs that.

“You punish him?” Lindsey asks, incredulous. “How?”

“Spankings, for one. But I take his panties away, make him wear boxers, which he hates. I withhold orgasms. And remember the power of P? I withhold my P. That hurts him the most.”  

“And tease and denial,” Jim continued, “is how Carla teases me, gets me excited, and then denies my release, so that I am kept in a state of arousal.”

Carla nodded. “Men are powerless when they are aroused. They will do as they are told. Use their quirks to keep them aroused. Use the power of P to keep them aroused and to deny them and you will have the key to harmony and happiness.”

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Deliciously humiliating isn't it?  Have any of you ever experienced humiliation, or the revealing of your sissy secrets, at the hands of family members?  Mothers-in-law? Wife's friends?

I've probably mentioned before that Diane's best friend Linda knows all about me; my chastity, panty wearing, my cuckold status, etc.  The humiliation has waned over time, but it never goes away completely.

Love,

sissy terrie ๐Ÿ’“

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