Male Chastity - Comfort & Compliance

It's unlikely you're going to find the chastity belt that works best for you with your first purchase. Most of us spend more money than we should in search of that perfect fit. We start out with a cheap "knock off" because we don't want to waste money if we're not going to be serious about a chastity lifestyle.  But the cheap devices are so uncomfortable we're likely to get discouraged before giving chastity a chance.  

I've been in all of these devices and a couple others I gave away.   In many ways it was a trial and error process.   

Of those shown the most comfortable is the Holy Trainer (far left) and what I'm currently wearing followed by The Jailbird (middle).  The least comfortable was the CB-6000 (second from the right).

Realistically, when it comes to chastity as a lifestyle, some level of comfort matters if you're going to reap its benefits or reach the goals your keyholder might have in mind.  

Here's something from the long time blog Astonished by Her:

 Oh Lock Me, Boss Woman, Mother Woman

 

One law of Matriarchy

if i'm kept from masturbation, 

i'm more compliant.

i become more affiliated with Gynarchy.

Her needs, Her orders find home in my body.

Her stature grows, 

Her whims are honored.

The picture and prose resonate with me.   I'm also kept from masturbation unless it's in Her presence and I'm very compliant.  Nearly six and a half years will do that to you.

I'm happy honoring Her and Her whims.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗