Wearing Pantyhose - With or Without Panties

I think most women (and cd's, sissies, etc.) prefer to wear panties under their pantyhose.  

I could be wrong.   

I had packed some pantyhose on a business trip I took this week.  I only did so because I like the feel of them and I felt like doing something a little risque - going through security at the airport and maybe having to take my shoes off and let everyone see I wasn't wearing "socks."  The whole thing was unlikely since I have TSA PreCheck, but you never know.

So what's your preference?  Going "au naturel" under your pantyhose?

Or wearing some pretty panties?

Love

sissy terrie 👄

Two Sissies

 It's been awhile since I had a "Two for Tuesday" feature.

 For me, the femininity of these two outfits speak for themselves...

 Not sure I would have been good at ballet, but I certainly would have enjoyed giving it a try.

 

The full frothiness of this petticoat dress ensures that you're going to get plenty of attention.  I think I'd wear a simple white panty with it.  

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

 

Kinky Art Appreciation

Granted, this is all from a FemDom/sissy perspective.  

A few of pictures from some of my favorite artists that touch one or more of my "buttons."

I've always loved Rodzo's approach to FemDom.  Plenty of facesitting upon helpless mails, with the smothering often at the hands (and buttocks) of beautiful curvy women.  This poor boy was surprised his kinky girlfriend had a big sister...

This rendition of a pretty woman in a vintage babydoll pajama makes me swoon.   They don't make them with those puffy sleeves anymore...

Something from the great Sardax, who always seems to capture the scene like an Oscar-winning director.  The photo soothes with dominance and submission, with a sissy maid as the centerpiece no less...

And finally something from Youmine'-guo that features my favorite position - my legs spread and in the diaper position to accept Mistress' penetration.

I hope everyone had as wonderful a weekend as I did.  I was in bra and thigh highs while we did this by the way.  My panties had already been tossed aside.

Love,

sissy terrie 💋💋💋

Sissy Secrets

 We all have our little (or big) sissy secrets.  Some of them may be just fantasies we've never shared.  Others may be things we've actually done...

I thought it might be nice to just throw the question out there and see if anyone has anything they'd like to share here in a very non-judgemental setting.  So here goes...

What's the "sissiest" thing you've ever done and not shared with anyone, or your sissiest fantasy that you've never told a soul?

Feel free to leave your comment anonymously if you want.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Vintage Views - Babydolls on Parade

 Let me apologize for the lack of editorial content today.  It's a busy week.

 I'll let this montage of beautiful babydoll pajamas do the talking!

 After all, doesn't every sissy love babydoll pajamas?

 Love,

 sissy terrie 👄

Thoughts on Pegging

While yesterday's post was a rather thoughtful, tame and softer collection of thoughts on the subject of FemDom and Female Led Relationships, today's will probably make those of you with more prurient interests smile a little.

After having been on the "receiving end" of penetrative sex with Diane for so many years, I thought I'd share some things that have made it pleasurable - for the both of us...

First of all, foreplay is important.

The best sex always has plenty of foreplay.  Showing Her how much I want it turns both of us on.  So what if you gag a little?

Be realistic about size.

While most strap-on/pegging porn features leathered ladies with massive members, the fact of the matter is that our bottoms aren't made to accept "things" that big.  Find a dildo that is reasonable in size but can reach that special "P' spot.  Believe me, once She gets good at it, you'll love it!

A good lube is very important.

And you can never use too much.  More is better.  The application of the lube can be sexy in and of itself as evidenced by this picture.  It's also nice when She uses Her fingers to apply lube to our boi pussies!

Learn to help Her out.

You can assist Her in various positions.  Whether you "back onto it" or change your position to allow for more penetration, playing a more active role in the lovemaking will probably turn Her on!

Enjoy the moment.

Savor the intimacy.  It doesn't have to, nor should it, end when you have an orgasm.  Feeling Her inside of you is such a beautiful experience.  Let it last.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Living in a Female Led Relationship

Some mid-week thoughts and free advice on "living the life"...

After having written about some of our (Mistress and mine) more steamy scenes, those where She exerts Her sexual dominance and prowess over me, I'm often inundated with private emails and comments here telling me what a "lucky sissy" I am.  

I always love receiving those comments and hearing those words.  They are reminders that I should never take Diane's love for granted - NEVER.  They make me realize how many "men" out there who have desires that are very similar to mine never get the opportunity to experience some of the things I do.

At the same time a real life Female Led Relationship involves so much beyond the sex.  It's not always about chastity, feminization, strap-on sex, body worship, discipline, humiliation, etc.  Though all of these when taken in their totality play an important part in our lives, the fact is that as we've matured, they are not THE most important, nor are they the things that keep it all together.

The things that happen in our daily lives that are influenced by my surrendering control to Diane serve as the foundation of our relationship.  Let me give you some examples.  These are things I learned years ago from a dear friend, "Jane", a submissive wife to her dominant husband.  Diane and me knew the couple very well. As a submissive cd/sissy, I could relate to Jane and she even served as a "mentor" to me in some ways.  The following is a few pieces of advice she gave me.  Note that I've made "gender specific" changes to reflect our own specific situation.  She called them Jane's Rules...

Terry's Rules

Never React Immediately

Take your time responding - When something makes you uncomfortable, you don't agree with something, something angers you or you just flatly disagree, think about your response carefully before saying something.  

Compliment Her Regularly

Appreciate Her - Whenever She does something nice to or for you, take the time to thank Her properly. Point out Her achievements and praise Her.  Never let a day go buy without complimenting Her and thanking Her.

Don't be Upset When She's in a Bad Mood

Consider Her Feelings - When She's in a bad mood and not paying attention to your needs, don't whine or nag, be  patient and supportive of Her.  Be there for Her, just as She is there for you. 

Smile More - Be Happy

Make Her happier by being happy yourself - As Her submissive you must be attentive to Her needs and moods.  Your own mood is important as well.  No one likes being with a submissive who isn't in a bood mood.  Make an effort to appreciate the little things; this will put you in a better mood.  Your smile and happiness will make the world of difference to Her. 

Give Her Space 

Don't bother Her with too many questions - If you can tell She isn't feeling well, not talkative, etc. give Her some space and don't be constantly asking Her if you can do something for Her.  Ask once and if She says "No" then you must accept it, take a step back and wait patiently until you are needed.  

These are some of the suggestions Jane provided me.  There's more and they are all pretty simple and wise.  They may appear to be easy but they can be more difficult than you think to get used to.  Success starts when you, the submissive agrees to surrender control to your Dominant.  Once you've fully accepted that, it becomes much easier.  

Remember - "To thine own self be true."

Finally, a special shout-out to Jane who will always be a dear and loving friend.

Love,

sissy terrie 💕