Painful Memories

My first chastity device was actually a CB-3000,  a molded plastic cage that was quite popular when male chastity began it's rise in popularity decades ago.  It was clear and colorless and quite frankly, with all its little spaces capable of inflicting serious pain because of all the pinching it caused, very, very uncomfortable.  

I then graduated to the CB-6000 which, pleasing to many sissies who liked being locked, came in pink.  No less comfortable, it was the cage Diane put me in when it became time to "put up or shut up" about wanting to be in chastity.  I endured the pain and pinching but only a short while.  Diane then ordered me my first steel cage called the Jailbird.  Though still very restrictive, it was far more comfortable than the CB series.  I would be put back into the CB-3000 when there was need for me to go through metal detectors.  Instead of the little brass locks, Diane would use numbered plastic locks to keep me secure. 

Here's a photo that brings back memories of the CB-3000 and CB-6000.  I'd recognize those keys anywhere...

...as I would Diane's leather crop, which used to be Her favorite disciplinary toy in those days.  

Love,

sissy terrie

Laundering O/our Panties

Laundry day here and this sissy wife is staying busy.  Most laundry duties are pretty mundane.  But hand washing Mistress D's panties and my own is always very special.

I just love washing Her panties (and mine to a lesser extent).

Love,

sissy terrie 💝

Sunday Spankings - Be Careful What You Wish For

Last Sunday I had a post about Sunday Spankings where I mused about how some D/s relationships or Female Led Marriages set aside Sunday for disciplinary sessions.   my Wife happened to read the post (She doesn't read them all) but didn't say anything to me about it until about a half hour ago.

"Do you miss your Sunday spankings?" She asked me as I served Her a fresh cup of coffee.

"Well sometimes I do, but not really" I answered.

"I miss them" She said in Her inimitable authoritative way with a slight emphasis on the "I", the emphasis indicating that Her opinion is all that really matters on the issue.  She quickly added "Get your punishment panties out.  You'll be wearing them later.

That's all it took to my little "thing" to stir slightly in my tiny cage.  Visions of pulling my panties down to expose my girly ass for Diane to administer a spanking.  Had I done anything wrong this week?  Did it matter?  

"Yes Ma'am" I answered and asked if there was any specific spanking implement She would like me take out.

"No.  I'll decide later.  But you can take my strap-on out."

"Yes Ma'am" I answered, feeling like a very submissive sissy wife.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Some Very Feminine Thoughts

From the Tumblr Finding Freedon in Femininity...

"A confession: the very thought of being pregnant stirs my deepest passions. And actually being pregnant leaves me constantly and desperately horny for my husband’s hard, muscled body and deliciously thick cock. All I have ever wanted is to be a vessel for his seed."

Not all of our girly desires are this intense.  But some are 😍

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Sissy Masturbation - Different Strokes for Different Folks

We've all done it right?  Probably lots and lots of times.  Taking matters into our own hands or hand when our sexual energy and frustration gets the best of us can be a difficult topic to discuss with anyone.

I'm not going to write very much about it now.  Call this a lazy-sissy-ass post.  

All I'd like to know is...

Please share.  Don't limit yourself to just the physical or positioning aspect of it (of course those are important) but feel free to expound on any favorite toys, articles of lingerie, scenes, etc.  

I'm sure readers would love to hear.  Anonymous comments are welcome :)

Kisses,

👄👄👄 sissy terrie

Garter Belts - Over or Under Your Panties?

It really is an age old question and debate.  I've always thought that if the garter belt is prettier, more feminine, etc. than the panty, then it should receive a more prominent placement!  

Same is true with the panty.   The prettier of the two should take precedence.  

But if you choose to put the panty under the garter, you are faced with a little more "work" when  you have to go to the ladies room.

What to do?  It's a difficult decision that can make any sissy squirm!

Here's an interesting take on it from Andrea Friedman, a lovely purveyor of beautiful lingerie:

Should I wear the garter belt straps over or under my knickers? What about going to the bathroom!?

WELL, this is a subject that elicits many strong opinions! The real answer is that you can wear them either over or under - whichever way you prefer. For some people, wearing their knickers on top pinches the straps into their sensitive skin, or they prefer the visual effect of wearing the straps on top. If that sounds like you, wear your garter belt over your knickers. Then you can just unclasp the back hook and eye when you need to go to the bathroom and easily re-hook it after.

Others prefer to wear their suspenders under their knickers, for style reasons or so that they won’t need to unclasp any hooks throughout the day. This makes it quicker to undress, but you can always try both and see which feels best for you!

So there you have it.   Angela says it's up to you.  

terrie's advice?  Always go with the visual effect you like best!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

The Sunday Spanking

Happy Sunday!

In many D/s relationships, both Female or Male dominated, a portion of each Sunday is set aside for some type of formal review of the submissive's behavior during the past week.  It's a ritual that, depending on the couple, can be as formal or informal as they want.  We've personally known two such couples (both where the male was dominant) who did this every week.  The review and discussion was usually followed by a discipline session of some kind, most usually a spanking.  

I've learned that ritual can be very important in an alternative lifestyle relationship like D/s.  Setting up specific times for things, tasks, expectations, etc. are powerful commitments to one another.  These rituals along with other powerful symbols strengthen the bond between the Dominant and their submissive.  

At one stage in our relationship we also set Sunday aside for a review of my behavior and appropriate discipline.  But soon after I was ordered to submit a Daily Chastity Report which always includes a short narrative about the previous day and a self-assessment of my behavior, Diane decided that the Sunday meeting was no longer needed.  As far as the discipline goes, She metes it out when She deems it appropriate.

Spankings in some relationships can be very playful.   In others, especially ours, they are serious business.  That seriousness adds to the eroticism of it in my opinion.

Mrs. Sharpe appears to take the spankings she administers very seriously.  They even come with a crying towel!

Diane doesn't provide me with a crying towel during my spankings, even though I'm sometimes spanked to tears.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗