Joint Decision Making

In a Female Led Marriage, not ALL decisions are made solely by the wife....

 

From the Tumblr blog Bi Top For Cuckold Couples

“You’re much, much smaller than him.  Even when you’re at your most erect state and he’s still soft, there’s still no comparison” Michelle told the cuckold.  “And besides, you still have that nasty masturbation habit.”

The cuckold blushed with shame.  It was useless to argue.  She’d caught him masturbating numerous times and even though it had been awhile since the last time she caught him, he knew that she knew he still did it.  All he could say was “I’m sorry.”

“Well, that’s why we’ve decided to put you in chastity.”

The short piece above brings back vivid memories of my own initiation into chastity.  After we'd tried it several times before my becoming a cuckold, D had felt it (and me) were too high maintenance for it to work.  But after She began Her relationship with Karl, the decision to put me into chastity was a joint one.  It came with the caveat that suck it up and stop my complaining about it. 

I approached it more maturely and with less whining.  At the same time, we changed cages and spent more money so that I could be more comfortable.  That was more than 9 years ago.  

Love,

sissy terrie

 

Sexting, Chatting & Phone Sex

 

Photo is from the Tumblr site "The Dominant Wife" that had the following caption added:

"This is a nice way to ease your sub into cuckolding."

The caption in the photo and the added one resonate with me.  I've often spent time worshiping D while She's been on the phone with Karl.  In the earliest stage of their romance, there was the flirtatious texting and chatting.  All that eventually led to some full blown phone sex when they weren't able to get together.  I "participated" in some of those sessions and was left out of others.

I'd have to agree that for a sub who's a bit anxious about becoming a cuckold, this is a nice way to ease into it!

love,

sissy terrie 💕
 

Panties Are a Privilege

Here's a little something from one of my most loyal and dearest followers who at least for now shall remain anonymous.  It's about a "writing assignment" her Wife gave her early on in their Female Led Marriage.   I hope you enjoy! 

The Significance of my Panties

"I don't think you understand or appreciate the significance of the panties I'm making you wear" Catherine told her submissive husband immediately after she'd finished with his spanking.  

"You're to write a short essay.  I want to see that you understand this.  200 words exactly.  No more, no less.  I want it by tomorrow evening when I get home from work.  You'll read it to me before dinner" Catherine told him.  "Understand?" 

"Yes Ma'am" the penitent husband responded meekly and punctually delivered her assignment as directed.

Yes, I understand the significance of wearing wifey panties. I must wear panties that no sexy REAL  Woman would wear. No thongs or skimpy bikinis. No, no, no. I should wear panties like my mother wore, like the ones I first put on, like the ones I  first found in Mom’s dresser drawer or the laundry hamper. My panties should fully cover my useless tiny penis and sissy bottom and allow room for tucking away or my chastity cage.

I never wear black. Black is for Dominants. I prefer pink, but I also like white. It is so virginal (for when I am being denied), and pastels and floral patterns highlight our femininity. Lace and bows are a special treat. A real woman pays little attention to her panties unless she is preparing for a date and wants to arouse a man with sexy panties. But, I’m not aroused by panties on a woman. I  want to wear them.  I think about our panties all day long! And I have more pretty panties than any REAL Woman. You  allow me to wear these symbols of femininity as part of my devotion to You.  Wearing panties, wifey panties, is a privilege.

What a lovely "essay!"  An essay like this is far better than writing lines, and getting it at exactly 200 words is one of those beautiful examples of a Wife exerting Her authority just because she can.

I'm pretty sure I counted the words correctly!

Love,

sissy terrie 💋

May Day! May Day! - Time to Enjoy Yourself!!!!

Did you know that May is International Masturbation Month?

And also, May 28th is International Masturbation day?

I know it may seem a little strange to read about this on a blog written by someone who's been locked in chastity 99% of the time for more than 9 years.  That doesn't mean that I haven't masturbated in all that time.  When there's a will (along with a benevolent Mistress) there's a way!

So why wait until May 28th to have a good time and partake in a little bit (or a lot) of self love?  Why not do it today? 

And while you're at it, think about sharing with us how it went.   

Here's something from a post I put up in August '2022 on Sissy Masturbation: 

All I'd like to know is...

Please share.  Don't limit yourself to just the physical or positioning aspect of it (of course those are important) but feel free to expound on any favorite toys, articles of lingerie, scenes, etc.  

I'm sure readers would love to hear.  Anonymous comments are welcome :)

Kisses,

👄👄👄 sissy terrie 👋👏👌

"Still a Pantywaist"

Many of my CD and sissy friends are big fans of Full Cut/Granny Panties.  We all have our reasons of course, but I think a common thread (of nylon or cotton) is that they have a certainly "Womanly" or "Wifey" feel about them.

Here's something "Ashlee" submitted to me awhile ago.

For sissies...full coverage panties are desirable because the more silken material their rears can slide around on under their slips and petti's and chiffon dresses...the more girly is reminded that she is...a pantywaist...a prissy sissy that is meant to be aware of her frilly silky clothes at all times...the more it makes their bottoms so much more irresistible to fondle and spank.   Their tushes appear so silky and buttery soft to the touch and fun to look at.  Panties that fully encase and enclose their tiny bits, with pantylines visible to everyone under their clothes will help her realize her true feminine self but yet, they are, were and always will be...still a pantywaist!

Well said Ashlee.  I know the feeling!

Love,

sissy terrie

"Can You Blame Her?" - On Becoming a Cuckold

Over the past year or so I've received several emails from former readers offering short stories, essays, pictures and ideas for posts on the blog.   All of them provide their names and emails of course, but some prefer to simply remain anonymous.

Today's anonymous post comes from someone who's been a closet crossdresser since his early teens and married more than 25 years.   Though sub to his wife, he wrote to me that his becoming a cuckold came as a complete shock to him. He submitted the following essay.

The Need for a Real Man

For married sissies there is something utterly mortifying when your wife cuckolds you seemingly out of the blue.  But in retrospect, you shouldn't have been too surprised.

She knew what you did and she accepted it….at least she seemed to ….. she'd already told you having a cross dressing submissive husband would probably not have been her first choice...but she also told you she loved you....and knew this was who you really were.

You should have realized she wanted a real man…. as does any normal woman …. if she was a lesbian or bi then she might like to sleep alongside another silky nightdress …but she wasn't.

And she realized you had gotten worse …. she had hoped that having kids might change you …. but it didn’t …. not at all …. and although they’ve seen nothing they seem to have an idea.

There was some teasing on weekends…. she’d lay out a cute bra and panty set for you to wear before going out shopping with the kids for a few hours, knowing you'd slip into it as soon as they were gone.…..giving you time to play "sissy."  It was so thoughtful of her. 

And eventually when the kids had left home she’d play domme with you and scold you and treat you like a maid ….just like you wanted….She know how aroused you would get when she called you "a pathetic pantywaist of a husband ….."

"And everyone will eventually know …. you can’t say you want exposure one minute and hate it the next …." she would tease, knowing how this type of humiliation aroused you.

But not long after the kids were gone, she seemed to tire of it rather suddenly...she sought out a real man.

Can you blame her?

My thanks to "anonymous" for his submission.  I can't promise to post everything that people send me.  Some submission simply take too much time to edit, format, etc. or simply don't fit that well with the character of this blog.  But feel free to email me with something you think might add to the blog.

Love,

sissy terrie

Bridal Lingerie

Thankful to be back after a hiatus of sorts.  While i am a bit more "mature" since i posted last, things are going well here.  Still in chastity, pantied and ever-so-submissive. 

Hope to post once or twice a week as time allows.   Maybe some old friends will return.

Missed you all!  

Today's topic deals with one of mine and other CD's lifelong fantasies of being a bride and is taken from one of my favorite websites, Lingerie Briefs.

Bridal Synergy

                                                                                        By Ellen Lewis

The synergy between the bridal and lingerie industries has always fascinated me. It’s not about the wedding. It’s all about the artistry, the cherished memories unique to these tableaux.   Exquisite laces, delicate embroideries, luxurious fabrics, treasured details, pearls, crystals, floral motifs are all assembled in an enchanting conclave of beauty. Basking on this assortment, one can easily grasp how a woman’s sense of self would be enhanced by wearing any piece. I asked multiple brands to send me a few images of their Spring 24 bridal collections. The extraordinary response forced me to deeply edit some amazing choices. I just might expand on some later in the season.

Bridal Synergy

 Click on the link below the picture for more beautiful bridal lingerie!

Hope to see you here again soon.

love,

sissy terrie