Spanking Panties

"Go get your spanking panties" She said, the tone in Her voice reflecting how irate She was with me.  "The flowered ones."

The list of "things to do today" She'd left me hadn't been completed.  I didn't have a good excuse, not that any excuse would have mattered.

I have two different pairs of spanking panties.   One panty is a simple white panty girdle.  Its firming tightness seems to intensify the sting of the hairbrush, crop or hand when She spanks me.  

The other panty, the flowered one, is a full cut brief with a pink rose pattern on it.  That panty is reserved for spankings administered by Her lover.  Those panties are meant to intensify the humiliation of the spanking.

They always seem to do that.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Let's Face it...

...there's more than one way to worship a woman.  All forms of worship don't have to be physical but can include an emotional connection of devotion, obedience and servitude.  But the most intimate forms of worship tend to focus on a woman's body and in most cases, more specific parts of her body.

Paying special attention to a woman's privates is often the most intimate act between a submissive and his/her Mistress.  I've spent countless hours worshiping my beautiful Wife's private parts (both front and back) in a variety of ways.

Though I've blissfully enjoyed each of those times, my absolute favorite times are when She lowers Her pussy and ass onto my face.   I'll never forget the first time She did that.  It was intoxicating and addicting.

I remain addicted to this day...and face-sitting is still my favorite way to worship Her.

Love,

sissy terrie 👅👄💋

"Sometimes I Wonder..." - A Sissy Love Letter

I have a very, very dear sissy friend that I've known for quite a long time.  We've shared so much with one another over the years.  She often tells me how I know more about her than her wife does!  We all have our "best friends" in life.  She's definitely one of mine.  She sent me this lovely email this morning.  It really made my day...

Dixie Belle Scallop Trim

Good morning, dear friend. Sometimes I wonder what panties my friend terrie is wearing. Sometimes I wonder how long you stands in front of your panty drawer before choosing, or if you just hurriedly grab a pair.  Sometimes I wonder if you think of me every time you slip on a pair of Dixie Belles.  

Sometimes I wonder: how often each day the confines of your Holy Trainer are felt, how often you desires you Mistress’s pussy, how you wish you could dress up and be “terrie” all day, what it feels like to be told to “go and get your baby stuff ready” by your Mistress.

Sometimes I wonder how preoccupied  you become with your sissy needs when you’ve been denied for a long time. I wonder a lot of things, and when I do, I often think about being with you lounging by the pool in floral one-piece women's swimsuits, sharing a cold adult beverage....and just enjoying our femininity, talking about all such things.....Love, Nancy

Nancy and me do share some "matching panty days."   I sometimes even get permission to wear something other than pink!   Dixie Belle panties from Shadowline are probably our favorites...we consider them very "wifey."

Nancy's a very special friend!

Love,

sissy terrie 💋

The Rest of the Story...

I wrote this little piece of "flash fiction" several years ago.  It's not exactly how my "secret" got out to my own mother-in-law, not even close.  Nonetheless, it was just as embarrasing to me.  Here's the original piece.

Busted

You thought she was going to be gone for three to four hours.  Plenty of time for you to slip into her panties, go into your room, read your favorite sissy blogs, take two of your comfy pillows and....

You were wrong.

So engrossed were you with your reading that you never heard the garage door open, her calling for you as she walked up the stairs or even opened the door to your bedroom.

It was at the exact moment that your orgasm had reached the point of no return that she screamed....

"What the f.....????"

In the middle of your ecstatic moan, you turned around and saw your wife standing there aghast with your mother-in-law by her side.  You wet her panties in front of the two of them.

Your life would never be the same.

Love,

sissy terrie

Mother's Day 2024

I've never shared this on the blog or with anyone else before but after a discussion with Diane last night during which we were reminiscing about some "funny" things that happened to and with us over the years, we figured it wouldn't hurt to let this little secret out.

My mother-in-law knew that I wore panties.  I'll write more about how and when she found out about it in a future post.  When it happened, I thought it was the end of the world.  It turned out to be no big deal.  "Mom" knew how to keep a secret.  And like her beautiful and loving daughter, she accepted me for who I was.

Happy Mother's Day to the both of them, and all the Mom's around the world who love their children just the way they are.

Love,

sissy terie

Joint Decision Making

In a Female Led Marriage, not ALL decisions are made solely by the wife....

 

From the Tumblr blog Bi Top For Cuckold Couples

“You’re much, much smaller than him.  Even when you’re at your most erect state and he’s still soft, there’s still no comparison” Michelle told the cuckold.  “And besides, you still have that nasty masturbation habit.”

The cuckold blushed with shame.  It was useless to argue.  She’d caught him masturbating numerous times and even though it had been awhile since the last time she caught him, he knew that she knew he still did it.  All he could say was “I’m sorry.”

“Well, that’s why we’ve decided to put you in chastity.”

The short piece above brings back vivid memories of my own initiation into chastity.  After we'd tried it several times before my becoming a cuckold, D had felt it (and me) were too high maintenance for it to work.  But after She began Her relationship with Karl, the decision to put me into chastity was a joint one.  It came with the caveat that suck it up and stop my complaining about it. 

I approached it more maturely and with less whining.  At the same time, we changed cages and spent more money so that I could be more comfortable.  That was more than 9 years ago.  

Love,

sissy terrie

 

Sexting, Chatting & Phone Sex

 

Photo is from the Tumblr site "The Dominant Wife" that had the following caption added:

"This is a nice way to ease your sub into cuckolding."

The caption in the photo and the added one resonate with me.  I've often spent time worshiping D while She's been on the phone with Karl.  In the earliest stage of their romance, there was the flirtatious texting and chatting.  All that eventually led to some full blown phone sex when they weren't able to get together.  I "participated" in some of those sessions and was left out of others.

I'd have to agree that for a sub who's a bit anxious about becoming a cuckold, this is a nice way to ease into it!

love,

sissy terrie 💕
 

Panties Are a Privilege

Here's a little something from one of my most loyal and dearest followers who at least for now shall remain anonymous.  It's about a "writing assignment" her Wife gave her early on in their Female Led Marriage.   I hope you enjoy! 

The Significance of my Panties

"I don't think you understand or appreciate the significance of the panties I'm making you wear" Catherine told her submissive husband immediately after she'd finished with his spanking.  

"You're to write a short essay.  I want to see that you understand this.  200 words exactly.  No more, no less.  I want it by tomorrow evening when I get home from work.  You'll read it to me before dinner" Catherine told him.  "Understand?" 

"Yes Ma'am" the penitent husband responded meekly and punctually delivered her assignment as directed.

Yes, I understand the significance of wearing wifey panties. I must wear panties that no sexy REAL  Woman would wear. No thongs or skimpy bikinis. No, no, no. I should wear panties like my mother wore, like the ones I first put on, like the ones I  first found in Mom’s dresser drawer or the laundry hamper. My panties should fully cover my useless tiny penis and sissy bottom and allow room for tucking away or my chastity cage.

I never wear black. Black is for Dominants. I prefer pink, but I also like white. It is so virginal (for when I am being denied), and pastels and floral patterns highlight our femininity. Lace and bows are a special treat. A real woman pays little attention to her panties unless she is preparing for a date and wants to arouse a man with sexy panties. But, I’m not aroused by panties on a woman. I  want to wear them.  I think about our panties all day long! And I have more pretty panties than any REAL Woman. You  allow me to wear these symbols of femininity as part of my devotion to You.  Wearing panties, wifey panties, is a privilege.

What a lovely "essay!"  An essay like this is far better than writing lines, and getting it at exactly 200 words is one of those beautiful examples of a Wife exerting Her authority just because she can.

I'm pretty sure I counted the words correctly!

Love,

sissy terrie 💋