The Sissy Size Dilemma

Note:  Today's post comes from a reader and follower of the blog who muses on the topic of penis size and how it relates to sissies like us.  I'm sure we'll recognize ourselves in some of the things she brings up.  Enjoy!

 

I admitted it to myself years ago that I am a sissy. I wear panties every day. I live to serve Women. When I think about “having sex” with my Wife, I do not think about intercourse because She does not allow penetration, has not for years.

There was a time in my life that I used to feel bad that I had a small penis. (I won’t say how small I am. I will just say that it is not over four inches.) But now, now that I’ve accepted my status in life as a sissy, I am happy to be small. It makes sissy life easier.

Panties of various styles fit better, and often no bulge is visible even without a tuck. When I do tuck (often), there is little discomfort and achieving a smooth frontal appearance is easy with only a light control brief.

If I’m not tucked and out in public and happen to get an erection, it is (of course) not noticeable at all. My wife likes to make teasing comments when we are out to see if She can “get a rise” out of me, and I must tell Her if I become erect because She can’t tell even if She stares right at my crotch. Related to teasing, my small size gives Her plenty of material to tease me about. Even though I’ve come to prefer my small size, I still find it extremely humiliating to be reminded about it – or “threatened” that She will reveal it to Her friends.

There was a time, years ago, when I foolishly used to wish that I “had a big one.” But, no more. Since I have accepted that I am a sissy and since my Wife only allows me to pleasure Her with my mouth and with Her vibrator (which is larger than me, of course and as she loves to point out “has much more lasting power”), size truly doesn’t matter. I am proud to be small!

I’ve often wondered if it is more common for males with small penises to become sissies. I do think I was born this way. I first wore panties when I was very young. 

 

Many thanks to my anonymous friends.  The line that I absolutely love is "I am proud to be small."  How beautiful!  Talk about accepting ourselves for who we really are.  

Editor's note:  I added the picture :)

 

Love,

 

sissy terrie

Shared Sissy Intimacies

I correspond with a dear sissy friend nearly every day.  It's been going on for several years now.  She reached out to me one day and told me how she had been following Diane and my original blog that we "sunsetted" quite some time ago.

We discovered just how much we had in common.  She's a few years older than me but we more or less grew up around the same time, with similar family backgrounds and early crossdressing experiences. Our relationship has blossomed and simply put, there's nothing that i wouldn't share with her.  We call ourselves "sissy sisters."

"So, what is my sissy sister wearing today?"

We do silly things like have "Matching Panty Days."  Today is one of those days and we're both in matching pink "Dixie Belle" panties.

I promise to write more about my special sissy girlfriend in the future but for now I just want to say how lucky I am to have her in my life.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Painful Memories

My first chastity device was actually a CB-3000,  a molded plastic cage that was quite popular when male chastity began it's rise in popularity decades ago.  It was clear and colorless and quite frankly, with all its little spaces capable of inflicting serious pain because of all the pinching it caused, very, very uncomfortable.  

I then graduated to the CB-6000 which, pleasing to many sissies who liked being locked, came in pink.  No less comfortable, it was the cage Diane put me in when it became time to "put up or shut up" about wanting to be in chastity.  I endured the pain and pinching but only a short while.  Diane then ordered me my first steel cage called the Jailbird.  Though still very restrictive, it was far more comfortable than the CB series.  I would be put back into the CB-3000 when there was need for me to go through metal detectors.  Instead of the little brass locks, Diane would use numbered plastic locks to keep me secure. 

Here's a photo that brings back memories of the CB-3000 and CB-6000.  I'd recognize those keys anywhere...

...as I would Diane's leather crop, which used to be Her favorite disciplinary toy in those days.  

Love,

sissy terrie

Laundering O/our Panties

Laundry day here and this sissy wife is staying busy.  Most laundry duties are pretty mundane.  But hand washing Mistress D's panties and my own is always very special.

I just love washing Her panties (and mine to a lesser extent).

Love,

sissy terrie 💝

Sunday Spankings - Be Careful What You Wish For

Last Sunday I had a post about Sunday Spankings where I mused about how some D/s relationships or Female Led Marriages set aside Sunday for disciplinary sessions.   my Wife happened to read the post (She doesn't read them all) but didn't say anything to me about it until about a half hour ago.

"Do you miss your Sunday spankings?" She asked me as I served Her a fresh cup of coffee.

"Well sometimes I do, but not really" I answered.

"I miss them" She said in Her inimitable authoritative way with a slight emphasis on the "I", the emphasis indicating that Her opinion is all that really matters on the issue.  She quickly added "Get your punishment panties out.  You'll be wearing them later.

That's all it took to my little "thing" to stir slightly in my tiny cage.  Visions of pulling my panties down to expose my girly ass for Diane to administer a spanking.  Had I done anything wrong this week?  Did it matter?  

"Yes Ma'am" I answered and asked if there was any specific spanking implement She would like me take out.

"No.  I'll decide later.  But you can take my strap-on out."

"Yes Ma'am" I answered, feeling like a very submissive sissy wife.

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Some Very Feminine Thoughts

From the Tumblr Finding Freedon in Femininity...

"A confession: the very thought of being pregnant stirs my deepest passions. And actually being pregnant leaves me constantly and desperately horny for my husband’s hard, muscled body and deliciously thick cock. All I have ever wanted is to be a vessel for his seed."

Not all of our girly desires are this intense.  But some are 😍

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Sissy Masturbation - Different Strokes for Different Folks

We've all done it right?  Probably lots and lots of times.  Taking matters into our own hands or hand when our sexual energy and frustration gets the best of us can be a difficult topic to discuss with anyone.

I'm not going to write very much about it now.  Call this a lazy-sissy-ass post.  

All I'd like to know is...

Please share.  Don't limit yourself to just the physical or positioning aspect of it (of course those are important) but feel free to expound on any favorite toys, articles of lingerie, scenes, etc.  

I'm sure readers would love to hear.  Anonymous comments are welcome :)

Kisses,

👄👄👄 sissy terrie

Garter Belts - Over or Under Your Panties?

It really is an age old question and debate.  I've always thought that if the garter belt is prettier, more feminine, etc. than the panty, then it should receive a more prominent placement!  

Same is true with the panty.   The prettier of the two should take precedence.  

But if you choose to put the panty under the garter, you are faced with a little more "work" when  you have to go to the ladies room.

What to do?  It's a difficult decision that can make any sissy squirm!

Here's an interesting take on it from Andrea Friedman, a lovely purveyor of beautiful lingerie:

Should I wear the garter belt straps over or under my knickers? What about going to the bathroom!?

WELL, this is a subject that elicits many strong opinions! The real answer is that you can wear them either over or under - whichever way you prefer. For some people, wearing their knickers on top pinches the straps into their sensitive skin, or they prefer the visual effect of wearing the straps on top. If that sounds like you, wear your garter belt over your knickers. Then you can just unclasp the back hook and eye when you need to go to the bathroom and easily re-hook it after.

Others prefer to wear their suspenders under their knickers, for style reasons or so that they won’t need to unclasp any hooks throughout the day. This makes it quicker to undress, but you can always try both and see which feels best for you!

So there you have it.   Angela says it's up to you.  

terrie's advice?  Always go with the visual effect you like best!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

The Sunday Spanking

Happy Sunday!

In many D/s relationships, both Female or Male dominated, a portion of each Sunday is set aside for some type of formal review of the submissive's behavior during the past week.  It's a ritual that, depending on the couple, can be as formal or informal as they want.  We've personally known two such couples (both where the male was dominant) who did this every week.  The review and discussion was usually followed by a discipline session of some kind, most usually a spanking.  

I've learned that ritual can be very important in an alternative lifestyle relationship like D/s.  Setting up specific times for things, tasks, expectations, etc. are powerful commitments to one another.  These rituals along with other powerful symbols strengthen the bond between the Dominant and their submissive.  

At one stage in our relationship we also set Sunday aside for a review of my behavior and appropriate discipline.  But soon after I was ordered to submit a Daily Chastity Report which always includes a short narrative about the previous day and a self-assessment of my behavior, Diane decided that the Sunday meeting was no longer needed.  As far as the discipline goes, She metes it out when She deems it appropriate.

Spankings in some relationships can be very playful.   In others, especially ours, they are serious business.  That seriousness adds to the eroticism of it in my opinion.

Mrs. Sharpe appears to take the spankings she administers very seriously.  They even come with a crying towel!

Diane doesn't provide me with a crying towel during my spankings, even though I'm sometimes spanked to tears.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗

Gurly Bra & Panty

It's been a really, really long time since I've featured a pretty bra and panty set here.  

That being said this might be one to get things back on track.

The panty is a bit skimpy and probably not recommended for a sissy who's in chastity or with an average or above average sized clitty.  It just wouldn't be very pretty to look at.   Nonetheless, it would probably very nice to wear.

Love,

sissy terrie 💗

Missing my Girdle & National Shapewear Day

 The email from Rago didn't arrive until later yesterday evening informing me that yesterday was National Shapewear Day.  That's right.  Of all people I should have known better and circled the date on my calendar.  Believe me, I won't forget next year!

I can't celebrate it today since I was told ahead of time which panties I'd have to wear today (pink Dixie Belle's if anyone is interested) but I hope I'm allowed to make up for missing this significant days for those of us who have a liking for girdles and other garments that have that firming and curving effect!

This is one of my faves.  Do you think it makes my ass look big?

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

P.S.  Don't worry, I won't forget this girly day next year!

Sensual, Sexy and Sissy Swishy Sounds

A well fitting and firm long ling girdle that holds your thighs together (I highly recommend Rago), garters, quality nylon stockings and your favorite heels...

It's the perfect combination to wear while practicing your "girly walk!"

Turn your speakers on high...

 

Delicious isn't it?

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

Sissy Gurlfriends

Here's a slightly edited post from, another blog, another time and another place that is oh-so-relevant today.  I was either prophetic, or it's a "dream come true."

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When sissy gurlfriends are together, they should always wear panties that complement each other.

 

And the sissier of the two will wear what the other one tells her!

Love,

sissy terrie 👄

 

Just Pink & Only Pink

Mistress Diane's Directive's (MDD's) are more like official decrees than they are simple everyday orders or lists of things to do.  They're often the result of some situation or behavior of mine that She feels needs to be addressed.  Other times, they come out of nowhere, out of the clear blue so to speak or in this case...somewhere out of the pink.

A couple of months ago Mistress decided that effective immediately, i could only wear pink colored panties.  She didn't want to see anything else in my panty drawer.  i didn't have to throw all my other pretty pastels, floral patterned or non-pink panties away, I just had to store them in a bin in our closet "for possible future use."

Now trust me when i say this, i already had plenty of pink panties.  However, if i was going to have to wear pink every day, i thought i could probably use a few more.  She gave me permission to buy some modest, granny style panties.  

my choice?  The Dixie Belle Scallop Trim High Waist Full Coverage Panty!

The simple but feminine panty is actually "pinker" than how it appears in the photo.  They're made by "Shadowline Lingerie" but i bought them on Amazon.  They kind of run a little big so you may want to take that into consideration.  For some granny style panties i feel comfortable in a size 7 but for this on, a size 6 fits me perfectly!

Have a wonderful day!

love,

sissy terrie

National Underwear Day

How many of you knew today was National Underwear Day?

 I was planning to celebrate by wearing these...you know, something simple and feminine. 

But Diane told me She had "other" plans....

Naturally, I was a little excited and at the same time a little concerned.

Turns out, Diane along with "a special friend," decided that since it was Friday...I belonged in something frilly and sissy!

I'd be curious to know how and who else might be celebrating!

Love,

sissy terrie 💕

P.S.  I know it's been a looooong time since either Diane or me posted.  I ask that you respect our privacy about our decision not to post.  Rest assured that we are both well and hope you are also.